Planning to visit a swingers club

[Sam69Melbourne]

Hi guys,

We are planning a visit to Swingers club in January and I need some tips.
We have been to a one in Europe. But we didn’t have sex with any other couple. We just watched others. We discuss about what we saw in the last club since we visited that place.

Now we are planning to go to another one in January. But wife already mentioned that she wants to just watch other people exactly the last time. But I would love her to be intimate with a couple or a guy. Do you guys have any suggestions or tips for me?

 

[Godjohne]

Let me know too, it’s something I have discussed with the gf but have not gone yet.

 

[Ht805cpl]

Hi guys,

We are planning a visit to Swingers club in January and I need some tips.
We have been to a one in Europe. But we didn’t have sex with any other couple. We just watched others. We discuss about what we saw in the last club since we visited that place.

Now we are planning to go to another one in January. But wife already mentioned that she wants to just watch other people exactly the last time. But I would love her to be intimate with a couple or a guy. Do you guys have any suggestions or tips for me?

You need t9 talk to her, not people on this site, she is the one who has to be willing! Just go, perhaps she will meet the right couple or guy to play around with, or maybe you and her can play together in a Simi open area where others can see and she may warm up to wanting something more, if not at least you had sex with her and have made progress. The wonderful thing of clubs is you can do as much or as little as you want. Feel honored she is willing to go, and view and experience the openness of sex clubs. We love clubs and private parties such a great place to meet some new fun people to have sex with. Best of luck and let us know how it went. Message me if you’d like to talk more, from a female perspective!! 💋

 

[Sam69Melbourne]

You need t9 talk to her, not people on this site, she is the one who has to be willing! Just go, perhaps she will meet the right couple or guy to play around with, or maybe you and her can play together in a Simi open area where others can see and she may warm up to wanting something more, if not at least you had sex with her and have made progress. The wonderful thing of clubs is you can do as much or as little as you want. Feel honored she is willing to go, and view and experience the openness of sex clubs. We love clubs and private parties such a great place to meet some new fun people to have sex with. Best of luck and let us know how it went. Message me if you’d like to talk more, from a female perspective!! 💋

Thank you very much for the detailed response. I will DM you 🙂

 

[Bigcreampie94]

Hi guys,

We are planning a visit to Swingers club in January and I need some tips.
We have been to a one in Europe. But we didn’t have sex with any other couple. We just watched others. We discuss about what we saw in the last club since we visited that place.

Now we are planning to go to another one in January. But wife already mentioned that she wants to just watch other people exactly the last time. But I would love her to be intimate with a couple or a guy. Do you guys have any suggestions or tips for me?

Not a good place to begin the easy and relationship saver is before anything else have a lot of talks about whY your wanting this lifestyle. Decus what your ok with what your not what your not sure about.then come to an agreement on were to try. Rember honesty is the only way to minimize the risk. We're human we get jealous turnd off all kind of things you weren't aware of that you didn't think would bother one of your nerves. Two when starting out I don't recommend your friends if your starting out I lost 2 good friends along the way because they assumed they could get a foot in the main relationship. Thankfully my wife and I are securely in love. Nothing. Is worth losing your loved one over a sex experiment. 3 all partys involved at any time from the 1st -5000st everyone has feelings the second anyone feels uncomfortable for what ever reason stop. Be honest with the person ie(wife or hubby) stop just say I'm feeling uncomfortable. The Invited party is normally not a newbie. They know the rules it shouldn't have to be said but always meet EVERY one in public first. If you don't like them at bar you won't like them in you bed. As long as you stick along those guidelines you should be ok. Rember sex is supposed to be fun. Not ruin marriages.if you want to ruin it just cheat. Feel free to ask me anything anytime