For anyone who remembers anything I post here is an update for you. My wife has been open with me tonight about her back and forth uncertainty with trying another man. We didn't get to finish the deep heart to heart talk because being parents and life takes up a lot of time. However, we have set a time tonight to speak more on the matter and this will give me a chance to fully express my desires, why I think I have them, the reasons I'm okay with this and what I would need as a husband to still feel the love and appreciation that every man wants from their wife. I will update on this post and offer any guidance if I learn anything from this conversation. Hopefully good or bad I can help someone else find a good or better path to reaching their goals respectfully and with integrity.