Update on the update - she didn’t go to the party and said I know why you wanted me to go because of the player nature of her boss and why when I know what he is like so again she wanted to know why I want her to go with other guys and wife should only be for her husband and it’s disgusting etc etc , tried to explain I want to see her happy and fulfilled and her pleasure is my only aim and she knows I love watching her vibe so that would be sort of next level - again shot down - so I told her that all the names of her ex coworkers had to be deleted from her phone and tell them not to phone her again as why would I allow another man to chat to my wife ( bit back story - she was one of 3 women working with about 10 guys - one was boss ...... , other was lesbian and my wife - before she met me she had fucked one of them and had a sort of affair with another - both of which she has there numbers - So this morning after me telling her that she had her hand in my panties and as usual wanking me a bit - I rubbed her pussy - had been slapped away previous - and on Sunday I walked in - she was on her phone looking at something then closed it down ? - so does anyone know how to check search history on Apple I phone 10 x ? - again got me thinking what was she looking at and why was she in my panties after me telling her to delete the men’s numbers ?? Is there something going on there - a couple of them phone her on and off but she mostly never puts it on speaker or goes into another room and sometimes I hear her dirty laugh she has so I know something crude or dirty has been said - what do you guys think of all that ??? Sorry it’s so long - a lot to try and explain
Trying to get my wife to being wanted by other men
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works for us wife gets turn on and she admit what she wants and what she done then I let her cum.
Got the house to ourselves tonight so think it’s a drink , hopefully dress up and then vibe night ,as mentioned previously I asked my wife to delete the phone nos of ex work colleagues ( one has fucked her before I met her ) but she never really said which one do I don’t know for sure if his no is one of them - probably got to be - right ? , anyways I checked today and all the nos are still there - she said she would delete them ? - anyways all there names are off limits but another guy she knew , her sons boss Sandy took his cock out in his office to her - again no details of what happened after that - might talk about big cocks in general then slip him into the chat when she’s good and horny , she has agreed dirty talk gets her good and wet and her pussy really slack - I’ve said I want to video it and she’s agreed - it’s so maddening , her body and nipples and pussy really respond to dirty talk about her being a cock teaser and her wanting / needing to be used , but she stubbornly refuses to believe that’s the case - she must realise how turned on she is - so why the act that she doesn’t want it when clearly her body is telling her she does ? How do I help her to get over the guilt / refusal to believe she wants to fuck without compromising my marriage - she won’t watch porn / dislikes reading long novels etc - she has said however if she has a drink she may join in with the dirty chat so that might reveal something what’s going on in her mind / her wants and desires ?? What do you guys think ?😀
Last night was very interesting , once my wife was warmed up I mentioned her sons boss and took a real chance and mentioned her sisters fiancé , she had about 3 rolling orgasms to that -told her once a slut always a slut and that I loved her being a slut in the past and it really turned me on - then I asked which one had the biggest cock and who fucked her the best - in between moans she said with usual vagueness - one day I might tell you now - I said tell me now but she went back to working her hole, so will exploit that avenue and see where it goes , we dressing up tonight and having another session so going to film it on go pro - can’t upload from I phone ? - looks like she really gets off on the taboo of fucking her sisters fiancé , told her to fuck herself with the vibe and think about there cocks - she put it in right away and was lifting her ass off the bed really fucking it strong - can’t wait until tonight 😀
Mentioned the sisters fiancé again and the other guy Sandy - again she was coming hard and long , tried to get her to tell me who had the best cock - best fuck but just the usual , maybe one day I’ll tell you - but at last it’s a small avenue to exploit and assured her I lloved the fact she was a slut in the past - once a slut always a slut and that I hoped she still was - no reprimand for any of that just working the vibe hard and soaking wet - baby steps eh 😀😀 is anyone in the same situation as me with a similar minded wife ???? Let me know if you think I’m making progress guys and gals
Interesting sub plot - wife had changed jobs ( she is a small coach driver ) and guess what - the guy who had fucked her and who she had a short affair with before I met her - but while I was seeing her he was still leaving love you / missing you etc notes on her wipers and waved to her all the time , HAPPENS to work at place she has moved too AND she had a couple of texts she replied to but sort of hid it / quick reply from me ????? - so if ANYONE at all is reading this thread let me know what you think esp mr Jon day as he has been following it and thank you Jon for that - I noticed nothing and will check her phone if I get a safe chance - usually there’s nothing there though - 😀😀 softly softly catchee monkey I think is the correct saying eh 😀😀😛
Yes hopefully a glimmer of hope appears Jon - I’m sure you have experienced the same - still mentioning her sisters guy and that’s still doing it for her , also been saying I love it that she was a slut in the past and I bet she still is - did that again last night - tonight we trying our sex machine and dressing up and using the vibes , told her can’t wait to see her being used by it and if I cleverly combine the guy and being used by him instead of the machine , I’ll see if she is ok with maybe naming it after him to start , still no mention again of guy at her work but she has admitted to using her big vibe during the day so she has got to be fantasising about something / someone during her solo play time ??😀 she wouldn’t say what or who if I asked I don’t think - or maybe ask her to name the dildo on the machine , that might be too obvious or she give another name to cover her tracks / throw me off the scent eh - it’s real game of cat and mouse ha ha - there is a slut in there somewhere Jon 😀😀😀
Ask her if you can send her pics/ gif that you like. Then start daily, ask her which ones she likes. Mine was shy, very shy. Once she is comfortable (6 years and thousands of pics 🙊) she will be saying stuff like "I cant wait for a huge cock to wreck my pussy for you" during sex and then doing a photoshoot like this
Only problem with that is my wife is old school ( 58 ) and doesn’t know what a gif is I think , can u suggest another way to gauge her interest , think possibly naming the dildo on the machine is a good start and see how she reacts to that ? , think it’s more the taboo aspect of taking her sisters man than actually him that arouses her or both ? - I have asked her who the biggest cock she has taken / given her her best fucking and I get a vague answer like - o W day I might tell you 🙁
Sex machine has arrived and looks good - she showed slight interest as per usual - was like that with the vibrators - now I suspect she using one or more on a daily basis - she eyed the different size ends but didn’t say much - once she fully warmed up and taking a decent size one I will combine her being used with the sisters guys name and gauge her reaction - going to be an interesting night 😀😀🎤 the cat has set another trap lol 
When she is ready, and getting pounded hard ask her "if this could be any guy in the world no strings attached who is this? " whatever she answers reply genuinely " good that is so hot! Call his name baby
Yes I could try that too but going on her reaction to sisters guys name previously he might be the best bet , if she lost in the moment I might get another name out of her - I don’t know if the ex co worker who had her previous to me has been in contact with her as she has found out again they working for same company - checked her phone other night and all her recent calls etc blank ? - ideal scenario would be when in heat she calls out his name
She is aware of my desire to share her and she already knows I would be fine with it but is reluctant to say the least to do it , least if she regularly getting pounded from the machine it and it has a name that does it for her it may be another step closer to taking his real cock
She has told me that she could get fucked any night she wanted as she has phone numbers of ex coworkers that would all do her in a heartbeat , she has cheated ina previous relationship so knows all the tricks of the trade so to speak but insists that although she has a husband who actually wants her to go with other men , she never would but occasionally does things like clear her call history or be texting , then on my appearance ends the text or closes the page ?? Curious and curiouser eh ? Opinions and comments gratefully welcomed 😀
I know that is strange , I thought it was possibly the ex coworkers talking between themselves that was stopping her with my wife as a couple are players and she knows I think not to be trusted , however she has another job for a different company and as mentioned before the guy who has fucked her and had a short affair with ( before I met her) works for same firm and she has mentioned to me that he works there - I never reacted in the slightest so maybe something might come of that ? Is your partner / wife’s situation similar ?
My wife is just very fussy and also says that it might change things between us. We are very happy together and are soul mates too. I try to explain that it is 100 percent just sex and nothing else. Also without fancying someone then she can't just do it. I have told her best friend that I really want her to have sex with other guys. Her friend is very helpful and says she will sow the seeds and help out. She says she will get her talking and hopefully something will happen. She thinks it will happen when I least expect it.
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