I'm a guy, not sure if I'm allowed to say anything here .but here goes.
I'm now 51 but when I was 21 yrs old I was going thru a phase of self identity I would say lol.
Anyways , rented a car and drove from new York to Florida family visit, and somewhere in Virginia I pulled over in the heat of my thoughts I pulled the parking brake handle and slipped on a condom and while other cars were zooming by ( don't worry it was very dark outside )
I stripped down and slowly slid down that hand brake handle and fucked myself.
I still yo this day can't believe I did that and worse how it would have been if a cop pulled up thinking I broke down on the side of the road and seen that way .
Well as you can guess I turned out being Bi but would absolutely never even think of doing that again.