The progress so far, and where to go from there

A ja proponuję Ci nie nalegać , “ kropla drąży skałę” , odpuść temat na jakiś czas , zobaczysz że sama wróci do tego i w tedy zaproponuj jej np: wyjście na imprezę ale bez ciebie , ubierz ją sexy, i daj paczkę gumek 😉 , zasugeruj jej że może zaszaleć ale bezpiecznie .
 
That's hot - I've done the dildo with my cock a number of times and my wife quite likes the fantasy of getting fucked by two cocks but she hasn't been shared yet and it was quite a long road to just get to the point where she could admit this all turned her on and start to become part of our sexual roleplay. She's the kind of girl who can sometimes take things from 0 to 11 though, so I feel like if we could ever get away from the kids, in the right environment, things might jump forward.
I really wish wives were more open to just embracing being a slut. We should be able to fuck. Anybody want as much as possible? It feels so good.
 
I really wish wives were more open to just embracing being a slut. We should be able to fuck. Anybody want as much as possible? It feels so good.
Yeah, I don't know why it has to be such an uphill battle, especially when I am 100% sure she will enjoy it. I married her because she was a slut but now she's all trying to be a proper wife, which is not what I signed up for haha.
 
A ja proponuję Ci nie nalegać , “ kropla drąży skałę” , odpuść temat na jakiś czas , zobaczysz że sama wróci do tego i w tedy zaproponuj jej np: wyjście na imprezę ale bez ciebie , ubierz ją sexy, i daj paczkę gumek 😉 , zasugeruj jej że może zaszaleć ale bezpiecznie .
Had to translate that but great advice! Thank you, that idea of having her go out without me and bring rubbers I’m going to have to try 😉
 
Hello everyone, this is my story so far on where I am at with this fantasy becoming reality. Currently I'm a 28 year old and she is 28 as well (we can call her B), we've been together 9 years now. She is 135 lbs. 5ft 6 blonde with a good rack and a tight ass. She has had only one other sexual partner before me, and which she described him as a boring fuck when they did fuck. My realization of my kink for fantasizing her with another man started early in our relationship, when we used go out drinking at bars. Fueled by alcohol, weed and courage I always let her do her magic to get "free drinks" from men by flirting with them. Which sometimes would lead the man to go for a quick ass grab or typically wanting to take her home after. She never went any further than that however, as well as I didn't feel jealous about it just..aroused...like crazy.

Today we don't do the bar scene so much as we became parents as life moved on. However the sex got dull for a solid year, and I think it was due to us both not being open about our desires on each end as well as being busy parents. I watched a lot of cuck porn that dull year and realized this kink needed to possibly be incorporated as it was one of my desires/fantasies that crossed my mind often. I asked B if she wanted to try anything new in the bedroom. B took it offensively thinking she was the problem in the bedroom to which I reassured her it wasn't and that I wanted to fulfil any sexual desires and that we can still have fun while we're young. B then said she's always wanted to try a Dildo before. (at that point I've read online dildos have opened up a lot of cuck play before so I was ecstatic). So we shopped online for a dildo and she picked it out, which I can attach a photo of it. B said she wanted one the same size as mine but when the dildo arrived it was for sure bigger than my dick and thicker as well by a good 2 inches. The first couple of times using it she just gave it a BJ while I fucked her doggystyle, but I still came very hard and I knew she noticed. B asked me if that turned me on and I said oh god yes!

Cut forward a few months we finally had a date night planned, B wanted to go out and have fun and I helped her pick out her outfit. I dressed her as sexy as possible to try and recreate old times(I'll attach photo from that night). As usual she was being hit on left and right that night and I was sexually pent up and ready to go. We go home, she pulls out the BWC dildo and asks me do I wanna watch? I said sure. She started fucking her pussy with it saying " Oh that's such a big dick", she then wanted me to hold the dildo while she rides it and I jerk off. She then ask " Do you like watching?" I told her it was the hottest thing ever! B said " good cause I want you watch this dick fuck me" She then wanted me to fuck her with the dildo in doggystyle ( I have a video ) and she had a whole body tremble orgasm and creamed all over the BWC dildo. After that night I believe my kink was apparent to her without me even telling her my cuck fantasy she almost seemed to know. ( she might of went through my porn history ).

It soon turned into dressing her in lingerie and dressing her sexy when we go out to do errands see which men gawk at her. To telling me which men she found attractive at any given time, even her teasing one of neighbors in my other post. However I still am not officially cucked, and do not no where to go from here without pushing limits. Sorry for the long post any advice appreciated!
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A ja proponuję Ci nie nalegać , “ kropla drąży skałę” , odpuść temat na jakiś czas , zobaczysz że sama wróci do tego i w tedy zaproponuj jej np: wyjście na imprezę ale bez ciebie , ubierz ją sexy, i daj paczkę gumek 😉 , zasugeruj jej że może zaszaleć ale bezpiecznie .
Possible English translation: And I suggest you not to insist, "a drop wears away a rock", let go of the topic for some time, you will see that she will come back to it on her own and then offer her, for example: going to a party but without you, dress her sexy, and give her a pack of rubbers 😉, suggest to her that she can go crazy but safely.
 
A ja proponuję Ci nie nalegać , “ kropla drąży skałę” , odpuść temat na jakiś czas , zobaczysz że sama wróci do tego i w tedy zaproponuj jej np: wyjście na imprezę ale bez ciebie , ubierz ją sexy, i daj paczkę gumek 😉 , zasugeruj jej że może zaszaleć ale bezpiecznie .
I love your cuckold avatar, PLEASE post in English
 
Hello everyone, this is my story so far on where I am at with this fantasy becoming reality. Currently I'm a 28 year old and she is 28 as well (we can call her B), we've been together 9 years now. She is 135 lbs. 5ft 6 blonde with a good rack and a tight ass. She has had only one other sexual partner before me, and which she described him as a boring fuck when they did fuck. My realization of my kink for fantasizing her with another man started early in our relationship, when we used go out drinking at bars. Fueled by alcohol, weed and courage I always let her do her magic to get "free drinks" from men by flirting with them. Which sometimes would lead the man to go for a quick ass grab or typically wanting to take her home after. She never went any further than that however, as well as I didn't feel jealous about it just..aroused...like crazy.

Today we don't do the bar scene so much as we became parents as life moved on. However the sex got dull for a solid year, and I think it was due to us both not being open about our desires on each end as well as being busy parents. I watched a lot of cuck porn that dull year and realized this kink needed to possibly be incorporated as it was one of my desires/fantasies that crossed my mind often. I asked B if she wanted to try anything new in the bedroom. B took it offensively thinking she was the problem in the bedroom to which I reassured her it wasn't and that I wanted to fulfil any sexual desires and that we can still have fun while we're young. B then said she's always wanted to try a Dildo before. (at that point I've read online dildos have opened up a lot of cuck play before so I was ecstatic). So we shopped online for a dildo and she picked it out, which I can attach a photo of it. B said she wanted one the same size as mine but when the dildo arrived it was for sure bigger than my dick and thicker as well by a good 2 inches. The first couple of times using it she just gave it a BJ while I fucked her doggystyle, but I still came very hard and I knew she noticed. B asked me if that turned me on and I said oh god yes!

Cut forward a few months we finally had a date night planned, B wanted to go out and have fun and I helped her pick out her outfit. I dressed her as sexy as possible to try and recreate old times(I'll attach photo from that night). As usual she was being hit on left and right that night and I was sexually pent up and ready to go. We go home, she pulls out the BWC dildo and asks me do I wanna watch? I said sure. She started fucking her pussy with it saying " Oh that's such a big dick", she then wanted me to hold the dildo while she rides it and I jerk off. She then ask " Do you like watching?" I told her it was the hottest thing ever! B said " good cause I want you watch this dick fuck me" She then wanted me to fuck her with the dildo in doggystyle ( I have a video ) and she had a whole body tremble orgasm and creamed all over the BWC dildo. After that night I believe my kink was apparent to her without me even telling her my cuck fantasy she almost seemed to know. ( she might of went through my porn history ).

It soon turned into dressing her in lingerie and dressing her sexy when we go out to do errands see which men gawk at her. To telling me which men she found attractive at any given time, even her teasing one of neighbors in my other post. However I still am not officially cucked, and do not no where to go from here without pushing limits. Sorry for the long post any advice appreciated!
Sounds like your dynamic is well directioned! The main point on having a "wife" to become a "hotwife" is about building her self confidence and letting her explore herself sexually while being a married woman. Let her experiment, try different things, talk about those things during sex, just make sure for it to a fantasy both of you can live, not only you as a cuck husband!
 
Hello everyone, this is my story so far on where I am at with this fantasy becoming reality. Currently I'm a 28 year old and she is 28 as well (we can call her B), we've been together 9 years now. She is 135 lbs. 5ft 6 blonde with a good rack and a tight ass. She has had only one other sexual partner before me, and which she described him as a boring fuck when they did fuck. My realization of my kink for fantasizing her with another man started early in our relationship, when we used go out drinking at bars. Fueled by alcohol, weed and courage I always let her do her magic to get "free drinks" from men by flirting with them. Which sometimes would lead the man to go for a quick ass grab or typically wanting to take her home after. She never went any further than that however, as well as I didn't feel jealous about it just..aroused...like crazy.

Today we don't do the bar scene so much as we became parents as life moved on. However the sex got dull for a solid year, and I think it was due to us both not being open about our desires on each end as well as being busy parents. I watched a lot of cuck porn that dull year and realized this kink needed to possibly be incorporated as it was one of my desires/fantasies that crossed my mind often. I asked B if she wanted to try anything new in the bedroom. B took it offensively thinking she was the problem in the bedroom to which I reassured her it wasn't and that I wanted to fulfil any sexual desires and that we can still have fun while we're young. B then said she's always wanted to try a Dildo before. (at that point I've read online dildos have opened up a lot of cuck play before so I was ecstatic). So we shopped online for a dildo and she picked it out, which I can attach a photo of it. B said she wanted one the same size as mine but when the dildo arrived it was for sure bigger than my dick and thicker as well by a good 2 inches. The first couple of times using it she just gave it a BJ while I fucked her doggystyle, but I still came very hard and I knew she noticed. B asked me if that turned me on and I said oh god yes!

Cut forward a few months we finally had a date night planned, B wanted to go out and have fun and I helped her pick out her outfit. I dressed her as sexy as possible to try and recreate old times(I'll attach photo from that night). As usual she was being hit on left and right that night and I was sexually pent up and ready to go. We go home, she pulls out the BWC dildo and asks me do I wanna watch? I said sure. She started fucking her pussy with it saying " Oh that's such a big dick", she then wanted me to hold the dildo while she rides it and I jerk off. She then ask " Do you like watching?" I told her it was the hottest thing ever! B said " good cause I want you watch this dick fuck me" She then wanted me to fuck her with the dildo in doggystyle ( I have a video ) and she had a whole body tremble orgasm and creamed all over the BWC dildo. After that night I believe my kink was apparent to her without me even telling her my cuck fantasy she almost seemed to know. ( she might of went through my porn history ).

It soon turned into dressing her in lingerie and dressing her sexy when we go out to do errands see which men gawk at her. To telling me which men she found attractive at any given time, even her teasing one of neighbors in my other post. However I still am not officially cucked, and do not no where to go from here without pushing limits. Sorry for the long post any advice appreciated!
Love watching my wife use big dildos
 
Current update on progress, haven't made huge steps just yet as we both have been currently busy with our careers. However, that doesn't mean we've gotten kinky from time to time. B now has made it clear to me that she's very much interested in trying out BBC. She was at the gym running on the treadmill and happen to see a man who happened to have quite the bulge in his pants while he was working out. She told me this when we were in the car and asked "Is it true most black men have huge dicks?" I told her "there's always some truth that lays in rumors!". She then proceeded to rub my crotch while talking about her time at the gym. Knowing I was aroused she said maybe we can get a new toy for the room! and now we have this guy to help her out 😉
 

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Current update on progress, haven't made huge steps just yet as we both have been currently busy with our careers. However, that doesn't mean we've gotten kinky from time to time. B now has made it clear to me that she's very much interested in trying out BBC. She was at the gym running on the treadmill and happen to see a man who happened to have quite the bulge in his pants while he was working out. She told me this when we were in the car and asked "Is it true most black men have huge dicks?" I told her "there's always some truth that lays in rumors!". She then proceeded to rub my crotch while talking about her time at the gym. Knowing I was aroused she said maybe we can get a new toy for the room! and now we have this guy to help her out 😉
Has she used it yet
 
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Hello everyone, this is my story so far on where I am at with this fantasy becoming reality. Currently I'm a 28 year old and she is 28 as well (we can call her B), we've been together 9 years now. She is 135 lbs. 5ft 6 blonde with a good rack and a tight ass. She has had only one other sexual partner before me, and which she described him as a boring fuck when they did fuck. My realization of my kink for fantasizing her with another man started early in our relationship, when we used go out drinking at bars. Fueled by alcohol, weed and courage I always let her do her magic to get "free drinks" from men by flirting with them. Which sometimes would lead the man to go for a quick ass grab or typically wanting to take her home after. She never went any further than that however, as well as I didn't feel jealous about it just..aroused...like crazy.

Today we don't do the bar scene so much as we became parents as life moved on. However the sex got dull for a solid year, and I think it was due to us both not being open about our desires on each end as well as being busy parents. I watched a lot of cuck porn that dull year and realized this kink needed to possibly be incorporated as it was one of my desires/fantasies that crossed my mind often. I asked B if she wanted to try anything new in the bedroom. B took it offensively thinking she was the problem in the bedroom to which I reassured her it wasn't and that I wanted to fulfil any sexual desires and that we can still have fun while we're young. B then said she's always wanted to try a Dildo before. (at that point I've read online dildos have opened up a lot of cuck play before so I was ecstatic). So we shopped online for a dildo and she picked it out, which I can attach a photo of it. B said she wanted one the same size as mine but when the dildo arrived it was for sure bigger than my dick and thicker as well by a good 2 inches. The first couple of times using it she just gave it a BJ while I fucked her doggystyle, but I still came very hard and I knew she noticed. B asked me if that turned me on and I said oh god yes!

Cut forward a few months we finally had a date night planned, B wanted to go out and have fun and I helped her pick out her outfit. I dressed her as sexy as possible to try and recreate old times(I'll attach photo from that night). As usual she was being hit on left and right that night and I was sexually pent up and ready to go. We go home, she pulls out the BWC dildo and asks me do I wanna watch? I said sure. She started fucking her pussy with it saying " Oh that's such a big dick", she then wanted me to hold the dildo while she rides it and I jerk off. She then ask " Do you like watching?" I told her it was the hottest thing ever! B said " good cause I want you watch this dick fuck me" She then wanted me to fuck her with the dildo in doggystyle ( I have a video ) and she had a whole body tremble orgasm and creamed all over the BWC dildo. After that night I believe my kink was apparent to her without me even telling her my cuck fantasy she almost seemed to know. ( she might of went through my porn history ).

It soon turned into dressing her in lingerie and dressing her sexy when we go out to do errands see which men gawk at her. To telling me which men she found attractive at any given time, even her teasing one of neighbors in my other post. However I still am not officially cucked, and do not no where to go from here without pushing limits. Sorry for the long post any advice appreciated!
If you want to take her (and you) down the road a little bit more into the hotwife lifestyle, get the book "The Faithful Hotwife" on Amazon and let her follow some of the HW challenges in there. It took my very vanilla wife into feeling more confident and sexy role playing being a hotwife. Yes there is a bunch of dildo play, so you may need to get her a couple more.
 
If you want to take her (and you) down the road a little bit more into the hotwife lifestyle, get the book "The Faithful Hotwife" on Amazon and let her follow some of the HW challenges in there. It took my very vanilla wife into feeling more confident and sexy role playing being a hotwife. Yes there is a bunch of dildo play, so you may need to get her a couple more.
I’ll have to check that out thanks!
 
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Current update on progress, haven't made huge steps just yet as we both have been currently busy with our careers. However, that doesn't mean we've gotten kinky from time to time. B now has made it clear to me that she's very much interested in trying out BBC. She was at the gym running on the treadmill and happen to see a man who happened to have quite the bulge in his pants while he was working out. She told me this when we were in the car and asked "Is it true most black men have huge dicks?" I told her "there's always some truth that lays in rumors!". She then proceeded to rub my crotch while talking about her time at the gym. Knowing I was aroused she said maybe we can get a new toy for the room! and now we have this guy to help her out 😉
Most black men do, but I have seen some that were under avg as well
 
Hello everyone, this is my story so far on where I am at with this fantasy becoming reality. Currently I'm a 28 year old and she is 28 as well (we can call her B), we've been together 9 years now. She is 135 lbs. 5ft 6 blonde with a good rack and a tight ass. She has had only one other sexual partner before me, and which she described him as a boring fuck when they did fuck. My realization of my kink for fantasizing her with another man started early in our relationship, when we used go out drinking at bars. Fueled by alcohol, weed and courage I always let her do her magic to get "free drinks" from men by flirting with them. Which sometimes would lead the man to go for a quick ass grab or typically wanting to take her home after. She never went any further than that however, as well as I didn't feel jealous about it just..aroused...like crazy.

Today we don't do the bar scene so much as we became parents as life moved on. However the sex got dull for a solid year, and I think it was due to us both not being open about our desires on each end as well as being busy parents. I watched a lot of cuck porn that dull year and realized this kink needed to possibly be incorporated as it was one of my desires/fantasies that crossed my mind often. I asked B if she wanted to try anything new in the bedroom. B took it offensively thinking she was the problem in the bedroom to which I reassured her it wasn't and that I wanted to fulfil any sexual desires and that we can still have fun while we're young. B then said she's always wanted to try a Dildo before. (at that point I've read online dildos have opened up a lot of cuck play before so I was ecstatic). So we shopped online for a dildo and she picked it out, which I can attach a photo of it. B said she wanted one the same size as mine but when the dildo arrived it was for sure bigger than my dick and thicker as well by a good 2 inches. The first couple of times using it she just gave it a BJ while I fucked her doggystyle, but I still came very hard and I knew she noticed. B asked me if that turned me on and I said oh god yes!

Cut forward a few months we finally had a date night planned, B wanted to go out and have fun and I helped her pick out her outfit. I dressed her as sexy as possible to try and recreate old times(I'll attach photo from that night). As usual she was being hit on left and right that night and I was sexually pent up and ready to go. We go home, she pulls out the BWC dildo and asks me do I wanna watch? I said sure. She started fucking her pussy with it saying " Oh that's such a big dick", she then wanted me to hold the dildo while she rides it and I jerk off. She then ask " Do you like watching?" I told her it was the hottest thing ever! B said " good cause I want you watch this dick fuck me" She then wanted me to fuck her with the dildo in doggystyle ( I have a video ) and she had a whole body tremble orgasm and creamed all over the BWC dildo. After that night I believe my kink was apparent to her without me even telling her my cuck fantasy she almost seemed to know. ( she might of went through my porn history ).

It soon turned into dressing her in lingerie and dressing her sexy when we go out to do errands see which men gawk at her. To telling me which men she found attractive at any given time, even her teasing one of neighbors in my other post. However I still am not officially cucked, and do not no where to go from here without pushing limits. Sorry for the long post any advice appreciated!
Look, you are in a good spot for this to further. She’s playing with you on the idea. Here’s what worked for me.

I asked her for years to make me jealous. She would do nothing but shut me down. A chance happening had us staying at a hotel for a week. Our room was off the hot tub. We were down there and this fella was checking her out. So the next day I got some beer, we had a couple and I seen him down there, I encouraged her to go down and flirt. She was reluctant but did it. Nothing happened that day but the next day she went to the hot tub and did it again. The third night same thing but when she came back to the room I asked if she wanted more she said yes, then went to his room.