I am new here and wife and I have not taken the final step into the lifestyle, but we do a lot of role play. She also likes dancing with other men. This weekend I will be booking her a hotel room in Dallas for a fun night for her to explore by herself. More than likely she will not adventure out past the hotel bar. She is very hot, but shy! I feel a lot of men are intimidated by her. I think she just needs the reassurance from someone to take that next step.