Allow me to give my perspective as a wife. For a woman to embrace the lifestyle, she has to be someone that enjoys sex or in the cruder sense, enjoys getting fucked. Before I got married, I had already been one who enjoyed good sex. When my husband and I were courting, we confided in each other our prior sexual encounters and I recall that I was quite thrill to share with my potential husband how I had been fucked. Then after we had been married for about 10 years, my husband confronted me about me fucking behind his back. I assured him that I loved him and would not leave him despite having other pricks. After that, my husband impressed upon me that he would not mind my fucking with other men since he himself had flings with other women. He became more persistent in trying to get me into the lifestyle. He first told me that a good friend of his had complimented my body and said his large cock could fuck me good. I became horny upon hearing that from my husband and my watery eyes must have shown. When I eventually fucked other guys for my husband to watch, I even surprised myself with my slutty behavior.