This is post from my other thread Stag/Vixen -not Cucold.
Stag/Vixen, It's hard to describe to someone not in the lifestyle. As most of agree here this is not Cuckolding. there is no dominance or humiliation involved. It is sharing your wife or GF with another male(s) while actively participating. Typically the wife/GF knows exactly what to expect and usually is the one that give the "OK".
My wife is a smaller filipina 5'2". We've done the Swinger thing off and on in our 40's. Now a little older we gravitate towards MFM threesomes. The wife seems to like this because she's more the center of attention and maybe secretly, she doesn't have "competition".
There is a Huge erotic mental anticipation to this for me. Once she agrees on a guy purely on his photo and a little bio, vetted by me, that "green light" by her sends my mind into a whirl. She and I discuss what she is about to go through with the new guy and me once in the hotel room. She always chooses a white guy similar to my build, tall, thin.
I prep her ahead of time making sure she is ready. This "prepping" may be more for my enjoyment than actual information she needs.
Me: "Once the guy comes to the room and we're all introduced, I might get things started by taking off your top".
Wife: "I know"
Me: "He'll probably take that as a opening and begin rubbing your tits. If he does I'm going to back away and get the camera going".
Wife: "I'm going to take my own clothes off so I know where everything is afterwards".
Me: "You know you'll be sucking new cock".
Wife: "Oh yeah, I'm good at that. Maybe I can get him to cum fast". What she means by this is if she gets the new guy to ejaculate with a blow job, she only has to worry about me banging her ass or pussy.
Me: "If not, it'll be two white cocks cumming in you".
Wife: "Not at the same time". Meaning she doesn't like anal and vaginal DP. But she's okay with spit roasting.
It's just the build up to the event. My petite wife knows she's going to be shared. She know she'll have a strangers cock in her mouth, she agreeably will spread her legs and let a stranger's cock into her wet brown pussy. She's allergic to latex so no condoms. So ultimately she is aware that the new guy will be unleashing a load of sperm into her most private female parts. And she's oaky with that. It's more thrilling for me when the guy announces "I'm cumming baby" and my wife replies, "Okay, I'm ready", and takes his load.
The guy climbs off, my wife stay there, knowing I'll be reclaiming her. It's the watching of her being sexy and her talents to bring complete strangers to ejaculation. Her legs spread leaking his cum. I put my cock in her mouth so she can get me rock hard again, then I mount her. Pushing the new guys cum deeper into her pussy.