Hello fellow cucks,
I just wanted to have a deeper discussion about chastity and what we get from it.
I'm more of a part-time cuck than a lifestyle cuck, but I do fantasize about it.. a lot. It actually terrifies me, but thrills me at the same time. When I think about why I like the things I like, it just all gets very complicated in how each act and each fetish brings an entirely different mix of emotions and excitements.
The first time I saw a chastity cage in porn was about 10 years ago, maybe a little less. I had begun to watch mild hotwife and cuckold porn, and then bam, the cum-eating cuckolds series comes to my attention and a lot of them in the early days had the cucks caged, usually in the cb6000. At first, I thought it was really weird and freakish. I wondered why any guy would willingly go along with it, allow her to humiliate him and then completely deny him of any pleasure or sloppy seconds even. It was alien to me.
But I've always had a submissive side and the sensually controlling dominant women sucked me in.. I do have an innate desire to serve women sexually and be submissive. I was watching a lot of porn back then, and hadn't yet dove into the lifestyle so as I watched more and more cuckold porn, some aspects of it began to work their way into my fantasies. BBC, Chastity, creampie cleanups, and much more worked their way into my fantasies and one day I realized that I wanted to try on a chastity cage, wondering what it felt like to start getting hard but have no room to grow, what it feels like to have an orgasm while in chastity.. or performing oral on her, or him..
Anyways, I tried it on, and kind of liked it, but the fit was poor and it pinched a lot, was difficult to put on, etc.. The cb6000 was my first cage and it was horrible lol. I saw a lot of people online complaining too, but there wasn't much else out there back then, so I just wore it very rarely and not for long, it was really painful after a short time because of the pinching and poor fit. Anyways, I ended up getting the Vice cage and what a much better fit. I wore it rarely and always got super hot and bothered and watched cuck porn while in it, then let myself out and masturbated, this has been my standard operating procedure for a while.
At the same time I got into better chastity, I also started going to bisexual and cuckold parties through a local swinger group and met a few people to experiment and play with both at the parties and on separate meetups. I did find a few women to dominate me, and one even cuckolded me in chastity. The other cuckolded me with a BBC and had me servicing them both. I only had a handful of these experiences before the pandemic hit and the world stopped.
I started wearing chastity more often, like once a week instead of once in a blue moon. After a few months, it turned into every other day, and now today, I'm locking myself daily. I now am starting to ask myself questions and trying to work out the answers.
For instance, when I'm wearing chastity it almost feels 'right', like my cock can't get hard unless I'm released. I could go out to a bar, pick up a girl, and no there's no way I can fuck her because the keys are at home. So now there's zero pressure, I don't have to cater to my other brain because it's in solitary confinement. The pressures of impressing women and trying to be charming and crap just melt away. I can be myself and more confident and there's something to be said for the idgaf attitude when you really mean it.
I also wonder if chastity isn't really just a form of edging. Because isn't that what the cage really accomplishes? It keeps you in a constant state of arousal, and believe me- you rarely forget it's there. Whether I wear the cage for an hour or a day, it could arguably be measured as I edged for an hour or a day, give or take.
I don't have a keyholder, I pretty much use chastity as more of a sex toy than a lifestyle, but at the same time, I'm finding that the rare night where I don't get an opportunity to wear it, I'm actually thinking about it and disappointed I can't put it on more often. I don't wear it in public except in very rare occasions. I do it in secret, my wife is unaware of my chastity fetish. She is aware of my cuckold and submissive fetishes and thinks it's weird, our sex life ended 7-8 years ago, which is why I played around in the past. She made it clear to me that she wasn't interested, and didn't want to know what (or who) I did outside of the marriage. Okay then.
So I haven't gone to any parties or anything since the pandemic ended, mostly because I don't get spare time like I used to, work, life, etc.. which is also why I don't get to cage myself as often as I would like.
Anyways, nothing great in this post I guess, but I would love to see some thoughtful responses on how you play in chastity and what you get from it personally, sexually, etc. Thanks for reading!
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