Some thoughts on chastity

[Phinchy23]

I'd love to shrink them - or lose them completely. I always think its strange that on one hand chastity takes away masculinity but at the same time the balls become exaggerated. Although, if tucked correctly, they can create a nice camel toe effect View attachment 1462201

I have been experimenting with a few ideas and this is my latest.... it is a hanger used to hold a pair of shoes together. slipped over the balls it tucks my small penis behind the middle bar, lightweight and comfortable.

 

[droopy1]

I have been experimenting with a few ideas and this is my latest.... it is a hanger used to hold a pair of shoes together. slipped over the balls it tucks my small penis behind the middle bar, lightweight and comfortable.View attachment 1473159

Try a womans chastity belt. That's what my wife puts me in. The belt does a nice job of tightly compressing my penis and balls and tucking them them in and out of the way. When I wear tight womans jeans or leggins I look like a girl down there.

 

[nicebiguy]

Yes but it would create new problems. Having your testicles removed will eliminate your libido. So if you get a sexual kick from losing your balls then losing your balls takes away that kick. It's like making a deal with the devil. On the plus side you will take on more feminine characteristics like softer skin and silkier hair you will lose muscle mass and your facial hair might diminish. The catch 22 is that you wont appreciate these changes because you no longer are making testosterone which makes us guys so fuckin horny in the first place.You will also probably get hot flashes and symptoms similar to women going thru menopause. And ask any older woman what that was like.You could maybe get supplemental hormones that you would have to take the rest of your life.I don't know if they would remove all the discomfort and restore some libido or not. I only know all this cuz I was once considering a sex change and talked to doctors about it and knew guys who were in this process. Ultimately the decision is yours but my advice is to learn everything you can about it and consider carefully. It's irreversible.

I totally agree, it's much hotter having my dicklett locked up. It keeps me horny as a bitch, makes me more passive and femmy, makes me willing to do just about anything, I'd still be able to jerk off and have orgasms. Without testosterone I suspect I wouldn't have any of those feelings. I wouldn't want to live like that. I also heard without testosterone you get mentally depressed.

 

[droopy1]

I totally agree, it's much hotter having my dicklett locked up. It keeps me horny as a bitch, makes me more passive and femmy, makes me willing to do just about anything, I'd still be able to jerk off and have orgasms. Without testosterone I suspect I wouldn't have any of those feelings. I wouldn't want to live like that. I also heard without testosterone you get mentally depressed.

This is true. I was once considering a sex change operation which requires extensive counseling with a psychologist specialized in that field. I read case studies of other transexuals who went thru the process and how after their genitals were removed they had no sex drive. When the testosterone supply is cut off a patient starts to achieve the feminine characteristics they want but it comes with a price. They get fragile bones that can break more easily, hot flashes like women in menopause get, and a variety of emotional problems including depression and thats just the start. A complicated medical care follow up and lots of hormone therapy is required to stabilize the TS pantient. Thats why doctors want to make sure that a person who wants sex reassignment surgery isn't just pursuing a kink. Many SRS patients become suicidal.

 

[nicebiguy]

This is true. I was once considering a sex change operation which requires extensive counseling with a psychologist specialized in that field. I read case studies of other transexuals who went thru the process and how after their genitals were removed they had no sex drive. When the testosterone supply is cut off a patient starts to achieve the feminine characteristics they want but it comes with a price. They get fragile bones that can break more easily, hot flashes like women in menopause get, and a variety of emotional problems including depression and thats just the start. A complicated medical care follow up and lots of hormone therapy is required to stabilize the TS pantient. Thats why doctors want to make sure that a person who wants sex reassignment surgery isn't just pursuing a kink. Many SRS patients become suicidal.

I have thought of taking hormones in order to grow pert little titties like the sissy traps have. I love them with their stiff little dickletts and sexy little titties.

 

[droopy1]

I have thought of taking hormones in order to grow pert little titties like the sissy traps have. I love them with their stiff little dickletts and sexy little titties.

I have thought of taking hormones in order to grow pert little titties like the sissy traps have. I love them with their stiff little dickletts and sexy little titties.

I know it's tempting just be careful. If you take in estrogen but still kep your testosterone you may still be able to get horny. I used estrogen cream to shrink my testicles and my penis got smaller too,but it may not work the same on everyone. My breasts got a little more developed to.

 

[paulhallirl]

I have been experimenting with a few ideas and this is my latest.... it is a hanger used to hold a pair of shoes together. slipped over the balls it tucks my small penis behind the middle bar, lightweight and comfortable.View attachment 1473159

Nice!

 

[Phinchy23]

Nice!

thanks

 

[gregnginger]

I have been experimenting with a few ideas and this is my latest.... it is a hanger used to hold a pair of shoes together. slipped over the balls it tucks my small penis behind the middle bar, lightweight and comfortable.View attachment 1473159

amazing

 

[Steel4u0987]

Hello fellow cucks,
I just wanted to have a deeper discussion about chastity and what we get from it.

I'm more of a part-time cuck than a lifestyle cuck, but I do fantasize about it.. a lot. It actually terrifies me, but thrills me at the same time. When I think about why I like the things I like, it just all gets very complicated in how each act and each fetish brings an entirely different mix of emotions and excitements.

The first time I saw a chastity cage in porn was about 10 years ago, maybe a little less. I had begun to watch mild hotwife and cuckold porn, and then bam, the cum-eating cuckolds series comes to my attention and a lot of them in the early days had the cucks caged, usually in the cb6000. At first, I thought it was really weird and freakish. I wondered why any guy would willingly go along with it, allow her to humiliate him and then completely deny him of any pleasure or sloppy seconds even. It was alien to me.

But I've always had a submissive side and the sensually controlling dominant women sucked me in.. I do have an innate desire to serve women sexually and be submissive. I was watching a lot of porn back then, and hadn't yet dove into the lifestyle so as I watched more and more cuckold porn, some aspects of it began to work their way into my fantasies. BBC, Chastity, creampie cleanups, and much more worked their way into my fantasies and one day I realized that I wanted to try on a chastity cage, wondering what it felt like to start getting hard but have no room to grow, what it feels like to have an orgasm while in chastity.. or performing oral on her, or him..

Anyways, I tried it on, and kind of liked it, but the fit was poor and it pinched a lot, was difficult to put on, etc.. The cb6000 was my first cage and it was horrible lol. I saw a lot of people online complaining too, but there wasn't much else out there back then, so I just wore it very rarely and not for long, it was really painful after a short time because of the pinching and poor fit. Anyways, I ended up getting the Vice cage and what a much better fit. I wore it rarely and always got super hot and bothered and watched cuck porn while in it, then let myself out and masturbated, this has been my standard operating procedure for a while.

At the same time I got into better chastity, I also started going to bisexual and cuckold parties through a local swinger group and met a few people to experiment and play with both at the parties and on separate meetups. I did find a few women to dominate me, and one even cuckolded me in chastity. The other cuckolded me with a BBC and had me servicing them both. I only had a handful of these experiences before the pandemic hit and the world stopped.

I started wearing chastity more often, like once a week instead of once in a blue moon. After a few months, it turned into every other day, and now today, I'm locking myself daily. I now am starting to ask myself questions and trying to work out the answers.

For instance, when I'm wearing chastity it almost feels 'right', like my cock can't get hard unless I'm released. I could go out to a bar, pick up a girl, and no there's no way I can fuck her because the keys are at home. So now there's zero pressure, I don't have to cater to my other brain because it's in solitary confinement. The pressures of impressing women and trying to be charming and crap just melt away. I can be myself and more confident and there's something to be said for the idgaf attitude when you really mean it.

I also wonder if chastity isn't really just a form of edging. Because isn't that what the cage really accomplishes? It keeps you in a constant state of arousal, and believe me- you rarely forget it's there. Whether I wear the cage for an hour or a day, it could arguably be measured as I edged for an hour or a day, give or take.

I don't have a keyholder, I pretty much use chastity as more of a sex toy than a lifestyle, but at the same time, I'm finding that the rare night where I don't get an opportunity to wear it, I'm actually thinking about it and disappointed I can't put it on more often. I don't wear it in public except in very rare occasions. I do it in secret, my wife is unaware of my chastity fetish. She is aware of my cuckold and submissive fetishes and thinks it's weird, our sex life ended 7-8 years ago, which is why I played around in the past. She made it clear to me that she wasn't interested, and didn't want to know what (or who) I did outside of the marriage. Okay then.

So I haven't gone to any parties or anything since the pandemic ended, mostly because I don't get spare time like I used to, work, life, etc.. which is also why I don't get to cage myself as often as I would like.

Anyways, nothing great in this post I guess, but I would love to see some thoughtful responses on how you play in chastity and what you get from it personally, sexually, etc. Thanks for reading!

Really not a cuckold as you dont have a partner. Its just a fetish for you. I have a partner who has fucked 8 or 10 other guys since we have been together.... So i am not a full ir even part time cuck.... Only occasionally. However she does edge and deny me often and enjoys watching me service guys. So its all good for now. Hoping she finds 1 or 2 guys she enjoys so we can all play and try different things...

 

[sub2femdom]

Really not a cuckold as you dont have a partner. Its just a fetish for you. I have a partner who has fucked 8 or 10 other guys since we have been together.... So i am not a full ir even part time cuck.... Only occasionally. However she does edge and deny me often and enjoys watching me service guys. So its all good for now. Hoping she finds 1 or 2 guys she enjoys so we can all play and try different things...

I've been cucked in the past at least a few times, sometimes directly and other times more indirectly (cheating for instance). Of course it's a fetish, but not JUST a fetish. It seems like what you are saying is I can't be a cuckold if I'm not actively being cuckolded... Isn't that like saying to a male virgin: "You can't be straight since you haven't had sex with a woman." It's not how this works (for me at least), being a cuckold is a state of mind.

 

[Steel4u0987]

I've been cucked in the past at least a few times, sometimes directly and other times more indirectly (cheating for instance). Of course it's a fetish, but not JUST a fetish. It seems like what you are saying is I can't be a cuckold if I'm not actively being cuckolded... Isn't that like saying to a male virgin: "You can't be straight since you haven't had sex with a woman." It's not how this works (for me at least), being a cuckold is a state of mind.

In todays world it seems like you can choose to be whatever you want to be. But whats the point of saying you are a cuckold when there is nobody to cuckold you. Cuckolding is a wish or fantasy that you are currently not indulging in. Tell us the story of the wife who cucked you and why she is not cucking you now... We want to hear how she fed you cream pies, had you help her prep for her hotwifing dates etc...

 

[sub2femdom]

In todays world it seems like you can choose to be whatever you want to be. But whats the point of saying you are a cuckold when there is nobody to cuckold you. Cuckolding is a wish or fantasy that you are currently not indulging in. Tell us the story of the wife who cucked you and why she is not cucking you now... We want to hear how she fed you cream pies, had you help her prep for her hotwifing dates etc...

So to be a cuckold I need to be currently engaged in a cuckold relationship? Who the hell wrote that rule? I still go to cuckold parties and participate as a cuckold from time to time, but my wife just isn't into it and doesn't engage on that level.

There's a lot of cucks out there who aren't actively living the experience, but that's not to say they aren't cucks, unless they've never done it before and only know a fantasy, then yes- I'd agree with you on that.

 

[2wheel]

So to be a cuckold I need to be currently engaged in a cuckold relationship? Who the hell wrote that rule? I still go to cuckold parties and participate as a cuckold from time to time, but my wife just isn't into it and doesn't engage on that level.

There's a lot of cucks out there who aren't actively living the experience, but that's not to say they aren't cucks, unless they've never done it before and only know a fantasy, then yes- I'd agree with you on that.

This is just plain silly, written by someone who has no idea what a cuckold is.

 

[sub2femdom]

This is just plain silly, written by someone who has no idea what a cuckold is.

I could talk all day about my cuckold experiences, so I honestly don't know wtf your whole aggro approach is supposed to be, but honestly IDGAF what YOU think a cuckold is. Look up cuckold porn, there's literally dozens of different types of cuckold play, so who the fuck are you to tell me what a cuckold is? No really, what authority do you claim that you can speak for all of Cuckold Land?

A label isn't specific, it's just a ballpark. Cuck, femdom, sissy, chastity play whatever. It's whatever you and your partners would like. There's no manual, it's art - and evolving. Can't you just enjoy your kinks and at least be decent towards others whose definitions of kinks differs from yours? What a waste of time this thread is.

 

[droopy1]

I could talk all day about my cuckold experiences, so I honestly don't know wtf your whole aggro approach is supposed to be, but honestly IDGAF what YOU think a cuckold is. Look up cuckold porn, there's literally dozens of different types of cuckold play, so who the fuck are you to tell me what a cuckold is? No really, what authority do you claim that you can speak for all of Cuckold Land?

A label isn't specific, it's just a ballpark. Cuck, femdom, sissy, chastity play whatever. It's whatever you and your partners would like. There's no manual, it's art - and evolving. Can't you just enjoy your kinks and at least be decent towards others whose definitions of kinks differs from yours? What a waste of time this thread is.

I have always said that the cuckols kink is a spectrum ranging from just mild hotwifing and light teasing to a heavy S/M lifestyle. You were right when you said it is evolving. Most of us like to try new things over the course of time, many of those things are found here. Try not to get discouraged.

 

[CONST65]

I have always said that the cuckols kink is a spectrum ranging from just mild hotwifing and light teasing to a heavy S/M lifestyle. You were right when you said it is evolving. Most of us like to try new things over the course of time, many of those things are found here. Try not to get discouraged.

Droopy is so rigbt some giys are locked up for extended periods of time some tome 365. My wife has bedn a hotwife fir 5 years I'M always locked up.iin a CB6000 everytime she goes out to fuck from.a Thursday night / friday morning tbru sundY nught / Monday am. She loves to verbally or visually torment before she goes out..Here is an EXAMPLE She calls down from.upstairs and sYs make me a drink.ill.be down shortly
When she comes down atairs she sits across from.me.i see she has notbi g on or a skimpy G string and spreads her legs so i can see. She ask do yku like what you see?. Then i get asked i bet you would like to touch or play with and penetrate me? Well.i wouldime that but I see you have a problem YOUR WIFE LOCKED YOU UP. SO I HAVE NO CHOICE I NEED TO GET FUCKED SO I QUESS I WILL Have to go out and fine a stud to fuck me. MAY BE When i get back we can get rhatvthing off ot you and then you can.plese..me It can be very frustrating as well.as rewarding it all.depends how much control she wants atca certain time

 

[wantingnoregret]

I have been experimenting with a few ideas and this is my latest.... it is a hanger used to hold a pair of shoes together. slipped over the balls it tucks my small penis behind the middle bar, lightweight and comfortable.View attachment 1473159

Maybe try a fu fu training clip if you are trying to achieve the look of a camel toe

 

[Phinchy23]

Maybe try a fu fu training clip if you are trying to achieve the look of a camel toe

I've tried - but with not a lot of success.

 

[wantingnoregret]

I've tried - but with not a lot of success.

So I suppose that if your clit is so short that it cannot reach back past your balls far enough for the clip to work you would have some problems in which case you must be really really short.