My wife prefers extra girth over extra length… she can only take about 7.5” before smashing her cervix.
She is a petite-BBW (Jumbo-shrimp?) at 5’2” and 190 lbs.
She squirts all over my balls with my 5.5” cock, but she does probably miss an extra 1-2 inches inside her!
She does say she has been with guys that were so small she couldn’t feel them inside her.
She has also had guys that couldn’t fit their whole length in her. I asked if that was disappointing? She said, not for me! She did add that the extra friction of longer strokes and her labia rubbing on thicker cocks is a very pleasant feeling.