Well, not the best sex partner anymore. As a man, that hasn't changed. He used to be able to play sexually for hours before I got involved outside our marriage, but ever since I started having affairs, his ability to restrain himself from cumming has definitely gone downhill. And I don't do much to help in that manner either........I know his triggers and I pull them ALL the time!!
Actually, right now that I am not involved outside the marriage (post pandemic, everything has changed), I would kinda' prefer he not have such a hair trigger sometimes, but its hard to reverse over a decade of training in that manner.
J (the wife)