She has always been fairly submissive in bed but definitely more so now. I don’t know if it is because she feels she has to or wants to. Or if it guilt and wanting to be punished. She doesn’t verbalise it, it’s her body language.
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She has always been fairly submissive in bed but definitely more so now. I don’t know if it is because she feels she has to or wants to. Or if it guilt and wanting to be punished. She doesn’t verbalise it, it’s her body language.
Ah I can see where she would just go along with the flow to not rock the boat so to speak but maybe also because the stud used to treat her like that or as you say she now likes it ? . Either way I really hope time is on both your sides , so in the hard light of day do you genuinely believe she knows what she has done to you and your relationship or is she just ‘fitting back in ‘ to your life together and knowing what she has done . ?
I do genuinely believe she knows what she’s done and she seems very committed. But as you it’s just that niggling think in my mind as to how she reached that decision. A case of did she jump or was she pushed?
I got here late. But it appears many full on cucks want you to see it in their reality. I don't think your a cuck minded person
One thing I also see alot is a man will stay in an unfaithful relationship. For FOMO reasons like they won't find anyone else as good.
But if it were me if this happened IRL I would have 3 choices
Option 1 tell her no more cheating ever again and give her one last chance. If she does it again automatically without regrets or doubts file for divorce.
Option 2. Tell her that her dishonesty going behind your back you just can't trust her. And never again will you and file for divorce. My best choice because once a cheater always a cheater is pretty true
Option 3 Accrept her cheating and revert to full on cuck lifestyle. If you can stomach it then go this rough.
But personally Option 2 would be my choice. I would rather live free than die daily if she continued to cheat.
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The OP said he brought it up only as teenagers. In your older posts you said he groomed her to fo this.
I do not think so. and just like you say the wife can have whoever she wants. I feel the hubby has the right to change his mind from time to time. So if IRL he doesn't want it anymore he has that right. Not to stop her she has freewill over her actions.
But if he doesn't like it he has the right to leave her to her hot wife activities but divorce her too.
Yes, but that would be a shame. I can't figure out anymore where this has been or is going. I hope they both can be happy and get what they want.
Well you will never really know unless you hear the other side of the story , I would still keep my eyes and ears open , she like my wife must have been adept at her deceiving you and had 6 months to perfect it so having been there I’d say go along with things but don’t let her smoke or pussy screen you , always second guess everything - hopefully time will give you a realisation one way or the other - so I take it to all intensive purposes your sex life was still good whilst she was cheating ?
I respect your view and I am certainly not a full on cuck.
Option 1 & 2 are what were on my mind and I have gone down the first for now.
I thought so, although we had the work pressures on our time like most couples do
Yes for sure , as we all know anyone could be tempted if your sex life st home was not the best and in a moment of drink / horny / etc her legs would be opened , but a moment isn’t 6 months of deceit , lying right to your face and knowing full well what she is doing and what it would do to you both ( and others ) if she were to be found out but he obviously was worth it to her so play it cool but always remember you are with a different person now - someone who can do that knowingly and keep up that happy charade with you is worth keeping an eye on - keep your friends close - but your enemies closer 😕 that’s my motto - once fucked over
You echo my thoughts, attention & booze = one night stand, not 6 month full blown affair.
My view of her has changed the trust will never go back to the level it was at, we just have to build an understanding for the future if there is to be one.
it came naturally. but made a mistake in making her feel bad about it. she closed off and wouldn't talk dirty to me when i asked for details. no she is slowly opening up
Yes exactly , we have worked at our relationship after I found mines out not wanting to hijack your thread mate - couple of things happening - look out for my new post and will appreciate your feedback on it 😀
Just posted mines is called - is she cheating - might be an interesting read lol considering
Mine starts reluctantly but opens up bit by bit either when we are both really turned on or when I have a memory of an occasion and question her
I think you both need to move on from the situation and the guy. Start fresh, talk to her and say let’s do it together. Let’s find you a lover who fulfills your needs and fulfills my needs too. Then place an ad or start looking for a guy you both are comfortable with. If you want to be present when she plays, set that as a ground rule. So you want to be cucked? Humiliated? Made to suck his cock? Have your ass fucked? You need to figure out what you want out of it as well and both of you openly talk about it.
A lot more talking, she gives me details but tries to make it out was just basic missionary fucking.
I have decided I do want to give it a go with her, but she knows things have changed and she has to be open, honest and up front in the future,
If we decide to go down the original path we had fanatsised about it will be with me in control.
She understands and also wants to rebuild our relationship. However, she has no gone back to saying what she was saying before all this, " I don't think I could ever do it (again)". She is sighting the pain it has caused, but I have pointed out that that was due to the deceit.
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