I think you might want to push it just a bit. Get a sitter for the kids and tell her you are going to take her out for a great date night. Look at her and tell her you are setting up dinner, drinks, and more… tell her you are taking her to that club.That’s exactly what I asked her… I guess he likes to analyze stuff first 🤷♂️
Or tell her you got a hotel room. Either way, she will let you know her thoughts