On the way to make my very hot girlfriend Nicole (31) a Hotwife. This is our journey.
We met 2 years ago. The relationship is awesome every day. We are both in love. She is beautiful and kind.
Our sex life is fantastic. She wants to be fucked always, everywhere and all day long. She is addicted to it. She usually has several screaming orgasms. She says she can't believe it and has never had a man who knows what he is doing so much. Yet she hasn't had much experience other than vanilla relationships. No dildos, no threesomes, no bondage, nothing special so far. Nevertheless, she is totally horny and open-minded. She loves to swallow every drop. She is more of a submissive girl. So I initiated a lot: slow sex, bondage, dirty talk, erotic massages, outdoor sex, first time anal, hot lingerie, slow sex, ... Since she is also into these things and very focused on sex, she likes to buy hot stockings, which I love. One of my kinks is to be a 100% cuckold.
She loves me so badly that she always wants to fulfill me every desire. So she asks me to open up to her and I do ask her. Every time she tells me about her desires, like sex in risky places, I fulfill them. I give her erotic massages with great music and pure pleasure. During sex, I opened up to her that I could also fantasize about threesomes. She liked the idea. When I ask her to describe this fantasy, she describes it as FFM. When she suggested to watch an erotic movie, she said she liked the scene where a guy fucks a girl while his girlfriend watches. Sounds like she's into the cuckoldress kink 😛
Knowing that I have had these experiences in the past, I asked her if she would like to go to some great lifestyle swing party events. She agreed. I registered on an erotic dating/swinger/event website. We entered preferences together. She said "yes" to FFM, MMF, blowjobs, lingerie, cuckold ("Explained that it's about watching your partner). Possible group sex. Still, she wanted to enter that she was looking for "women" and "couples" and not "men". At one point, she urged watching porn together. Everyone should enter their real kinks, she said. She opened a porn with an aesthetic MFMF. They swapped partners. She liked the cuckoldress FFM scene best, but also the MMF. She liked everything in the movie, she said. Then I started a great MMF porn. A beautiful girl in stockings getting fucked by two guys. When she asked me for details, I told her (inside her) that I would love watching her get taken by other guys. She already guessed that after a few hints. However, she didn't comment on what she thought about it, but asked me more questions a few days later: What I think about the partner having sex in absence? At the beginning it was out of the question. She then explicitly agreed. Would I be jealous? At one point she mentioned that she enjoyed seeing a man in women's briefs. But that was probably just because she saw something on my computer and she just wants to make me happy. Sometimes she has dirty talks with me, "Do you want me to allow you to cum tonight". She already asks me if I wanted to try out a dildo as well. She has a clue...
So it continued on the swinger website I wrote with some couples. We agreed to meet a couple for a few drinks and have no expectations, just a good vibe. That was key as she didn't know what could happen, was unsure and she wasn't sure if she would like or be jealous at that moment etc. So far we have not met anyone. Most of the time the couples were not her type or we could not match on a day. She has never done anything on this swinger platform herself - she said she would prefer if I did. But the fact is, she never visited that site. That's a bit of resistance. Probably because she is insecure and doesn't know how I will be.
Also, we visited our first club on vacation on a couples night. Pretty empty. Few attractive people, not much conversation. She mentioned that she generally doesn't like people touching her without being asked. We agreed that it was not the best place. We ended up fucking like crazy.
She is curious about the next 2 big lifestyle parties we have arranged for the next few months, of course with no expectations and no vibes. But I wonder what happens if we are at the party and find another couple attractive? After all, we haven't agreed on anything. But I don't want to ask her because I don't want to push her and she is insecure. Maybe if we have 2-3 parties being part of the lifestyle she will just open up.
So in summary, we are on a very good path. We will certainly meet a couple for drinks and attend two swinger lifestyle parties to see what is going on. Still, there is some resistance and mixed signals. She never said MMF turned her on, but maybe we should give it a try. She said she wouldn't look for men on the swinger website, but once said she could imagine trying MMF. She is unsure about other couples, but it is also her fantasy, she said.
What are your thoughts on this?
We met 2 years ago. The relationship is awesome every day. We are both in love. She is beautiful and kind.
Our sex life is fantastic. She wants to be fucked always, everywhere and all day long. She is addicted to it. She usually has several screaming orgasms. She says she can't believe it and has never had a man who knows what he is doing so much. Yet she hasn't had much experience other than vanilla relationships. No dildos, no threesomes, no bondage, nothing special so far. Nevertheless, she is totally horny and open-minded. She loves to swallow every drop. She is more of a submissive girl. So I initiated a lot: slow sex, bondage, dirty talk, erotic massages, outdoor sex, first time anal, hot lingerie, slow sex, ... Since she is also into these things and very focused on sex, she likes to buy hot stockings, which I love. One of my kinks is to be a 100% cuckold.
She loves me so badly that she always wants to fulfill me every desire. So she asks me to open up to her and I do ask her. Every time she tells me about her desires, like sex in risky places, I fulfill them. I give her erotic massages with great music and pure pleasure. During sex, I opened up to her that I could also fantasize about threesomes. She liked the idea. When I ask her to describe this fantasy, she describes it as FFM. When she suggested to watch an erotic movie, she said she liked the scene where a guy fucks a girl while his girlfriend watches. Sounds like she's into the cuckoldress kink 😛
Knowing that I have had these experiences in the past, I asked her if she would like to go to some great lifestyle swing party events. She agreed. I registered on an erotic dating/swinger/event website. We entered preferences together. She said "yes" to FFM, MMF, blowjobs, lingerie, cuckold ("Explained that it's about watching your partner). Possible group sex. Still, she wanted to enter that she was looking for "women" and "couples" and not "men". At one point, she urged watching porn together. Everyone should enter their real kinks, she said. She opened a porn with an aesthetic MFMF. They swapped partners. She liked the cuckoldress FFM scene best, but also the MMF. She liked everything in the movie, she said. Then I started a great MMF porn. A beautiful girl in stockings getting fucked by two guys. When she asked me for details, I told her (inside her) that I would love watching her get taken by other guys. She already guessed that after a few hints. However, she didn't comment on what she thought about it, but asked me more questions a few days later: What I think about the partner having sex in absence? At the beginning it was out of the question. She then explicitly agreed. Would I be jealous? At one point she mentioned that she enjoyed seeing a man in women's briefs. But that was probably just because she saw something on my computer and she just wants to make me happy. Sometimes she has dirty talks with me, "Do you want me to allow you to cum tonight". She already asks me if I wanted to try out a dildo as well. She has a clue...
So it continued on the swinger website I wrote with some couples. We agreed to meet a couple for a few drinks and have no expectations, just a good vibe. That was key as she didn't know what could happen, was unsure and she wasn't sure if she would like or be jealous at that moment etc. So far we have not met anyone. Most of the time the couples were not her type or we could not match on a day. She has never done anything on this swinger platform herself - she said she would prefer if I did. But the fact is, she never visited that site. That's a bit of resistance. Probably because she is insecure and doesn't know how I will be.
Also, we visited our first club on vacation on a couples night. Pretty empty. Few attractive people, not much conversation. She mentioned that she generally doesn't like people touching her without being asked. We agreed that it was not the best place. We ended up fucking like crazy.
She is curious about the next 2 big lifestyle parties we have arranged for the next few months, of course with no expectations and no vibes. But I wonder what happens if we are at the party and find another couple attractive? After all, we haven't agreed on anything. But I don't want to ask her because I don't want to push her and she is insecure. Maybe if we have 2-3 parties being part of the lifestyle she will just open up.
So in summary, we are on a very good path. We will certainly meet a couple for drinks and attend two swinger lifestyle parties to see what is going on. Still, there is some resistance and mixed signals. She never said MMF turned her on, but maybe we should give it a try. She said she wouldn't look for men on the swinger website, but once said she could imagine trying MMF. She is unsure about other couples, but it is also her fantasy, she said.
What are your thoughts on this?
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