Question about cock humiliation for those with not so small cocks.

[Floatsyourboat]

What do you think awoke this in her?

I think it started from me degrading it to her sort of like, when she’s on her knees sucking me I’d say things like “ do you want me to set up a real cock for you to suck on” or she would text me making sure I’d got her skimpy pants on and I’d reply with “ my little Dicklet or boy clit is all squashed up in them. She then started referring to it as boy clit or Dicklet

 

[penc1ld1kt]

I think it started from me degrading it to her sort of like, when she’s on her knees sucking me I’d say things like “ do you want me to set up a real cock for you to suck on” or she would text me making sure I’d got her skimpy pants on and I’d reply with “ my little Dicklet or boy clit is all squashed up in them. She then started referring to it as boy clit or Dicklet

Similar with me. I don't think she would have gone there without me making comments about being too small and coming too quick - though interestingly, it has corresponded with her becoming more assertive in other parts of our life.

 

[Floatsyourboat]

I get you. Boss tends to make more decisions now which is a blessing

 

[penc1ld1kt]

I get you. Boss tends to make more decisions now which is a blessing

For me this assertiveness has manifested in her becoming increasingly disinterested in sex to the point now I'm lucky to get a supervised masturbation session. If I'm even luckier she'll massage my taint to get it over with leaving me to clean up.

 

[wasper]

These days she'll see my flaccid 3" cock and say "oh it must be cold" and she regularly teases me about how quickly she can make me come.

Don't even get me started on what my Asian wife says about my cumming quick. A lot has been said as it happens pretty regularly LOL. Last crack I remember her getting in was I told her I was going to fuck her when we woke up last Saturday morning and she replied oh we have a lot to do, will we have time... well I guess we can just set the alarm for a minute earlier ... LMAO what a comedienne

 

[Dogstar6969]

Have you considered her locking you cock up then degrading and humiliating you because you're unable to fuck?

Its something to try I guess. I like it when I struggle to keep it up or cum to quick. In the last couple of weeks she's seemed to ramp things back up after almost grinding to a halt. She's started slapping me when I step out of line and she jumped onto my face after riding me to orgasm the other day. That was when I really knew something had finally changed. It was like that meme...



So since then she also revealed that a long term friend has resurfaced whom she thought had dissapreard from her life. They've gone from being "He's like my best friend, we never fucked and never would" when we first met. To, "well I had a bf or husband and when ever I didn't he had a gf. But other wise we would definitely have gotten together" nowadays. This guy is like a handsome looking version of john coffee from the movie green mile. He's basically the dream steriotypical "black bull" type guy who's very attractive, tall, muscular and Im guessing is packing. I very much doubt however that he'd be into anything with me involved. But even just to clean up while she plays with my dick and sits on my face after sharing me with her tails of her evening. Shes just dropped on me tonight that we can get a hotel for my birthday in April and she eluded get up tonall sorts. This was right after the convo about her friend. So I'm hoping she might have something up her sleave involving him. I'm sure we used to tease each other about him years ago and she once said she'd be able to get him to fuck another guy shes quite sure. But then lately shes changed her attitude to all that. Its ironic cos shes the one who has the fetish for guys in stockings etc. But now I'm actually getting into it!! I think its had the opposite effect on how she sees me. I've told her I want her to sissify me recently and I now think tjatvwas the straw that brike the canles back. So I hope shes now thinking about him. She even mentioned something about black cock while we were playing cards against humanity tonight! Thats not on any card, she just blurted it out and looked at me with this smile. So I think I might be right. 😅 I'll update if when anything develops.

 

[penc1ld1kt]

Don't even get me started on what my Asian wife says about my cumming quick. A lot has been said as it happens pretty regularly LOL. Last crack I remember her getting in was I told her I was going to fuck her when we woke up last Saturday morning and she replied oh we have a lot to do, will we have time... well I guess we can just set the alarm for a minute earlier ... LMAO what a comedienne

I know what you mean. The teasing is a major turn on for me but also a major slug to my ego. The more she teases me the more turned on I get and the quicker I come then the more she teases me.

The last time we did it she just slipped me in from spooning no problems (minimum foreplay - it's like I don't even touch the sides any more). Then she just squeezed her pussy, bucked her hips and I was done in 20 seconds, pulling out, rolling on my back and coming all over myself (no birth control so I'm not ever allowed to come inside). "Finished" was all she said in a flat, mocking tone even while I was dribbling out my sticky, little load.

 

[nicebiguy]

Its something to try I guess. I like it when I struggle to keep it up or cum to quick. In the last couple of weeks she's seemed to ramp things back up after almost grinding to a halt. She's started slapping me when I step out of line and she jumped onto my face after riding me to orgasm the other day. That was when I really knew something had finally changed. It was like that meme...

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So since then she also revealed that a long term friend has resurfaced whom she thought had dissapreard from her life. They've gone from being "He's like my best friend, we never fucked and never would" when we first met. To, "well I had a bf or husband and when ever I didn't he had a gf. But other wise we would definitely have gotten together" nowadays. This guy is like a handsome looking version of john coffee from the movie green mile. He's basically the dream steriotypical "black bull" type guy who's very attractive, tall, muscular and Im guessing is packing. I very much doubt however that he'd be into anything with me involved. But even just to clean up while she plays with my dick and sits on my face after sharing me with her tails of her evening. Shes just dropped on me tonight that we can get a hotel for my birthday in April and she eluded get up tonall sorts. This was right after the convo about her friend. So I'm hoping she might have something up her sleave involving him. I'm sure we used to tease each other about him years ago and she once said she'd be able to get him to fuck another guy shes quite sure. But then lately shes changed her attitude to all that. Its ironic cos shes the one who has the fetish for guys in stockings etc. But now I'm actually getting into it!! I think its had the opposite effect on how she sees me. I've told her I want her to sissify me recently and I now think tjatvwas the straw that brike the canles back. So I hope shes now thinking about him. She even mentioned something about black cock while we were playing cards against humanity tonight! Thats not on any card, she just blurted it out and looked at me with this smile. So I think I might be right. 😅 I'll update if when anything develops.

Sounds real good, maybe she just needs a little more time to think get more comfortable with the whole thing.

 

[nicebiguy]

I think it started from me degrading it to her sort of like, when she’s on her knees sucking me I’d say things like “ do you want me to set up a real cock for you to suck on” or she would text me making sure I’d got her skimpy pants on and I’d reply with “ my little Dicklet or boy clit is all squashed up in them. She then started referring to it as boy clit or Dicklet

Very hot n sexy.

 

[GoodTimes40]

So I wanted to see if anyone has a similar situation or can shed any light on this? So I have an average cock length but decent girth. So I wanna understand how/why I have the reaction I do to my mrs teasing me about something we both know isn't true. If I get any kind of humiliation, degradation etc I'm hard as a rock. Maybe that's why I've always tried to nudge her towards taking lovers with actual big cocks so it gives it a ring of truth. Then in comparison I would be small and pathetic. I just hope we manage to find a local enough guy to Sheffield (UK) with a good girthy 8-9" for us to play with. As theres no way I'm ever shrinking my dick! 😲

Because it’s not about our statistical measurements sometimes…sometimes it’s about what works for the wife. My dick has worked wonders for many women, but it’s just not big enough for the wife. She likes 8-9” and over 6” girth (around measurements not across which some idiots try to use - so stupid). That’s just the size that stretches her and makes her cum.

 

[Jameson]

My Boss Wifey didn’t like humiliation at first but now she loves it !

Our wives should meet 😈!

 

[Funtimes09]

My wife is 5’2 and about 130lbs. I am not small but I would say average 6” and girth 7 inches around. We have talked about her sexual past and she told me a story about before we were together she had a guy that was way longer then me and thicker then me. She said it was uncomfortable for her to take him. The story really turned me on thinking about her taking that massive cock. And since we’ve been together, I have bought her a vibrator that is 8 inches long and 8 1/2 inches around. I like I like sliding that in her pussy and making her come with it. She can only take maybe five or 6 inches of it in her and she cums from it. Then I like to fucker after I use it on her. I I like it when she humiliate me after telling me, I have a needle dick and my dick is worthless. How she can’t even feel me anymore telling me how my dick is so small. How she needs a real man to fuck her. After using that big toy, I’ve asked her if she think she could take the guys cock as she had before me and she tells me yes. I think it would be fun to watch her take it.

 

[bonaqo]

Similar experience for me - my Asian wife struggled to take my 5.5x4.5 at first, mine being the second cock she'd had. She even called me "the master" because I didn't blow my load in seconds (though
1-5 minutes is my usual).

When we watched porn together early on she'd comment on how big the guy's balls were (mine are embarrassingly small IMO) but she had to be thinking the same about their cocks and sparing my feelings.

She used to measure my cock using the top half of her thumb in the mistaken belief this was one inch so she had me around 7". I then measured length and girth in front of her with a tape measure and got turned on thinking about whether she and her friends have shared/compared.

These days she'll see my flaccid 3" cock and say "oh it must be cold" and she regularly teases me about how quickly she can make me come.

yes, my wife never knew my real length too before. when I asked her to measure it I asked her to guess my length first and what she thinks is an average size. She guessed that I am probably 17cm and average maybe 15cm. Well she was surprised that I am way smaller than her guess 😀

 

[bonaqo]

A partner is unlikely to do SPH unless coaxed to do so. Mine I think has picked up on my enjoyment of being teased in such a way. It's always done playfully and without malice - in other contexts she's still quick to reassure she has no complaints.

so true, my wife initially always says "its the perfect size" etc. Once she knows I am into SPH then she keeps teasing how small it is, and I love it.

 

[penc1ld1kt]

yes, my wife never knew my real length too before. when I asked her to measure it I asked her to guess my length first and what she thinks is an average size. She guessed that I am probably 17cm and average maybe 15cm. Well she was surprised that I am way smaller than her guess 😀

What did she say when she knew the precise size?

 

[jordanscott]

So I wanted to see if anyone has a similar situation or can shed any light on this? So I have an average cock length but decent girth. So I wanna understand how/why I have the reaction I do to my mrs teasing me about something we both know isn't true. If I get any kind of humiliation, degradation etc I'm hard as a rock. Maybe that's why I've always tried to nudge her towards taking lovers with actual big cocks so it gives it a ring of truth. Then in comparison I would be small and pathetic. I just hope we manage to find a local enough guy to Sheffield (UK) with a good girthy 8-9" for us to play with. As theres no way I'm ever shrinking my dick! 😲

I’m the same way dude.