So I wanted to see if anyone has a similar situation or can shed any light on this? So I have an average cock length but decent girth. So I wanna understand how/why I have the reaction I do to my mrs teasing me about something we both know isn't true. If I get any kind of humiliation, degradation etc I'm hard as a rock. Maybe that's why I've always tried to nudge her towards taking lovers with actual big cocks so it gives it a ring of truth. Then in comparison I would be small and pathetic. I just hope we manage to find a local enough guy to Sheffield (UK) with a good girthy 8-9" for us to play with. As theres no way I'm ever shrinking my dick! 😲
Question about cock humiliation for those with not so small cocks.
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I’m average at 6” but kind of thicker too and mine won’t humiliate me no matter how I ask her to. She just says “you’re not a pencil by any means and I love the size and shape, you’ve got nothing to be humiliated about”.
She apparently doesn’t have a mean bone in her body, even when it comes to some role playing. I don’t bother much asking her anymore and just go with it.
She apparently doesn’t have a mean bone in her body, even when it comes to some role playing. I don’t bother much asking her anymore and just go with it.
Nearly exactly the same here. My wife is a petite Asian and thought my hard 5.5" has huge when we met. After a few visits to nude resorts she came to realize that it was average when hard and embarrassingly small at 2" soft. So while she also won't do the humiliation thing (other than occasionally calling my flaccid cock "cute") she does comment on bigger cocks and enjoys seeing them either live at the nude resorts, or when we watch porn. I took to jerking off before we went out at nude resorts to ensure that at game time I would be as small as possible while we walked around - so guys would see a sexy petite Asian MILF accompanied by a skinny white guy with a 2" cocktail wiener. This resulted in a totally unexpected situation... she was usually the only Asian there so already the focus of attention. Single guys swinging 5,6,7" soft would see me and (rightfully) think I had brought her there to display / offer her up to others and she would get hit on by them, one after another, as if I wasn't even there. At first she was uncomfortable being nude and having to verbally parry the aggressive come-ons from guys who were generally muscular and hung. But she quickly started to enjoy it and treat it as a game as there was no real threat of anything happening that she didn't want to. My favorite interaction was when a big heavily muscled hispanic guy with an absolutely huge soft cock chatted her up and asked her if she thought she could handle a session with him given what she "usually had to deal with" and gestured at my soft turtling dick. She just smiled and said she didn't like men who were too big because she had a very small vagina. The guy laughed and walked off... and despite having just jerked off it was the only time I actually got hard in public. Needless to say the whole scenario around being emabarrased and humilated by bigger cocks in front of my wife despite having an average sized one was over-the-top exciting.
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I'm average too, but are always bigger ones to compare. If my wife has sex with someone else I want he was bigger. Her dildos are bigger of course, and she can compare mine with bigger ones. My wife doesn't think I'm small, in fact she says I'm more than sufficient, but she knows are bigger ones out there. And I like she compare mine to others.
Good one today - asked the Asian wife for a blow job just as I got out of the shower. (She had just been outside). I sit on the sofa in my robe and she gets on her knees in front of me and opens my robe and starts rubbing my cock with her very cold hands. I say to her “Look — your cold hands made my cock get really small”. Her reply - “It was already really small when i got here”. That’s a pic of us just above. She wasn’t lying - I was smaller than in the pic, probably about 2” or less LOL
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I am 7 & 1/4 inches and reasonably girthy and small penis humiliation is a huge part of our relationship, I have posted on other threads my wife likes to have a lover and a small stable of fuck buddies, the difference being a lover will be long term, bare back she will stay over night, short weekend break together her last guy Steve lasted 11 years and Kieron the one previous 8 years, they will play a part in our cuckold relationship, fuck buddies come and fuck and leave although again where possible she will keep them long term the theory being the more they fuck the better they get to know each other the better the fuck....
I have been chaste since the 26th November 2010 and quite genuinely now am trained to get my pleasure from her's....the SPH is 24/7 365 for us just like the chastity we live it as a life style she calls me Stubbz
So when her Mum asked why do you call him Stubbz she said because he is such a good guy and always stubs out any problems we ever had or have....so Mum thinks it's a term of endearment and we both get off a little in Mum's company that beneath my trousers I wear a full steel belt and the term of endearment is in fact a public humiliation....
Friends that ask or her sister and her female cousin she tells...... I call him Stubbs because he has a pathetically small penis and I say penis because it is so small and so fucking useless it doesn't deserve to be called a cock....Stubbz is her abbreviation for Stubby Little Penis
It works for us....she only fucks guys with 8 inches or a little larger who we initially meet through various swinger sites so we know they are hung before anything ever happens.....on one occasion where she met the guy via work he was only maybe a 1/4 inch bigger than me she just got round this by constantly telling me and him that I was a useless fuck and he was so much better so that worked out too....
I must admit I have (not for years now) wondered how I might feel if I did have a small penis, would I be able to take it??
Anyway thats my story....
I have been chaste since the 26th November 2010 and quite genuinely now am trained to get my pleasure from her's....the SPH is 24/7 365 for us just like the chastity we live it as a life style she calls me Stubbz
So when her Mum asked why do you call him Stubbz she said because he is such a good guy and always stubs out any problems we ever had or have....so Mum thinks it's a term of endearment and we both get off a little in Mum's company that beneath my trousers I wear a full steel belt and the term of endearment is in fact a public humiliation....
Friends that ask or her sister and her female cousin she tells...... I call him Stubbs because he has a pathetically small penis and I say penis because it is so small and so fucking useless it doesn't deserve to be called a cock....Stubbz is her abbreviation for Stubby Little Penis
It works for us....she only fucks guys with 8 inches or a little larger who we initially meet through various swinger sites so we know they are hung before anything ever happens.....on one occasion where she met the guy via work he was only maybe a 1/4 inch bigger than me she just got round this by constantly telling me and him that I was a useless fuck and he was so much better so that worked out too....
I must admit I have (not for years now) wondered how I might feel if I did have a small penis, would I be able to take it??
Anyway thats my story....
I`m 5 inches when hard but about inch when soft. Like my wife commenting on a guy with a soft cock that bigger then mine when hard.
bonaqo
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sph is the best! my length is 5" and is roughly average but ever since I bought an XL condom and put it on, my wife is now aware that my cock is actually very small 😀
My Asian wife was pretty impressed with my 5.5” White cock when she first saw it, having only had Asian bfs before me. One day we were fooling around and she happened to have a tape measure nearby and decided to measure me. Like an idiot, I was sitting down and let her put the tape on me and it showed only 4.75” due to my positioning. She said “wow I thought it was like 7 or something…”. I said “But wait… let me get up…” but the damage was done. Now she thinks I’m under hung forever LOL
Similar experience for me - my Asian wife struggled to take my 5.5x4.5 at first, mine being the second cock she'd had. She even called me "the master" because I didn't blow my load in seconds (though
1-5 minutes is my usual).
When we watched porn together early on she'd comment on how big the guy's balls were (mine are embarrassingly small IMO) but she had to be thinking the same about their cocks and sparing my feelings.
She used to measure my cock using the top half of her thumb in the mistaken belief this was one inch so she had me around 7". I then measured length and girth in front of her with a tape measure and got turned on thinking about whether she and her friends have shared/compared.
These days she'll see my flaccid 3" cock and say "oh it must be cold" and she regularly teases me about how quickly she can make me come.
I'm avg at just under 6", but my flacid cock is quite small at maybe 2". She has always said she has no complaints, and has never been any SPH even when her ex fuck buddy joins us, and there easily could be
A partner is unlikely to do SPH unless coaxed to do so. Mine I think has picked up on my enjoyment of being teased in such a way. It's always done playfully and without malice - in other contexts she's still quick to reassure she has no complaints.
I know that situation very well when all my wife's bull soft are much bigger than mine full hard
Have you considered her locking you cock up then degrading and humiliating you because you're unable to fuck?
Floatsyourboat
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