Potential bull asking: why let us do this ?

[lonlonepona]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

 

[lonlonepona]

My wife and I always enjoyed having daring sex
When we first started dating she was a virgin and she enjoyed having sex while driving around in the car.
When she brought up her curiosity about having sex with other men I first was shocked but it was also very exciting for both of us
Watching her getting fucked by other men was a great thrill for us.
It was extremely daring to see her wanting to be fucked by other men
When she asked me to try sucking their cocks again we seen it as daring
The more she fucked other men and having me suck their cocks the more I felt submissive to her and her men and I loved that feeling
When my wife had me wearing very short cutoff shorts at home it was just a matter of time that she had me wearing the shorts out in public
Again it was daring and we both enjoyed being the submissive husband
We finally realized that I was a cuckold husband

Is this a way to explore your bicuriousity ?

 

[Biguy916]

I never had any bi feelings but when she asked me to suck the guy’s cock I really felt like this was extremely daring and once I did it I had to admit how excited I felt about it
My wife loved seeing it and she was very turned on by watching me
I realized I was bisexual because I enjoyed it very much

 

[lonlonepona]

I never had any bi feelings but when she asked me to suck the guy’s cock I really felt like this was extremely daring and once I did it I had to admit how excited I felt about it
My wife loved seeing it and she was very turned on by watching me
I realized I was bisexual because I enjoyed it very much

It sounds like it may be to some extent. Which is fine, I’m not judging you about it. I know how a large penis effects a surprising amount of guys in my experience.

 

[Biguy916]

I certainly love taking a large cock down my throat

 

[Azncouple21]

But both of you have value. You’re not bitches just because of penis size. People like me aren’t superior just because we have a huge penis.

Wish my wife was more into making me suck a hot dick like yours

 

[lonlonepona]

Wish my wife was more into making me suck a hot dick like yours

Why ? It’s just a large penis. There’s more to people than that.

 

[werekinky2]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

For me honestly I just like to be able to sit back and watch her enjoying another cock. It’s extremely exciting something new.

 

[chastetexan]

Hi ! I am not coming with an attitude of hatred so please don’t read any of my questions this way.

As some background I’ve been fortunate with what I have. Tall, good hair, fit, and well endowed. In various situations this has led to being asked to join a threesome, sometimes as a bull.

For married men that want a hung man to please their wife, why do you want this ? I personally believe women deserve the best, and we can offer it in different ways. Does it come from that ?

Why not spend the time working on yourself and your relationship instead of convincing her to enjoy a hung man ? Like it is fairly easy to gain muscle, get fit, you just need to stick to it. You can learn and do more skills together.

I appreciate any time and responses. Thanks.

For me it's the thrill of not being in control, being at the "mercy" of someone else, and we will only move forward in this lifestyle if we both are enjoying it and happy...so the thrill of her having a great time is a big part of it. Can't speak for others but I'm in an executive position in my job, breadwinner of the house even though she too has a great career, and hold various volunteer leadership positions so when it comes to sex I like being submissive and told what to do for a change. I know that it is mentally draining for her to be dominant in the bedroom so the simple solution in my simple mind is to bring another person into the mix. I don't know if over time she would grow jealous if we added another female to the mix but I don't think I would be jealous of a bull being part of our sex lives.

 

[coastalkid]

In your experiences have you witnessed things turning out badly for couples that share their wives?

You mentioned in another post that you understand what women get out of it. I don't disagree with you, it's clear the women typically end up empowered and confident. I also get the feeling from reading your posts that you have sympathy for the husbands/bf's otherwise you would have stopped posting.

Reading posts here is not an accurate snapshot in my opinion. You really have to sift through the bullshit. The problem is, the handful of times you run across someone that sounds genuine, they too typically have an unusual relationship. That makes it tough to discern whether it's the truth or not.

I'm always skeptical when it's a complete power exchange and wives/gf's turn into a selfish, self-centered, intentionally cruel, unrecognizable bitch. The husband/bf has been "pussy free" for years. His only orgasms are part of his humiliation. That has to be fantasy or at a minimum 0.000001% of the population if the relationship has lasted any significant time.

What I've always thought is that a wife/gf likes this lifestyle and wants to continue then it seems it would be in their best interests to make it fun and appealing to their husband/bf. My wife isn't a hot wife but if she was it wouldn't mean that I want less sex. I've always wanted more sex. If I got more sex and sexual attention because my wife was a hot wife then I'm all in. But, if it didn't turn out that way then why be in it? What do I really get out of it? That's why I believe only a smart wife/gf can pull this off and make it work over time. They know a happy husband/bf makes a happy life, happy for everyone.

 

[lonlonepona]

In your experiences have you witnessed things turning out badly for couples that share their wives?

You mentioned in another post that you understand what women get out of it. I don't disagree with you, it's clear the women typically end up empowered and confident. I also get the feeling from reading your posts that you have sympathy for the husbands/bf's otherwise you would have stopped posting.

Reading posts here is not an accurate snapshot in my opinion. You really have to sift through the bullshit. The problem is, the handful of times you run across someone that sounds genuine, they too typically have an unusual relationship. That makes it tough to discern whether it's the truth or not.

I'm always skeptical when it's a complete power exchange and wives/gf's turn into a selfish, self-centered, intentionally cruel, unrecognizable bitch. The husband/bf has been "pussy free" for years. His only orgasms are part of his humiliation. That has to be fantasy or at a minimum 0.000001% of the population if the relationship has lasted any significant time.

What I've always thought is that a wife/gf likes this lifestyle and wants to continue then it seems it would be in their best interests to make it fun and appealing to their husband/bf. My wife isn't a hot wife but if she was it wouldn't mean that I want less sex. I've always wanted more sex. If I got more sex and sexual attention because my wife was a hot wife then I'm all in. But, if it didn't turn out that way then why be in it? What do I really get out of it? That's why I believe only a smart wife/gf can pull this off and make it work over time. They know a happy husband/bf makes a happy life, happy for everyone.

Sometimes it feels like a subtle matriarchy being assembled by smart women. I’ve met women that have made me think that from discussions. I am not suggesting it is what is happening, it just feels like it sometimes.
There is something larger playing out though, as these kind of things become more common. And I don’t think it’s good.

 

[coastalkid]

Sometimes it feels like a subtle matriarchy being assembled by smart women. I’ve met women that have made me think that from discussions. I am not suggesting it is what is happening, it just feels like it sometimes.
There is something larger playing out though, as these kind of things become more common. And I don’t think it’s good.

You gotta figure there's success and failure in the traditional monogamous world. It can't be that much different in the non-traditional world. I mean, the success and failure rate has to be percentage wise along the same lines. I've always thought that the ones that make it work are a unique pairing, that just align. Others that don't, eventually fall apart, sometimes tragically. It's not so different than the monogamous world.

There are many things people do and don't do here that are unfathomable to me. I have no point of reference. What do you think the "something larger" is?

 

[lonlonepona]

You gotta figure there's success and failure in the traditional monogamous world. It can't be that much different in the non-traditional world. I mean, the success and failure rate has to be percentage wise along the same lines. I've always thought that the ones that make it work are a unique pairing, that just align. Others that don't, eventually fall apart, sometimes tragically. It's not so different than the monogamous world.

There are many things people do and don't do here that are unfathomable to me. I have no point of reference. What do you think the "something larger" is?

I’m not sure exactly what that something larger is. I have a few ideas, none of them great. But I know I’ve been getting asked more frequently than before to join as a bull and size queens seem to be getting more common too.

 

[arltxstagnvixen]

There is not... a broader conspiracy among women... to turn men into cuckolds...

At. All.

Our societies are becoming slightly less prudish, however.

 

[lonlonepona]

There is not... a broader conspiracy among women... to turn men into cuckolds...

At. All.

Our societies are becoming slightly less prudish, however.

I didn’t mean to suggest a large conspiracy with like meetups lol. I think it’s more larger forces at play. Most aren’t aware but a few are.

 

[arltxstagnvixen]

I think it’s more larger forces at play. Most aren’t aware but a few are.

You are proposing an unsupported speculation based on your claims - that is the nature of being a conspiracy theorist.

 

[lonlonepona]

You are proposing an unsupported speculation based on your claims - that is the nature of being a conspiracy theorist.

How so ? I don’t think it’s a conspiracy to say the decline and rise of certain institutions and norms are playing out. Some are actively involved in that, some are indirectly going for other goals and it’s having side effects, most are letting the currents take them.

 

[arltxstagnvixen]

Sometimes it feels like a subtle matriarchy being assembled by smart women. I’ve met women that have made me think that from discussions. I am not suggesting it is what is happening, it just feels like it sometimes.

Here is how so, in your own words.

 

[lonlonepona]

Here is how so, in your own words.

I don’t think it’s wild to say feminism has had major impacts on the world. That there are good and bad actors in it. That those impacts have been good and bad. That some impacts are intended or not.

The gen z dating and marriage market is absolutely messed up. It’s basically hypergamy. Cuckolding and threesomes and size queens are on the rise. This has damaged a lot of men and women.

My comment about smart women was from personal experiences I’ve had with some women. Not to say they’re in some grand conspiracy, but that they seemed to also be keen to what is going on.

I know all of this wasn’t directly pointed out in my original comment. I didn’t expect to get grilled over it but I suppose I should.

 

[arltxstagnvixen]

Fair enough - but I think in expression of your opinions, you may need to be a detailed typer, take your time and communicate clearly.

Feminism has brought about a great deal of good, undoing a lot of the bad that the oppression of one gender created in our nation (USA) for a couple hundred years.
Women have been treated as though inferior, unable to do math or science and have been paid less for the same work for far, far too long.
Women have been treated terribly in industry, taken advantage of and treated as though only sex will give them advancement.

You would be very hard pressed to make a case that feminism, the activism for advancing equal treatment and rights, has damaged us.

Not at all; it is a step toward healing.

 

[coastalkid]

There is not... a broader conspiracy among women... to turn men into cuckolds...

At. All.

Our societies are becoming slightly less prudish, however.

I agree, it doesn't seem like a conspiracy to me either.

I'm not so sure about our society becoming slightly less prudish. If it is, it's more like, slightly less, sort of, in a way, kind of somewhat, less prudish. I really don't think we're significantly more tolerant. The forces of intolerance still have a grip on morality. Bud Light and Target are just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to "push back" from the present ruling moral majority. Unfortunately sex is intrinsically linked to politics, religious beliefs and the rejection of any lifestyle not based on monogamy. Those things have a much greater voice and have wider public acceptance than any alternative lifestyle.