Number of thrusts you give your wife on average?
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i can only give her enough thrusts to get her started then i am done way before she is.
bluejay88
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When I was younger and I didn't care or understand women or sex. I'd be with a girl, mess around and cum pretty quick because it felt good.
There was many times I got a blow job and cummed in a couple of minutes. A few girls complained because I took too long.
Everytime I had sex, mostly in my car, time was limited.
I got my own apartment. The first time I had real sex was with the first girl I had over.
We had a hot makeout session then went to my bed. She gave me some good head then asked if I'd lick her. I'd never seen a pussy that wet. I licked her for a few and she came HARD, something else i'd never seen. She climbed on me and I came quick. She rolled off, started another makeout session, I got hard quick. We fucked in many positions and she kept saying how good it felt. I finally let it go. I figured we were done, I'd never had sex like that. She was rubbing her clit saying how horny she was. I fucked her two more times.
That's when I realized women love sex too.
Since that night I always tried to think about what the girl liked and wanted. I had many repeat fuck friends, some were only sex friends.
I had several long term things with married or strongly commited/engaged women.
Guys...don't cum quick.
There was many times I got a blow job and cummed in a couple of minutes. A few girls complained because I took too long.
Everytime I had sex, mostly in my car, time was limited.
I got my own apartment. The first time I had real sex was with the first girl I had over.
We had a hot makeout session then went to my bed. She gave me some good head then asked if I'd lick her. I'd never seen a pussy that wet. I licked her for a few and she came HARD, something else i'd never seen. She climbed on me and I came quick. She rolled off, started another makeout session, I got hard quick. We fucked in many positions and she kept saying how good it felt. I finally let it go. I figured we were done, I'd never had sex like that. She was rubbing her clit saying how horny she was. I fucked her two more times.
That's when I realized women love sex too.
Since that night I always tried to think about what the girl liked and wanted. I had many repeat fuck friends, some were only sex friends.
I had several long term things with married or strongly commited/engaged women.
Guys...don't cum quick.
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I like to fuck long and hard so I generally use a delay spray to stop me cumming too quick. That way I'd guess at least 200 strokes.
Without the spray I might only get a dozen or so.
Without the spray I might only get a dozen or so.
Fun topic! I read this thread earlier today, and I wanted to count for myself so I had a quickie with my gf just now. Big events include her first orgasm after about 80 thrusts, her second orgasm at 140 or so (I started to lose count of thrusts LOL), me starting to get close at around 180 or so, then she came again at some point, and I came at 223.
Some sexy details for those curious readers hahaha:
I went down on her at first for a few minutes to warm her up and give her 3 small orgasms, she was super wet after that so I got on top and slid inside her. So let's not count those orgasms. Sliding in was thrust 1.
In terms of "thrusts", I varied them a lot, mostly I went slowly and did some half-strokes or three-quarter strokes to tease. Sometimes I sank into her all the way and held it there for a few moments. And when I was deep inside like that, sometimes I did slow tiny thrusts, like I'd pull my cock back a couple millimeters, so there was no friction between the skin of my cock and her vaginal walls and yet the inside of her pussy was clinging to my cock with my small motions, and I'd do that rhythmically for a few moments. And sometimes I'd pull out all the way and then slide just the head of my cock in and out of her opening a few times. I counted all those as "thrusts".
And I got to the point of no return at exactly 220. I told her that I was gonna cum and I continued slowly thrusting as I went over the edge, but I went REAL slow so that she could feel all the contractions in my cock. I was groaning and I kept the stimulation building and I pushed all the muscles down there to keep them relaxed so I was kinda in that blissful crazy state for three thrusts, and that's when I lost it and pushed all the way in hard and kept it there. No more thrusts after that, just pulsations and cum 🤤
All together, I'd say penetration was about 5 or 6 minutes total.
Some sexy details for those curious readers hahaha:
I went down on her at first for a few minutes to warm her up and give her 3 small orgasms, she was super wet after that so I got on top and slid inside her. So let's not count those orgasms. Sliding in was thrust 1.
In terms of "thrusts", I varied them a lot, mostly I went slowly and did some half-strokes or three-quarter strokes to tease. Sometimes I sank into her all the way and held it there for a few moments. And when I was deep inside like that, sometimes I did slow tiny thrusts, like I'd pull my cock back a couple millimeters, so there was no friction between the skin of my cock and her vaginal walls and yet the inside of her pussy was clinging to my cock with my small motions, and I'd do that rhythmically for a few moments. And sometimes I'd pull out all the way and then slide just the head of my cock in and out of her opening a few times. I counted all those as "thrusts".
And I got to the point of no return at exactly 220. I told her that I was gonna cum and I continued slowly thrusting as I went over the edge, but I went REAL slow so that she could feel all the contractions in my cock. I was groaning and I kept the stimulation building and I pushed all the muscles down there to keep them relaxed so I was kinda in that blissful crazy state for three thrusts, and that's when I lost it and pushed all the way in hard and kept it there. No more thrusts after that, just pulsations and cum 🤤
All together, I'd say penetration was about 5 or 6 minutes total.
My wife recently got her tits done. With that a whole new confidence.
Ever since I can’t seem to last more than a minute or two.
Since she gets her orgasms elsewhere, she doesn’t need me for pleasure and has really started to lean into making me cum prematurely. She’ll tease and tease and tease until finally letting me inside her. I haven’t lasted more than two minutes in a couple weeks.
On the plus side, I’m getting to cum a lot more since she gets such a kick out of it.
Ever since I can’t seem to last more than a minute or two.
Since she gets her orgasms elsewhere, she doesn’t need me for pleasure and has really started to lean into making me cum prematurely. She’ll tease and tease and tease until finally letting me inside her. I haven’t lasted more than two minutes in a couple weeks.
On the plus side, I’m getting to cum a lot more since she gets such a kick out of it.
It's been a few months and this thread is still on my mind. I have some interesting numbers about me and my girl to share. It's been real fun, to be sure. I wish all data-gathering were this much fun 😀
She generally has her first orgasm between 60 and 100 strokes, depending on the day, but 80 really seems to be the magic number because at least 3 times she's cum on or around the 80th stroke. Once she came on the 40th stroke, we were doing it doggy and she'd initiated sex and was super horny. On the other end, one time it took her like 125 or so thrusts before she reached her first orgasm.
For me, I usually start feeling my orgasm start to build up around the 150th thrust or so but it varies, like if her pussy feels particularly good that day I might feel it building up earlier. I slow down to keep things under control, stopping briefly if I need to. She mostly likes shorter, quickie-type sessions, so let's say 200 to 300 thrusts maximum before I cum and we relax. But one night we had a ton of time and had been drinking and smoking, so we went slowly and I lost count after 500 thrusts, but we didn't go hugely longer than that.
Any body else been keeping track lately?
She generally has her first orgasm between 60 and 100 strokes, depending on the day, but 80 really seems to be the magic number because at least 3 times she's cum on or around the 80th stroke. Once she came on the 40th stroke, we were doing it doggy and she'd initiated sex and was super horny. On the other end, one time it took her like 125 or so thrusts before she reached her first orgasm.
For me, I usually start feeling my orgasm start to build up around the 150th thrust or so but it varies, like if her pussy feels particularly good that day I might feel it building up earlier. I slow down to keep things under control, stopping briefly if I need to. She mostly likes shorter, quickie-type sessions, so let's say 200 to 300 thrusts maximum before I cum and we relax. But one night we had a ton of time and had been drinking and smoking, so we went slowly and I lost count after 500 thrusts, but we didn't go hugely longer than that.
Any body else been keeping track lately?
I am a bit confused. How long is one stroke 1 sec or 2/sec that would be 60-120 per min, so you are saying you only stroke her for 1-3 min, wow you are a quick comer and she organs really quick as well. I would think in a heated session I’m receiving 3-4 strokes per second that is 180-240 strokes per min. I would hope a guy would last more than 15 min, a good session is more like 20-30 min or more. 10 min would be 1800-2400. Any man not able to last 15 plus min will not have a second time in my bed.
This question seems to simplistic in my view. Are we wearing a condom when we are counting the thrusts, or are we bare? It's so hard to cum with a condom on, the number of thrusts climbs unless we go soft and withdraw to use our tongue to pleasure our wife. And if we are enjoying "seconds" with our wife after her BF has just fnished in her the number of thrusts we make will decline due to the added excitement we feel being in her afterwards.
Are we supposed to be counting thrusts? Seems a smartwatch app or something could do that. Is time not an easier measure? Nightly before bed stuff is 10 -15 minutes. Daytime or weekend "deliberate sex" is quite a bit longer. If just the two of us likely 30 or 40 minutes, maybe a second round. If MFM playing with her boyfriend an hour at least. Hell sometimes the they go an hour just the two of them so it can vary
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