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[mgraff]

Hi all

Firstly, my wife and I have been together for 12 years, married for 5 with 1 ....... Our sex life is so so. Probably 'average' for the average marriage, having sex 2-3 times a week. The variety, however, is non existent. Don't get me wrong, our sex is good and she cums every time, as do I, but I just feel I want more. I have found myself masturbating very frequently to cuckold porn and watching it more and more. I would absolutely love to try this with my wife, watching/sharing her and seeing her being pleasured is a humongous desire of mine. Unfortunately I kind of know she would not be open to this, she is not open to anything else at all, and happy with just vanilla (95% of the time missionary) sex. I have tried to introduce toys, anal play, dirty talk, pictures, sex game anything really and she just does not seem open to anything.

She has mentioned a very attractive male starting working at her place recently, is this my way in?! Honestly no idea how to approach it as I as sure it would be rejected very quickly but this is a real desire of mine. She has only ever had 1 sexual partner previous to me and ...... to try anything new. All I want is to see her happy and being pleasured!!!!

 

[Duncanf]

Hi all

Firstly, my wife and I have been together for 12 years, married for 5 with 1 ....... Our sex life is so so. Probably 'average' for the average marriage, having sex 2-3 times a week. The variety, however, is non existent. Don't get me wrong, our sex is good and she cums every time, as do I, but I just feel I want more. I have found myself masturbating very frequently to cuckold porn and watching it more and more. I would absolutely love to try this with my wife, watching/sharing her and seeing her being pleasured is a humongous desire of mine. Unfortunately I kind of know she would not be open to this, she is not open to anything else at all, and happy with just vanilla (95% of the time missionary) sex. I have tried to introduce toys, anal play, dirty talk, pictures, sex game anything really and she just does not seem open to anything.

She has mentioned a very attractive male starting working at her place recently, is this my way in?! Honestly no idea how to approach it as I as sure it would be rejected very quickly but this is a real desire of mine. She has only ever had 1 sexual partner previous to me and ...... to try anything new. All I want is to see her happy and being pleasured!!!!

Ask her more about her new colleague. Be creative and tell her whether she would imagine having sex with him.

 

[wormwood]

Years ago, just to get the talk with my wife rolling, I would tease her about "her boyfriend". She would bring up something that happened in the past with us and I would pretend not to remember. I would say, "That must have been with your boyfriend" and we would both get a chuckle out of it. I expanded it like a running joke and if she would ask me about how a dress looked or if she should buy something, I would say something about "her boyfriend" like, "I think your boyfriend would like that." or "You should ask your boyfriend".
I can see a point where you can tease her, because she mentioned that he was good looking, about her "Work boyfriend". As long as you don't make it a snide or nasty remark, keep it fun.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

You have to talk smut to her during sex - name the toy the same name of her co-worker. How good does Jim's cock feel inside your pussy? Then lick her pussy after you have fucked her.