I guess I should provide an update. My wife went back to work after a 2 week vacation. She said she thought everyone at work knew she fucked Derek. I'm not so sure about this but I'm not there. This fact along with not wanting to be so dominated made her decide to quit her job. She said it was just too uncomfortable working with Derek and trying to avoid him.
In the meantime she tells me that she applied to be a barista at that coffee shop she was visiting and was hired. Quitting a good paying marketing job for $16 an hour doesn't make financial sense but there is Ty. She was going to the coffee shop everyday and chatting with a 27 year old black guy. She took a pic of him and he is handsome and well toned. I can see why she likes him. She kept telling me he was just a friend. I suspected it was more than that. This past weekend she came clean with the truth.
On the day she wore the short cutoff jean shorts and sheer top she fucked him in his car. She said he has tinted windows in the car so no one could see them in the back seat. He had asked her if she has ever been with a black man before and she said yes. Then he asked her if she enjoyed it and she said YES! I guess it was game on after that. I don't know all the details but he took her by the hand, put her in his car, moved to a more remote area of the parking lot and started to feel her up and kiss her. She said she was really turned on and wet. She grabbed his dick through his pants and then took it out to suck it. She said it was a "nice cock" not too big and not small. She said it looked beautiful. They got into the back seat and kept going until she climbed on top of him and rode his dick. She said he didn't last long.
Anyway the summary is that she has fucked him 3 times in his car and wants her on BC. I don't think that is too likely to be a problem now, although possible. More concerned about STIs than her getting pregnant. Pregnancy risk has always been a turn on for both of us. We had to make some decisions and new rules. No fucking while working, even on a break and if they continue this relationship I have to be able to watch at some point. Also, she is not to be BBC exclusive. Funny how many Asian women don't seem to be that interested in black men until they get blacked, Then you can't keep them away from black men.
OK, you are probably getting tired of reading all of this so I'll stop here. If interested I'll provide more updates.