Need Advice on Making this Happen
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Yep this could be true, but I have tried using a fire extinguisher and that hasn’t worked. In fact over the last 18 months I have tried many different types of fire extinguishers, so I figure I have less to lose now as she doesn’t seem able to let him go, despite the fact they haven’t had any physical contact for over 6 months (as far as I know) due to COVID and working from home!
sorry, thought I was in a different thread, not sure if that comment was for me or someone else?
sorry, thought I was in a different thread, not sure if that comment was for me or someone else?
I have detailed the entire night in the true stories forum - you can read it here https://www.wifewantstoplay.com/threads/shays-first-time-being-shared-omg.14633/
PotentialCuck1 - I think that you need to TALK TO HER - if you are good with her being with other people then be open about it. If this is more than just sex it could give you the chance to save your marriage. If it is you could open both of you up to a whole new world of fun..... NOT that I'm an expert or anything, just my opinion
As far as advise, figure out a way for the three of you to watch porn & do some drinking. If it's meant to be it will be.
As far as advise, figure out a way for the three of you to watch porn & do some drinking. If it's meant to be it will be.
I agree with the sentiment about talking to her openly, but this is a path I have already followed. My wife is a more complicated creature than most, and without writing another essay it’s hard to get this across with the 20 years of history between us. My wife will not open up to me on her desires, and she is an introvert. Very shy, but due to her upbringing wanting to confirm to societies norms.
I appreciate the advice though and I think you are bang in with porn snd a few drinks. I had a long conversation yesterday with some on here about exactly that. Believe it or not my wife has never watched porn with me in 30 years. We got about 10 minutes in once, but she made such an over the top fuss we ended up stopping.
That said I have just bought 7 classic erotic soft core movies by a director called tinto brass. He specialises in cuckold movies. It’s more about the buildup than straight into it porn. I’m hoping I can find a situation to put it on and get her to watch it because it will be a great intro to the lifestyle for her, and in particular how a man can find it such a turn on. ‘The Key’ is the one I am planning to use. I’d recommend his movies to anyone on here, they are old but classics. My aim is to do this before Friday, but I’m not sure that will happen.
And re drinks with my best friend, as per my post for Friday that is exactly what the plan is, only I will lose all the games and pretend to fall asleep on the sofa early to leave them some alone time as 2 not 3. I’m not planning to push her into it or give her drinks, I’m just help setting a tempting scene and if she chooses to cheat on me again that will be her decision. I’m hoping that given some time after, it will make revisiting the subject much easier, and much harder for her to deny she wants sex with other men. I know she loves me, and I think she is conflicted inside.
I will be helping indirectly by buying her sexy lingerie the night before. if she chooses to wear them on the Friday she will feel sexier and it will help the chances of success, but ultimately I am leaving them alone and what she gets up to is what she wants to do. The good thing is that I whilst my wife is reserved to the extreme when sober, she is a real flirt once she has a drink. And I suspect she will pour herself a drink before she’s finished work for the day (wfh).
like you say if it’s meant to be it’s meant to be!
Did you discuss making this a regular situation or schedule another get together? Your wife will be much more comfortable the second time as will all of you.
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