Need advice: How do I make my wife progress?

[mopal]

My wife and I have been with our bull twice since January - 7 months and two meetings, which I find way too seldom. Our first two meetings has been more like threesomes that cuckolding, with me taking part and taking pictures. We have arranged our third meeting in September.
Our bull have a massive cock and I would like my wife to want to have more sex with him - but how?
She is very busy at work and our bull is only available on weekdays and Monday evenings - this makes meetings a bit tricky to arrange, but if my wife was more eager to get fucked I'm sure we could arrange someting.
Also I would like her to cuckold me, humiliate me and see her bull as her primary way to satisfaction.
So any ideas on how to move from threesome to cuckolding?

 

[Grandhomme]

We usually have a light meal/snacks and a couple of drinks then play cards or trivial purruit to make the evening more relaxed. My friend moves to sit next my wife and I sit opposite. They get touchy and slowly get naked before fucking as I watch. Just make more of the session than just fucking.

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[mopal]

Thanks, but it is more a question on how to go from threesome to cuckolding 🙂

 

[wife4guys]

Suggest she go on a date with him or that they, without you, move it to a bedroom, or you retire from the scene. There is past contactso not so big a move

 

[mopal]

Prior to the next meet I will tell him to take more initiative and action and let him know I will be more passive. And I will let her know that I will mainly be watching and maybe go to the living room at some point - if it is ok with her.

 

[Utwoscot]

My wife and I have been with our bull twice since January - 7 months and two meetings, which I find way too seldom. Our first two meetings has been more like threesomes that cuckolding, with me taking part and taking pictures. We have arranged our third meeting in September.
Our bull have a massive cock and I would like my wife to want to have more sex with him - but how?
She is very busy at work and our bull is only available on weekdays and Monday evenings - this makes meetings a bit tricky to arrange, but if my wife was more eager to get fucked I'm sure we could arrange someting.
Also I would like her to cuckold me, humiliate me and see her bull as her primary way to satisfaction.
So any ideas on how to move from threesome to cuckolding?

This sounds more like a problem with frequency than anything. Does she not want to find someone that is more available? The things you want to happen, are going to require her to get laid more often. My opinion of course, but why would a woman cuckold her husband for something that happens 4 or 5 times a year?

I have the same problem, my wife's lover is no more available than your wife's lover. She does see him about every 23 days on average. The last time, she wanted to be alone with him. She told me later, the first 3 times she did it for me, now she's doing it for herself. I'm happy with that progress, but I wasn't until I realized the largest leap had already been made. However slow I think it's going, I find out it's going quicker than I have any right to expect. Utwoscot -pease out.

 

[mopal]

This sounds more like a problem with frequency than anything. Does she not want to find someone that is more available? The things you want to happen, are going to require her to get laid more often. My opinion of course, but why would a woman cuckold her husband for something that happens 4 or 5 times a year?

I have the same problem, my wife's lover is no more available than your wife's lover. She does see him about every 23 days on average. The last time, she wanted to be alone with him. She told me later, the first 3 times she did it for me, now she's doing it for herself. I'm happy with that progress, but I wasn't until I realized the largest leap had already been made. However slow I think it's going, I find out it's going quicker than I have any right to expect. Utwoscot -pease out.

Thank you for your insight. I agree, frequency is definitely a problem - perhaps the root cause really. After our next meet I will suggest we start looking for someone new, not a replacement but rather a alternative lover.

 

[Utwoscot]

Thank you for your insight. I agree, frequency is definitely a problem - perhaps the root cause really. After our next meet I will suggest we start looking for someone new, not a replacement but rather a alternative lover.

Do you have any idea if she feels she is doing it for you, or herself? My wife admitted she was doing it for herself after the fourth time, which was without me there. That is where you are trying to get. Only since then has my wife mentioned cutting me off. Baby steps.

 

[mopal]

Do you have any idea if she feels she is doing it for you, or herself? My wife admitted she was doing it for herself after the fourth time, which was without me there. That is where you are trying to get. Only since then has my wife mentioned cutting me off. Baby steps.

For the moment I'm quite sure she is primarily doing it for me. It has been a long lasting fantasy and roleplay for both of us, but living it out was my doing.
She likes the preparations though, shopping for lingerie, shaving and doing her makeup.
It is not my goal to be cut off completely - just to ger her more interested and for her to take initiative to meetings. And for sure for her to be doing it more for herself.

 

[Utwoscot]

For the moment I'm quite sure she is primarily doing it for me. It has been a long lasting fantasy and roleplay for both of us, but living it out was my doing.
She likes the preparations though, shopping for lingerie, shaving and doing her makeup.
It is not my goal to be cut off completely - just to ger her more interested and for her to take initiative to meetings. And for sure for her to be doing it more for herself.

Love her, support her. Let her know it. Take up the things she's not yet willing to do. It's the best you can do .
My wife said she would never have an account on kik, or chat with men. Yet she does, albeit only one man.
We are fortunate people.

Utwoscot.