I read this a lot on here about the guy canceling or not showing up at all.
We do this with a guy we know, we've done it quite a few times with him. He's a nice guy and we all enjoy our fun. I never thought about it but he's very reliable. We line it up a day or two prior. There have been times he or us has canceled but we always give notice.
We did hook up with a stranger once, a guy we met in a hotel bar. Leading up to it, in the bar, chatting it was very exciting, wife was REALLY into him. Up in his room he turned into a real jerk so we left. Talk about a buzz ....... It started out great, they were kissing, got naked, she was giving him some head, she got on all fours looking at me, he slid in and started to fuck then slapped her ass really hard and called her a whore. She pulled away, got dressed and we left. Needless to say we didn't have hot sex after we left his room. We never want that to happen again so we probably won't hook up with a stranger again.
I can't imagine agreeing to meet a guy, going to a bar(?), anticipating the fun, getting excited then he dosent show ?? I wouldn't be happy.
I guess there has to be a first time with a guy to see how it goes.
I read these posts about a meet up turning bad and I'm glad we have our friend.