This is a bit of a difficult topic because what I find most "erotic" and what my husband would tell you are certainly two different lists. Also, MY "erotic" experiences include very "mental" type of experiences more than the "just fucking" experiences. I'm not quite sure how to relate them, but you, of course, know a few of them if you've followed my stories over the years. You might find them a bit less thrilling than some others you've read about me though.
Mrs Hotwife
OVERALL SUMMARY:
My biggest erotic thrill has always been CHEATING on my husband. Most of my married life thrills are related to cheating on my husband before we became involved in the lifestyle!
This is probably all way too long, but here goes.
1) Fucking my husband's good friend (one of his groomsmen) on my wedding night behind my husbands back. I cheated on my husband on my wedding night.
2) My friend catching me with cum dripping from my ass and mouth with 4 guys standing around me and calling me "The biggest slut in schooll".
3) Losing my virginity to my friend's mid-thirties aged dad. He fucked me while I was wearing my cheerleader dress in the back of the car.
4) Fucking my employer and at his wife's insistence, making him pay me more when I started giving him blowjobs and even more when I started letting him fuck me.
5) My first confession to my husband that I had cheated on him the night before with a co-worker.
Bonus round
7) Cheating on my husband at the lake with his co-workers and having his boss set me up with guys at the lake by telling them what a slut I was and that they would probably get to fuck me if they worked at it a bit, even with my husband right there. A mutual friend told my husband that she had heard two guys talking about fucking me, that his boss had told them I fucked around on my husband and my husband (so sweet) warned me about it. When I found out my husband's boss was setting me up with other guys at the lake, I took it as "inside information" and fucked both of them while my husband slept nearby. I related that story in my LIfestylers Magazine article about the lake (October 2021 edition I believe). I was beyond thrilled that I had a "reputation" and my husband's boss was keeping it going. He set me up many many times with guys after that weekend. My husband DID NOT KNOW THIS until recently.
8) The first time I finally went down on another girl, and my husband and I were doing it together. He eventually left me alone to my own devices eating her pussy. I loved it and enjoy pleasuring girls orally to this day.
DETAILS
1) Many of you already know this one. My wedding night I cheated with one of my husband's best friends and consummated my marriage with him. The circumstances were just dumb luck, but I've ALWAYS been lucky when it comes to sexual situations developing. My husband had returned to the wedding reception venue from our B and B with the limo driver because the driver had left one of our suitcases on the curb and we required the bag. My husband went back with him to find it. My husband's friend had driven our car over to the B and B for us and arrived when I was alone. The rest is best saved for if we re-post the story, but "AJ" was my biggest crush while my husband and I were dating and we both fantasized about me fucking him and talked about it during sex quite often. That's probably the hardest orgasm I ever had in my life. My husband had actually returned and caught us but didn't say anything for many years to me about it. He actually went back downstairs, got our little insta-matic camera, sneaked back upstairs and snapped a few grainy pics. Some of you have seen them posted here in the past.
2) Although It's a bit odd, if you've read my stories of how I started, when I was younger my best (girl) friend had caught me in an over the top sexual situation and told me "You're the biggest slut in school". I was so turned on by the thought of that and had never even considered that as a possibility. When she told me that, I was overcome with a feeling that it might actually be true and that nobody else really would ever suspect. AT the time I had mixed feelings, concern, regret and then finally pride and erotic thrill by it. I did try to do a couple of things to gain a "reputation" of sorts though, but I was "invisible" in HS and all of the super popular students would never know I existed. But, I was having way more exciting sex than them! She had come out of a back bedroom just at the time when there were four guys standing (or sitting) around me naked. I was probably 16 or close to it. I knew and was regular sex partners (oral and anal only) with two of the guys (who were my good friends since forever) and two other guys were there that I didn't know at all. My friends had lined up for our normal sexual situation, one guy was on the couch with me sucking his cock and the other was fucking me in the ass. This was just how we like to do it very often. The other two guys had been waiting their turns and I decided to let them either fuck me in the ass or give them blowjobs. I sucked one of them off and the other guy had gotten behind me and kept trying to fuck me even though he knew in no uncertain terms that he could only fuck my ass. My friend finally made him stop and he came around and sat on the couch for a blowjob. As my friend fucked me in the ass and came inside of me the fourth guy came in my mouth. Some of it was leaking out of my mouth and from the angle that my girlfriend Cher caught me in, she could see both the cum leaking from my ass, down my pussy and dripping off onto the floor and she saw that cum dripping out of my mouth as I turned around and saw her standing there, every one of those guys with hard cocks still!. That and the fact that four naked guys were standing right there around me, all of them having just been pleasured by me, drove her to call me the biggest slut in school. It might have been true.
3) My regular sex partners both went off to college my Junior year of HS and I began a sexual relationship with Brant, my friends mid thirties year old dad. He gave me rides home after various athletic events where I performed on the drill team. He lived right down the street. We would always first go to "the orchard" (the local parking hot spot) and smoke a little pot, maybe drink a beer and have great sex. We traded oral and he fucked me in the ass regularly. It was fun, and he was basically my high school "boyfriend" my junior year. I was going to turn 17 that next summer and the end of the school year was approaching fast. He always talked about my "cheerleader dress" that I wore for many performances and I slipped out of it all of the time when we were parking and having sex. I had decided that I DID NOT want to turn 17 and still be a (technical) virgin. He also talked about my cheerleader dress and after my last performance I just came out and told him that "I'm 16 and a virgin and I don't want to stay that way. We will both regret this for the rest of our lives if you don't fuck me in my cheerleader dress and finally help me lose my virginity". I wasn't on the pill, refused to have vaginal sex at all, especially with a condom but I knew my period was coming the next day or the day after because I could feel the signs. I convinced him to fuck me and I finally lost my virginity (at least in my mind that was the first official fucking I had, but to be sure, he and the boys had both been inside of me several times but not completely buried). To this day it's still a masturbation favorite memory of mine.
4) Too long of a story but an older (mid-twenties) girlfriend of mine from Brant's pool parties was married to "Dr Bob" as I called him. She was super sexually open and we kissed and fooled around a bit but she knew I was giving Brant blowjobs and anal and so did her husband. He wanted me badly and I wanted him just as bad. He was maybe the sexiest guy I ever had a chance with and he was also in his mid thirties and a doctor. He hired me to do a very technical job with billing because I was very detail oriented, even at that age. It saved him thousands of dollars by my efforts over the months. He offered to write me a prescription for "the pill" and I took him up on it. His wife told me he would expect something for it and she suggested I give him blowjobs at the office because she knew her husband wanted that badly. BUT then she suggested that at the right moment, just before I take his cock in my mouth, that I tell him I want him to double my pay because I was making him so much money. Wow! I did and he did it, I began sucking his cock regularly. Soon he wanted to fuck me, I wanted fucked and it was going to happen, he turned me on and I was now on the pill. When I discussed it with his wife she told me to get him at just the right moment and tell him I wanted my pay doubled again because of my job performance. I did, he didn't bat an eye, we were both getting laid and I was making more money than anybody else I knew. The thing was, I was worth the pay just because of the money I made for him and never considered myself as getting paid for sexual favors. Lately I guess I probably was in some way. He became my senior year HS boyfriend I suppose and I was insatiable, fucking him all of the time.
5) My husband was away for work and I had attended a huge, fancy party at the completion of a huge project I was working on. One of the engineers had always fancied me but I would never fuck around with a guy from work. I cheated on my husband, but he DID NOT KNOW ABOUT it at that time. The engineer offered me a ride home, both of us ......, he charmed me out of my clothes and I let him fuck me right there in my marital bed. This was a FIRST! For some reason, the next morning I started telling my husband over the phone, about the party, about the ride home and nervously I just told him the truth, that I had sex with Al last night. I was so nervous because this was my first confession to him that I had cheated on him. He was actually thrilled and happy for me. It all worked out. That first confession was super erotic.
EDIT To clarify....This was myy first unequivocally TRUE confession to him. Sometimes I confessed to things I hadn't done, just to make up a sexy story for him and sometimes I was telling the truth about confessing to sex with other guys, but he thought I was making up a story. I always kept him guessing!