My wife may be cheating

In our household this is normal except that my wife normally tells in me in advance she has a date. Actually, she usually says "I'm going to be cheating on you tonight bitch". You haven't really said if you want her fucking other men. That really defines most female led relationships and my wife and I both get off on her cheating.
 
He has told me alot about himself. He is just a player and not looking for anything long term. He said that he spotted my wife awhile ago at the store she works at. He flirted with her some and she just caught on. After that he said that she was really easy to attract.
 
Still trying to figure out how to approach her on this. And getting as much info to from him.
I propose a very direct approach. Like ripping a bandaid off. Tell her what you know and how you feel about it. Tell her you want total honesty from her about her experiences with this man.

In my opinion, if she withholds the truth, she is not a hotwife. She is just a cheater.