I know something is happening

Most of my wifes affairs have been with co-workers. And they usually start behind my back initially, she clues me in later once they become sexual or with someone she wants to be able to see regularly without having to hide it and worry about being "caught". I know she has affairs, and approve of this, and she generally shares them with me eventually. When her affair with her Boss/Lover graduated from "only when they travel together" to to "we want to be full time anytime Lovers, including when not traveling for worl", she got all dolled ul got me in bed and turned on, and then let me know about the affair (I had suspected, I'm not stupid).
What was most intensely sexual about her admission was it came after a hastily planned celbration trip to Cancun together (disquised as a work trip) to celebrate their decision to transition from "travel affair" to "full time affair" and she informed me that there was a VERY good chance she had come home PREGNANT!!! She presumed that my cum flying everywhere as she jerked me off and informed me of this situation was an acceptance of the affaiar and the pregnancy!! What made this all the more intense was that she REALLY hoped she was pregnant and was quite despondent when her period started....the most intense sensual sexciting phone call I have EVER received was my wife calling me from her office in tears sobbing that her period had started and she wasn't pregnant, within earshot of severl of her male co-workers too!! Calming her down by assuring MY WIFE that the positive side of this is she can further enjoy the attraction and desire of getting pregnant with her Boss/Lover outweighed the negative that it did not happne the first time they were careless was INTENSE!!!
For the next 11 years, until the pandemic ended their affair, there was almost not a single day that she did not have his live sperm in her. They "worked late at the lake house" 2-3 days a week and at least Saturday on the weekend, plus business travel picked up significantly during this time frame which allowed for multiple times daily for sex (frequently they would ahve sex before meeting, she would be leaking his sperm throughout the meeting, than lunch was back in the room for more sex, leak the rest of the afternoon, and then again before dinner, late dinner, and then ...... together all night (despite paying for 2 rooms) and more sex then.
Given that I have been on "condom only" sex with her since November 2012 when she returned from Cancun certain that she was pregnant, and he has been fully unprotected with her except for occasional times she used her diaphragm (all the birth control she uses), he has actually cum inside of my wife mote than I coul dpossible ever make happen even IF I was allowed non-condom access. We decided that since it had been so long without my sperm in her when their affair ended in 2020 that we might as well continue that so that IF she does get pregnant, there is no chance it is by me. Unfortunately, she had not been active ourside the marriage since their affair ended..........everyone works from home now, which dramatically decreased the potential pool of partners.
Meeting people online is pretty much stupid and a waste of time......every idiot on the planet is a superstud despite lacking ay possible chance at travelling to meet, or even owning a vehicle to get out of mommies basement and the number of idiots that actually think a woman is goong to hop on a plane and fly half way across the country to meet them is amazing!! Was a fun ride while it lasted.

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Everything sounds great except for the part that she is not giving you any real sex,a bj or a hand job would not be enough for me,
If my wife cut me of like that I would point out to her if she wasn't giving me any then I would get it from someone else,
Playing with others having affairs is fine but not at the expense of cutting me of from sex,
I know everyone is different I'm not criticising anyone and I know what is right for you may not he right for me
I'm just saying, 👍
 
Everything sounds great except for the part that she is not giving you any real sex,a bj or a hand job would not be enough for me,
If my wife cut me of like that I would point out to her if she wasn't giving me any then I would get it from someone else,
Playing with others having affairs is fine but not at the expense of cutting me of from sex,
I know everyone is different I'm not criticising anyone and I know what is right for you may not he right for me
I'm just saying, 👍
Definitely in agreement with you! It seems utterly foolish to me that any sort of long term denial will strengthen a relationship. After enough conditioning and acceptance denial loses its potency and turns to ambivalence. Many people that have quit smoking successfully say they don't miss it. The same goes with restrictive diets, over time you just don't miss eating or drinking them any more.

If you're conditioned to not expect any sexual gratification (or something you would enjoy) and you know it's pointless to ask then the expected and anticipated response is no longer associated with as much emotion. The fix for that is to typically to ratchet it up a notch with some greater denial to get that earlier thrill/pain of denial. Some posters here have said they aren't allowed to touch them or even see them naked. Can the goal and desire really be to make the husband asexual?

These guys that are so proud of being "pussy free" for years or even decades (a month would be too much for me) don't want the sex in the first place or they have ED so bad they couldn't perform if they wanted to. In either of those cases it is the wife that is really being denied. If both parties don't get something satisfying out of the deal then there's no deal.
 
Definitely in agreement with you! It seems utterly foolish to me that any sort of long term denial will strengthen a relationship. After enough conditioning and acceptance denial loses its potency and turns to ambivalence. Many people that have quit smoking successfully say they don't miss it. The same goes with restrictive diets, over time you just don't miss eating or drinking them any more.

If you're conditioned to not expect any sexual gratification (or something you would enjoy) and you know it's pointless to ask then the expected and anticipated response is no longer associated with as much emotion. The fix for that is to typically to ratchet it up a notch with some greater denial to get that earlier thrill/pain of denial. Some posters here have said they aren't allowed to touch them or even see them naked. Can the goal and desire really be to make the husband asexual?

These guys that are so proud of being "pussy free" for years or even decades (a month would be too much for me) don't want the sex in the first place or they have ED so bad they couldn't perform if they wanted to. In either of those cases it is the wife that is really being denied. If both parties don't get something satisfying out of the deal then there's no deal.
A week would be to much for me,lol 👍
 
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Most posters are like that. This site should be call "Husband's Who Wished Their Wife's Would Play"
Yeah, probably should and really, I think that's fine if people earnestly are attempting to make some form of wife-sharing happen and need advice, want to share their real journey toward making it a reality. I myself am still in the phase where my wife knows about the fantasy and we now do some spitroast / DP roleplay with dildos and watch MFM porn but haven't actually done something with another person while we've been married. People who are lucky enough to have a wife that was more immediately open to sharing and brave enough to take that step or who led them into the lifestyle, may look at those on the outside as pathetic but we all start somewhere the journey is not as straightfoward for some.

What does seem pathetic to me is the people like the OP who post made-up stories as if they're real events, asking for other people's opinions, and keep reposting pictures of the same women that probably aren't even their wives.
 
Yeah, probably should and really, I think that's fine if people earnestly are attempting to make some form of wife-sharing happen and need advice, want to share their real journey toward making it a reality. I myself am still in the phase where my wife knows about the fantasy and we now do some spitroast / DP roleplay with dildos and watch MFM porn but haven't actually done something with another person while we've been married. People who are lucky enough to have a wife that was more immediately open to sharing and brave enough to take that step or who led them into the lifestyle, may look at those on the outside as pathetic but we all start somewhere the journey is not as straightfoward for some.

What does seem pathetic to me is the people like the OP who post made-up stories as if they're real events, asking for other people's opinions, and keep reposting pictures of the same women that probably aren't even their wives.
Yes! I'm right where you're at too! I honestly and earnestly want some form of this happen! I've told my my wife I would like to see it happen but she's firmly in the "never gonna happen" camp. I agree with you regarding couples that have made it happen and wives willing to give it a try. They have no idea how many of us that are out there wishing for what some have experienced here. I've always likened the feeling to someone outside an amusement park. Their hands are hanging on the fence looking at all the fun rides going inside. They want to have that same fun but just can't get through the gate.

What has always interested me here are the couples that DO make it work. There's a ton of unbelievable stuff here that is nothing more than masturbation fodder. I'd rather learn about how they do it, what problems did they have, how did they overcome them and how do they make it last. All the fake stuff sucks! It does make it easier to sift out but that's a drag!
 
Totally agree with both of the 2 last post. We discovered this site just as my wife said yes to my fantasy. At first it seemed as a great site for advice and telling of others journeys into this lifestyle. And yes some posters advice of tge Rollercoaster of emotions that a husband will experience has been very helpful. But it also seems to have morphed into a perverted porn site. Trying to stay within the Stag/Vixen category as I don't care for the cuckold lifestyle as been useless. Posting a relatable picture of my wife and date to a Thread also means getting hit up on whether "my slut prefers her lovers cock over mine" or "now he owns her and I just pay the bills" is infuriating. As my wife is no slut or whore and we both still love and enjoy each other, even if I do like to watch her have sex with others.
 
I think I know that my wife is cheating. Things started weird with her a few months ago when I spotted her texting a lot on her phone. And she would never leave it anywhere. So I just got curious, and I pulled up her cell records online. I saw txt's to a number that was for someone that I didn't know. A lot of them through out the day. I then just for kicks was able to log on to her Facebook account and seen that she friended some guy around the same time all her phone txt's where starting to get active.
She send a few private Facebook messages to him and some of them were like : "It's been real great working with you", "I missed you today at work","We should do lunch sometime". The the last few was "Tomorrow would better for me, my husband will be gone till 6". Then the last message was him telling her to use a app to text and send messages, and that it would be more private.
Lately she has be acting alittle "off" with me. I just know something is going on.
This my wife :
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Then last night, she came home really late after her shift from work. Like 4 hours late. (She just told me that she had to cover for a person) She just undressed a went right into the bathroom and took a shower. Which she has never done before.
I took some pics of her as she was undressing real quick. As I watched her, i was thinking that she just came from this guys place, after they been fucking.
My pics of her that I took:
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I think I know that my wife is cheating. Things started weird with her a few months ago when I spotted her texting a lot on her phone. And she would never leave it anywhere. So I just got curious, and I pulled up her cell records online. I saw txt's to a number that was for someone that I didn't know. A lot of them through out the day. I then just for kicks was able to log on to her Facebook account and seen that she friended some guy around the same time all her phone txt's where starting to get active.
She send a few private Facebook messages to him and some of them were like : "It's been real great working with you", "I missed you today at work","We should do lunch sometime". The the last few was "Tomorrow would better for me, my husband will be gone till 6". Then the last message was him telling her to use a app to text and send messages, and that it would be more private.
Lately she has be acting alittle "off" with me. I just know something is going on.
This my wife :
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Then last night, she came home really late after her shift from work. Like 4 hours late. (She just told me that she had to cover for a person) She just undressed a went right into the bathroom and took a shower. Which she has never done before.
I took some pics of her as she was undressing real quick. As I watched her, i was thinking that she just came from this guys place, after they been fucking.
My pics of her that I took:
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So you think she's been cheating.

Assuming you are right, are glad or sad?
 
Totally agree with both of the 2 last post. We discovered this site just as my wife said yes to my fantasy. At first it seemed as a great site for advice and telling of others journeys into this lifestyle. And yes some posters advice of tge Rollercoaster of emotions that a husband will experience has been very helpful. But it also seems to have morphed into a perverted porn site. Trying to stay within the Stag/Vixen category as I don't care for the cuckold lifestyle as been useless. Posting a relatable picture of my wife and date to a Thread also means getting hit up on whether "my slut prefers her lovers cock over mine" or "now he owns her and I just pay the bills" is infuriating. As my wife is no slut or whore and we both still love and enjoy each other, even if I do like to watch her have sex with others.
Well said, I agree, 👍
 
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Totally agree with both of the 2 last post. We discovered this site just as my wife said yes to my fantasy. At first it seemed as a great site for advice and telling of others journeys into this lifestyle. And yes some posters advice of tge Rollercoaster of emotions that a husband will experience has been very helpful. But it also seems to have morphed into a perverted porn site. Trying to stay within the Stag/Vixen category as I don't care for the cuckold lifestyle as been useless. Posting a relatable picture of my wife and date to a Thread also means getting hit up on whether "my slut prefers her lovers cock over mine" or "now he owns her and I just pay the bills" is infuriating. As my wife is no slut or whore and we both still love and enjoy each other, even if I do like to watch her have sex with others.
Hah, I see you've also been accosted by the fanatical cuck zealots, determined to impose their own version of wife-sharing on the world.
 
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I think I know that my wife is cheating. Things started weird with her a few months ago when I spotted her texting a lot on her phone. And she would never leave it anywhere. So I just got curious, and I pulled up her cell records online. I saw txt's to a number that was for someone that I didn't know. A lot of them through out the day. I then just for kicks was able to log on to her Facebook account and seen that she friended some guy around the same time all her phone txt's where starting to get active.
She send a few private Facebook messages to him and some of them were like : "It's been real great working with you", "I missed you today at work","We should do lunch sometime". The the last few was "Tomorrow would better for me, my husband will be gone till 6". Then the last message was him telling her to use a app to text and send messages, and that it would be more private.
Lately she has be acting alittle "off" with me. I just know something is going on.
This my wife :
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Then last night, she came home really late after her shift from work. Like 4 hours late. (She just told me that she had to cover for a person) She just undressed a went right into the bathroom and took a shower. Which she has never done before.
I took some pics of her as she was undressing real quick. As I watched her, i was thinking that she just came from this guys place, after they been fucking.
My pics of her that I took:
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Check those panties and see if she has a cum stain in them
 
Yeah, probably should and really, I think that's fine if people earnestly are attempting to make some form of wife-sharing happen and need advice, want to share their real journey toward making it a reality. I myself am still in the phase where my wife knows about the fantasy and we now do some spitroast / DP roleplay with dildos and watch MFM porn but haven't actually done something with another person while we've been married. People who are lucky enough to have a wife that was more immediately open to sharing and brave enough to take that step or who led them into the lifestyle, may look at those on the outside as pathetic but we all start somewhere the journey is not as straightfoward for some.

What does seem pathetic to me is the people like the OP who post made-up stories as if they're real events, asking for other people's opinions, and keep reposting pictures of the same women that probably aren't even their wives.
I would have thought with your logical well-reasoned approach along with being open with your wife about your fantasy you would be in the "done it" category by now. Women can be tricky when it comes to sex. I hope it happens for you soon.
 
I would have thought with your logical well-reasoned approach along with being open with your wife about your fantasy you would be in the "done it" category by now. Women can be tricky when it comes to sex. I hope it happens for you soon.
Haha, I think I've reached the "it could happen" stage - but we're in a phase of life that makes it very difficult. I think things may get easier in a couple years, when the kids are a bit older and we have more freedom. My wife is also definitely a tricky one. She can't deliberately plan to do anything - finding a guy and setting something up is too upfront and weird to her. It has to happen "naturally" which requires a lot more random luck... so it may be a while. The bedroom fantasy roleplay has never been better though.
 
Haha, I think I've reached the "it could happen" stage - but we're in a phase of life that makes it very difficult. I think things may get easier in a couple years, when the kids are a bit older and we have more freedom. My wife is also definitely a tricky one. She can't deliberately plan to do anything - finding a guy and setting something up is too upfront and weird to her. It has to happen "naturally" which requires a lot more random luck... so it may be a while. The bedroom fantasy roleplay has never been better though.
If she is role playing about it she is thinking about it,
It may not be as long as you think before she does something about it,
If she hasn't already, 👍