Everything sounds great except for the part that she is not giving you any real sex,a bj or a hand job would not be enough for me,Most of my wifes affairs have been with co-workers. And they usually start behind my back initially, she clues me in later once they become sexual or with someone she wants to be able to see regularly without having to hide it and worry about being "caught". I know she has affairs, and approve of this, and she generally shares them with me eventually. When her affair with her Boss/Lover graduated from "only when they travel together" to to "we want to be full time anytime Lovers, including when not traveling for worl", she got all dolled ul got me in bed and turned on, and then let me know about the affair (I had suspected, I'm not stupid).
What was most intensely sexual about her admission was it came after a hastily planned celbration trip to Cancun together (disquised as a work trip) to celebrate their decision to transition from "travel affair" to "full time affair" and she informed me that there was a VERY good chance she had come home PREGNANT!!! She presumed that my cum flying everywhere as she jerked me off and informed me of this situation was an acceptance of the affaiar and the pregnancy!! What made this all the more intense was that she REALLY hoped she was pregnant and was quite despondent when her period started....the most intense sensual sexciting phone call I have EVER received was my wife calling me from her office in tears sobbing that her period had started and she wasn't pregnant, within earshot of severl of her male co-workers too!! Calming her down by assuring MY WIFE that the positive side of this is she can further enjoy the attraction and desire of getting pregnant with her Boss/Lover outweighed the negative that it did not happne the first time they were careless was INTENSE!!!
For the next 11 years, until the pandemic ended their affair, there was almost not a single day that she did not have his live sperm in her. They "worked late at the lake house" 2-3 days a week and at least Saturday on the weekend, plus business travel picked up significantly during this time frame which allowed for multiple times daily for sex (frequently they would ahve sex before meeting, she would be leaking his sperm throughout the meeting, than lunch was back in the room for more sex, leak the rest of the afternoon, and then again before dinner, late dinner, and then ...... together all night (despite paying for 2 rooms) and more sex then.
Given that I have been on "condom only" sex with her since November 2012 when she returned from Cancun certain that she was pregnant, and he has been fully unprotected with her except for occasional times she used her diaphragm (all the birth control she uses), he has actually cum inside of my wife mote than I coul dpossible ever make happen even IF I was allowed non-condom access. We decided that since it had been so long without my sperm in her when their affair ended in 2020 that we might as well continue that so that IF she does get pregnant, there is no chance it is by me. Unfortunately, she had not been active ourside the marriage since their affair ended..........everyone works from home now, which dramatically decreased the potential pool of partners.
Meeting people online is pretty much stupid and a waste of time......every idiot on the planet is a superstud despite lacking ay possible chance at travelling to meet, or even owning a vehicle to get out of mommies basement and the number of idiots that actually think a woman is goong to hop on a plane and fly half way across the country to meet them is amazing!! Was a fun ride while it lasted.
CW
If my wife cut me of like that I would point out to her if she wasn't giving me any then I would get it from someone else,
Playing with others having affairs is fine but not at the expense of cutting me of from sex,
I know everyone is different I'm not criticising anyone and I know what is right for you may not he right for me
I'm just saying, 👍