Hey Guys! How do you handle jealousy? My hubby sometimes gets jealous when I'm with other men. He says it makes him happy to watch us have sex together. But sometimes he still gets upset. What do you guys think?
My hubby sometimes gets jealous
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Plz tell details, im a older hub of a sexy much younger redhead unaware wife of 20yrs, Yes i fight jealousy tho my cock swells when i see her grin when were out and younger guys flirt with her rite in front of me,, its a task trying to calm her high sex drive down that night b4 my older cock lays down, she desperately sucks it back to life but shes so sexy i cum and am done til 3moro. If there was a younger man in our house at thst time, she would be a greatly rewarding fuck, my secret desire is that she takes him bare and and says Please dont pull out..
U see older hubs have a real active brain when i think of her getting the ultimate thrill of a younger studs bare cock..
Jamesdean73
Couple
Jealousy has no place in this life style, but when it's the case it's an indication that it's time for a meaningful conversation so that your relationship doesn't go to .........
I think jealousy is a normal reaction that if not out of control can enhance the experience. The first time I saw her with another man, I had mixed feelings, some of which was jealousy. It was under control though. That tug of war of being jealous and wanting to see more was incredibly hot. Now, if it's not under control, it can be devastating and ruin a relationship. You said he gets upset. That is no good. I don't get upset or angry. That won't work with this lifestyle. Some may say what I am describing isn't jealousy but wouldn't know what else to call it. It also faded after seeing her a few times with other men, but it's still there. The first kiss and I feel it. But now, it fades quickly to just being hot.
The only time I got upset was with a guy who was messaging her all the time and the conversations that had were, to me, to personal. It was more a relationship type of conversation they were having. She felt as though they were just getting to know one another but I didn't like it. It was to much. Once I let her know why it was bothering me she tried to tone it down but he kept it up. My wife and I decided to end it with him to protect our relationship. That was the one and only time it was a problem for us and it wasn't the sex at all.
What do you mean by he gets upset? Is he angry? Does he treat you differently after? Does this happen every time?
The only time I got upset was with a guy who was messaging her all the time and the conversations that had were, to me, to personal. It was more a relationship type of conversation they were having. She felt as though they were just getting to know one another but I didn't like it. It was to much. Once I let her know why it was bothering me she tried to tone it down but he kept it up. My wife and I decided to end it with him to protect our relationship. That was the one and only time it was a problem for us and it wasn't the sex at all.
What do you mean by he gets upset? Is he angry? Does he treat you differently after? Does this happen every time?
That sting of jealousy, and the conflict with the major thrill and arousal is crucial for us.
Wife sharing is all about amping up all those emotions between the couple.
Wife sharing is all about amping up all those emotions between the couple.
Never got jealous.. If theres a woman that comes on too strong, she will shut her down.. or if a guy crosses the line.. hes gone.
Jamesdean73
Couple
When my wife Fe got curious about the life style we had serious conversation for like 3 months before she crossed the line just to make sure that she understand the rules and the meaning of what is like being a swinger and what to expect, I made sure to explain to her about jealousy and that it had no place in this life style but once she made the jump and saw all of the positive things it brought to our life as a married couple she understood and now she's all about the life although she separate our regular life to our life style and we've been happier ever since
This expresses the paradoxical thrill admirably.
Mine is more envious of the other cock
Especially when she is truly enjoying it
I guess jealousy about the other cock satisfying her.
Rule #1 If the side piece male or female causes either partner to get jealous it is time to move on. Sex is not so great it is worth messing up a good relationship.
We are late 50s, solid marriage. We've been into mfm fun with a guy we know pretty regularly for about 2 years now. We have done it with another guy once, stranger out of town, didn't go well. A different local guy our age 3 times, it was good but wife just wasn't into him. I wouldn't say we are swingers at all.
We have a great time with our friend, it's an exciting, fun and relaxing night of sex fun.
Yes I get jealous feelings. He's younger, has a bigger tool and it's obvious as hell she loves sex with him. Seeing her get so turned on, the way she holds tight against him, the things she says, how she moans its very hot but I get thinking she's into it a little too much.
She's never said anything about his(bigger) dick, how it's better with him, nothing that would make me feel inferior. We take turns with her and she gets WAY into the sex with me too, he gets more sex time with her but i get plenty.
She's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of sex after he's visited.
They look so damn hot together, if it wasn't my wife it would be the best sex show ever.
It's all good but it's like damn...she likes it too much.
We have a great time with our friend, it's an exciting, fun and relaxing night of sex fun.
Yes I get jealous feelings. He's younger, has a bigger tool and it's obvious as hell she loves sex with him. Seeing her get so turned on, the way she holds tight against him, the things she says, how she moans its very hot but I get thinking she's into it a little too much.
She's never said anything about his(bigger) dick, how it's better with him, nothing that would make me feel inferior. We take turns with her and she gets WAY into the sex with me too, he gets more sex time with her but i get plenty.
She's horny as fuck for days after so we have a lot of sex after he's visited.
They look so damn hot together, if it wasn't my wife it would be the best sex show ever.
It's all good but it's like damn...she likes it too much.
I think a little jealousy is certainly natural. As long as it's healthy and part of the thrill it's ok. But you two should definitely talk about it so it doesn't fester.
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