I have always admitted that I am no saint, but still have rules when it comes to playing with other men, and always with hubby's blessing. I have generally avoided having sex with married men, although I do know of one or two occasions where guys have been less than honest about that. But, recently, I've spent a lot of time chatting online with a man who is in his 60's and who has been open and honest about the fact that he is married, but his wife isn't interested in sex at all these days, and hasn't been for 10 or 12 years now. She doesn't know that he is looking elsewhere. If he was divorced, I'd been in like a shot, but as he is still married, says he still loves his wife but she is totally non physical, is it okay to meet up with him for sex? Is it still unfaithful of him, even with his wife's position? Just curious to know the views of others, both men and women.