Maybe a deal breaker - no recap of what happened

[drakebelg]

We've been talking about cuckolding on and off for a year. My wife was making it clear that she was getting close to wanting to do it. From the start she was clear that I would be waiting at home but now she's saying that she won't tell me the details of what happened.
I think this is a deal breaker for me.
Any advice on this?

Edit: She understands and says it's she feels embarrassed but she will do her best. She might write it or even record audio of the sex.
She is on bumble now searching for her first and I would love it to happen. I have no problems with us growing into this, adapting and getting used to new needs and situations.

 

[slavesimon]

Don't.

 

[cuckboie]

First, you do NOT want to be a single cuck..
1. Don't push your wife away by making demands. But, make it very clear to her the advantages of being married to a cuck. She doesn't want to hurt you with he details.
2. Tell her that's how you experience sex and intimacy with her, thru the bull and having sex at home. You don't have to to be in the room, but for sure in the same house for safety sake. Tell her you will be in the closet, or within ear shot just in case. Trust me, things can go south very quickly.
3. Tell her that if you are allowed in the room, you will make it very romantic for her. She thinks you will be a distraction. Don't Be!

I could go one, but be patient with her and don't push. This is suppose to be fun. She is pushing back because she doesn't know what's its really about. I am a pure cuck. If she wants advice, she can ping me here. But, both of you need to understand the amazing relationship you are building as a cuckold relationship. It is very strong, but only thru communication and complete honesty.

 

[drakebelg]

First, you do NOT want to be a single cuck..
1. Don't push your wife away by making demands. But, make it very clear to her the advantages of being married to a cuck. She doesn't want to hurt you with he details.
2. Tell her that's how you experience sex and intimacy with her, thru the bull and having sex at home. You don't have to to be in the room, but for sure in the same house for safety sake. Tell her you will be in the closet, or within ear shot just in case. Trust me, things can go south very quickly.
3. Tell her that if you are allowed in the room, you will make it very romantic for her. She thinks you will be a distraction. Don't Be!

I could go one, but be patient with her and don't push. This is suppose to be fun. She is pushing back because she doesn't know what's its really about. I am a pure cuck. If she wants advice, she can ping me here. But, both of you need to understand the amazing relationship you are building as a cuckold relationship. It is very strong, but only thru communication and complete honesty.

Thanks for the interesting reply. We are discussing it further and looks like we will find a solution.

 

[Ht805cpl]

We've been talking about cuckolding on and off for a year. My wife was making it clear that she was getting close to wanting to do it. From the start she was clear that I would be waiting at home but now she's saying that she won't tell me the details of what happened.
I think this is a deal breaker for me.
Any advice on this?

Edit: I meant to post this in the "convince the wife thread".

We’d say best for both to be on the same page, perhaps time for more discussion, insuring you both are on the same page. We are not a cuckold couple, but we play with others, normally together, but at times alone. When I traveled a lot she always had a few guys she enjoyed laying with but she’d always share the details either right after or when I returned home. We both had an agreement up front about this sex with others, for both of us! Good luck and hope it works out, I have to say nothing hotter than sharing your wife with another man and watch them make love to each other, knowing when he leaves she is with you and still your wife. The hottest sex we ever have together is after she has been with another man!

 

[lyndawaybi3]

It took a few years for my husband to get me to tell him details. It just seemed too dirty. But he was patient and well rewarded.

 

[Ht805cpl]

It took a few years for my husband to get me to tell him details. It just seemed too dirty. But he was patient and well rewarded.

never too dirty for a loving sex craved husband!. So what did he say or do?

 

[lyndawaybi3]

never too dirty for a loving sex craved husband!. So what did he say or do?

He was just so turned on and so desperate to know that I would slowly give him more and more details.

 

[stubbyhubby]

She told you she won't give you details either because she doesn't want you pressuring her for them or she is worried about comfortably talking to you about them. She will give you details on her own time in her her way. Don't be pushy. When cuckolding is done right it's not about you.

 

[divaD]

Of course don't be pushy but cuckolding is about you and your wife it's a partnership, don't allow her to move forward if your not comfortable with what she's providing in return. Details is my minimum requirement.

Her lovers or whatever term your comfortable with is for the benifit of yours and wife's sex life it's not for your wife's only benifit or for the benifit of the lover, the lovers are just pawns in yours and your wife's arrangement.

 

[drakebelg]

She told you she won't give you details either because she doesn't want you pressuring her for them or she is worried about comfortably talking to you about them. She will give you details on her own time in her her way. Don't be pushy. When cuckolding is done right it's not about you.

There isn't one way of doing cuckolding right.

 

[drakebelg]

Of course don't be pushy but cuckolding is about you and your wife it's a partnership, don't allow her to move forward if your not comfortable with what she's providing in return. Details is my minimum requirement.

Her lovers or whatever term your comfortable with is for the benifit of yours and wife's sex life it's not for your wife's only benifit or for the benifit of the lover, the lovers are just pawns in yours and your wife's arrangement.

I fully agree with this. She is embarrassed about talking about it but it's something she is willing to practice.

 

[stubbyhubby]

There isn't one way of doing cuckolding right.

Never said there was, but being pushy and demanding of a shy, inhibited wife is one of the wrong ways.

 

[Ht805cpl]

He was just so turned on and so desperate to know that I would slowly give him more and more details.

I always share details right away, while they are still fresh in my mind and my man loves it, while he’s eating me he goes wild, I can’t give him too much when he’s fucking me he will shoot too quickly! The best thing is always to have new details to share keep him horny and wanting me more!

 

[medhatter]

Definitely a deal breaker for me too.

 

[Diver_35]

We've been talking about cuckolding on and off for a year. My wife was making it clear that she was getting close to wanting to do it. From the start she was clear that I would be waiting at home but now she's saying that she won't tell me the details of what happened.
I think this is a deal breaker for me.
Any advice on this?

Edit: I meant to post this in the "convince the wife thread".

For me it would be. It isspposed to be somthing you bot enjoy.

 

[JMNBABE]

Would be an absolute deal breaker for me too........and if she went along with it anyway, it would be the end of the marriage. This is a SHARING situation, despite the level of "depravity" involved (i.e. husband there and watching and maybe participating all the way to the femmed cuck made to cross dress and suck cocks, etc)...........if its not shared, it's NOT for me. CW

 

[Ht805cpl]

We've been talking about cuckolding on and off for a year. My wife was making it clear that she was getting close to wanting to do it. From the start she was clear that I would be waiting at home but now she's saying that she won't tell me the details of what happened.
I think this is a deal breaker for me.
Any advice on this?

Edit: I meant to post this in the "convince the wife thread".

You asked for it and she is willing to give it to you, you know you want it in any form, stop being a little boy, be the cuckold you want to be go for it

 

[Cuckoldhubby]

My wife has been seeing the same man for over 6 years and they are in love. I know fully well that she'll never leave me, we are very close in every way except sex. I have been cut off all this time and I don't mind because I know my lovely wife is being pleasured and made love to in ways that I could never do, especially being just under 4 inches and as thick as my thumb. She never tells me about their time together on weekends and trips and I won't ask, they are in love and she doesn't want to share about their intimacy. Again I don't mind this at all, after all, this is about how Cathy is pleasured, it's not about me and that's the way I want it to stay.

 

[drakebelg]

My wife has been seeing the same man for over 6 years and they are in love. I know fully well that she'll never leave me, we are very close in every way except sex. I have been cut off all this time and I don't mind because I know my lovely wife is being pleasured and made love to in ways that I could never do, especially being just under 4 inches and as thick as my thumb. She never tells me about their time together on weekends and trips and I won't ask, they are in love and she doesn't want to share about their intimacy. Again I don't mind this at all, after all, this is about how Cathy is pleasured, it's not about me and that's the way I want it to stay.

That's great for both of you if you are happy but that's not for us.