Wow! I keep saying that you guys have come a long ways from where you were a couple years ago! You wouldn't have even entertained the notion of asking for a video and now look at you!
You are absolutely correct. I occasionally go back through my early posts and remember how things evolved for us. This all started back in 2017 and we weren’t quite sure where to begin. I did a lot of research online to try and learn from other people. Even with that knowledge, it has remained an evolution for both of us.
When we started, she only wanted to play with people she knew. She couldn’t imagine meeting someone and then fucking them a short time later. She also avoided married men in the beginning, but is now open to both married and single men as long as everything is discreet and drama free. She still generally plays safe, but guys who she plays with multiple times usually end up getting to fuck her bare. Though, she does only play with one other guy bare at a time. I sometimes chuckle at how she determines her boundaries.
I have also evolved a lot. When she first started playing, I preferred to be present. That got thrown out the window pretty quickly. It is too limiting for me to be there. Most guys just want a kinky lady to fuck but don’t want anyone else there. Also, my wife likes to let loose and she doesn’t need to worry about what I am thinking if she is vocally enjoying her fuck buddy. When we started, creampie were way off limits for risk of disease and also because I didn’t really want to be anywhere near another man’s cum. However, silky seconds is my absolute favorite. On occasion, I will even lick her creamy pussy and enjoy the mix of her juices and his cum.
As for videos, I have always enjoyed them, but she doesn’t really like asking guys if she can film their fun. She does it simply for me. Most of the videos have come from guys I have found online and introduced to my wife.
Our conversation last night was definitely interesting. My wife was asking how many guys she has met and how many times she has played since becoming a hotwife. I track everything she does and was able to tell her that she has fucked 29 guys since marriage. I thought it was 30, but we realized that I had an extra entry in my list. She has had a total of 79 outings. Upon hearing the stats, she replied “Holy ......! I’m a whore!” I said “You haven’t made any money, so you are certainly not a whore!” Then she responded “I guess I am a slut then”. I agreed that she could be considered a slut, but when I say slut, I mean it with a world of respect and admiration. In fact,I told her I would like to see her be even more slutty. The sluttier the better!
We have joked about starting an ... account and I told her that she needs to start making a lot more videos and taking more pics so she has enough content. We won’t start anything for a few more years for family reasons, but that doesn’t prevent her from generating content now. If we improve video quality and quantity, she will have plenty of guys tugging their junk while enjoying her content. She then told me that she sent last night’s videos to another friend and that he said the same thing. He wants more videos and told her she could make plenty of cash if she had more content. He then sent her a video of himself jacking off and cumming to her latest videos. She enjoyed that a great deal!