Hey, definitely take it step by step. My wife was always a little slut, and everyone knew this, even her parents, except for me. She tried to be a “good” girl, and even then she was cheating on me with her ex boyfriend. However, slowly, i started telling her how i felt, and eventually after much talk and convincing, she accepted, and now has been with countless men while married to me. We still have an awesome relationship, although we dont really have sex except for maybe once per month, but still we are living a great sex life 😉