An update for those that have been following or are interested. She was admitted to St Josephs Candler Hospital in Savannah on 11/26 and discharged on 11/30 for an incident that occured on 11/13. In desperate need of therapy, PT, OT & ST the facility chosen had no available beds so she came home and received in-home PT & OT. A bed became available on 12/7 and she was admitted for an indefinite stay. She is getting daily PT, OT & ST. The deficits she's worked so hard over the years to reduce and eliminate had unfortunately returned.
Monday 12/10 During the ST evaluation she asked the intake therapist about sex. When she could have sex again, the therapist told her that she had a lot of issues. She agreed but told her sex was very important to her. I noticed she didn't say 'us'. The therapist asked on a scale of 1-10. She told her 15. The therapist asked how often she was used to having sex and she said several times a week, sometimes several times a day. The therapist looked at me with a grin from ear to ear. Then asked how vigorous her sexual activity was. She said it depends who she's having sex with. The therapist told her she will probably need to reduce the frequency and the exuberance she was relating. She said she'd rather not. The therapist told her it's not a decision but a reality.
Later the therapist had a discussion with me on a variety of topics. The therapist got to sex, that it sounds like she is confusing we, me, I, us, etc and that it sounds like she's in an alternate reality. I told her it didn't seem that way to me, and to please give examples. She said when she sex was important to her not us. I said I noticed that as well, and she wasn't confused, that it was important to her. She then asked about frequency, that it was unlikely she was that active considering our ages especially my age. I told her that she was accurate. Then she said there seemed to be confusion as to whom she was having sex with. I told her no there wasn't.
The therapist put down her pad, sat straight upright up in her chair looked me in the eye and said she didn't quite understand. I told her what we discuss here must stay here. She said she is bound by HIPPA. I asked is she ever heard the term 'hotwife', she said of course men call their wives 'hot wives' all the time, I told to do some research on term 'hotwife' one word not two. She said she would.
Tuesday 12/11 the Bartender called. She took the call. He said he's been trying to reach her. She told him she is out of commission for the foreseeable future that she had a medical incident. In a now stuttering cadence (the stutter was a result of her medical incident) I heard her say "blowjob, that's a possibility, let me talk it over with hubby." She hasn't said a word as yet.
After the call she said she was disappointed that this latest incident (this is the 5th time) spanned her birthday that she was thinking of giving herself a birthday present of the bartender's group thing.
I told her that based upon what she is going through that I would have thought that sex was the furtherest thing in her mind. She said that since it occurred she's been non-stop horny.
She said the only reason she hasn't masturbated is the ST told her to cool it for a while. I asked if she told her about being horny she said of course that it sometimes occurs and the neural pathways have been disrupted and altered. She also added that the ST did some research as I suggested and wanted to know more about 'hotwife'. She told me they had a very frank discussion but wouldn't give me any details other than she thinks the ST is going to join the ranks.
I said you recruited her just like Gayle recruited you. She smiled and said I guess so but I'm not recruiting her and Gayle didn't recruit me.
Saturday 12/16 she asked me about blowing the bartender. I said that since you need to cool it what do you get out of it. She said a belly full of cum and a mouthful of cock. I told her I'd think about it.
Monday 12/10 During the ST evaluation she asked the intake therapist about sex. When she could have sex again, the therapist told her that she had a lot of issues. She agreed but told her sex was very important to her. I noticed she didn't say 'us'. The therapist asked on a scale of 1-10. She told her 15. The therapist asked how often she was used to having sex and she said several times a week, sometimes several times a day. The therapist looked at me with a grin from ear to ear. Then asked how vigorous her sexual activity was. She said it depends who she's having sex with. The therapist told her she will probably need to reduce the frequency and the exuberance she was relating. She said she'd rather not. The therapist told her it's not a decision but a reality.
Later the therapist had a discussion with me on a variety of topics. The therapist got to sex, that it sounds like she is confusing we, me, I, us, etc and that it sounds like she's in an alternate reality. I told her it didn't seem that way to me, and to please give examples. She said when she sex was important to her not us. I said I noticed that as well, and she wasn't confused, that it was important to her. She then asked about frequency, that it was unlikely she was that active considering our ages especially my age. I told her that she was accurate. Then she said there seemed to be confusion as to whom she was having sex with. I told her no there wasn't.
The therapist put down her pad, sat straight upright up in her chair looked me in the eye and said she didn't quite understand. I told her what we discuss here must stay here. She said she is bound by HIPPA. I asked is she ever heard the term 'hotwife', she said of course men call their wives 'hot wives' all the time, I told to do some research on term 'hotwife' one word not two. She said she would.
Tuesday 12/11 the Bartender called. She took the call. He said he's been trying to reach her. She told him she is out of commission for the foreseeable future that she had a medical incident. In a now stuttering cadence (the stutter was a result of her medical incident) I heard her say "blowjob, that's a possibility, let me talk it over with hubby." She hasn't said a word as yet.
After the call she said she was disappointed that this latest incident (this is the 5th time) spanned her birthday that she was thinking of giving herself a birthday present of the bartender's group thing.
I told her that based upon what she is going through that I would have thought that sex was the furtherest thing in her mind. She said that since it occurred she's been non-stop horny.
She said the only reason she hasn't masturbated is the ST told her to cool it for a while. I asked if she told her about being horny she said of course that it sometimes occurs and the neural pathways have been disrupted and altered. She also added that the ST did some research as I suggested and wanted to know more about 'hotwife'. She told me they had a very frank discussion but wouldn't give me any details other than she thinks the ST is going to join the ranks.
I said you recruited her just like Gayle recruited you. She smiled and said I guess so but I'm not recruiting her and Gayle didn't recruit me.
Saturday 12/16 she asked me about blowing the bartender. I said that since you need to cool it what do you get out of it. She said a belly full of cum and a mouthful of cock. I told her I'd think about it.
