Intimate questions to ask wife?
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Ask her if she has ever thought about having sex with other guys,just say you are curious, 👍
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Thats how i brought it up to my wife
17 guys later............
This right here. If she says yes or seems interested, then you can move into asking if she would want you to watch.
I ask mine who would she wanted sex with besides me I was surprise when she told me who she would do.
We’ve used toys during sex and when I ask her if she wants another big dick she replies “yes”.
She’s a bit shy so I’m trying to be a bit more subtle.
Should I maybe say have you got another one in mind?
She normally goes cold on the subject after sex so I’m thinking is it just in the heat of the moment when she’s very aroused?
Yesterday she was working but during some messaging she agreed to use a blindfold. She actually brought this idea up a few weeks ago herself. She wanted to blindfold me.
When she come home last night we were watching a movie and silly me fell asleep, duh!
My favorite one is asking her if she would enjoy it more if I was bigger 🫣
I’ll give that a try, simple things. I try and memorise things to say and in the heat of the moment my mind drifts or forget. Thanks any more suggestions are welcome and I’ll keep all updated.
I found the best way in was suggesting we spiced things up by pointing out men in public and asking if she would....
It was my way of making her think about it, and also letting her see that her fancying other men didn't make me jealous or think less of her.
I made it sound like a game,something to just spice out sex life up, but I really wanted her to see how far removed I was from the typical jealous type husband.
To get my wife to admit to you about men she'd fuck,even disguised as a game, made her comfortable just thinking about it, and that's what i was trying to achieve.
It opened the door to mentioning it in bed during sex,it wasn't now a out of nowhere comment, I felt I'd laid the foundations if you like , so I just, in the heat of the moment said " god,your so damn sexy,I bet loads of men would love to fuck you".......the rest is history 🤣
It was my way of making her think about it, and also letting her see that her fancying other men didn't make me jealous or think less of her.
I made it sound like a game,something to just spice out sex life up, but I really wanted her to see how far removed I was from the typical jealous type husband.
To get my wife to admit to you about men she'd fuck,even disguised as a game, made her comfortable just thinking about it, and that's what i was trying to achieve.
It opened the door to mentioning it in bed during sex,it wasn't now a out of nowhere comment, I felt I'd laid the foundations if you like , so I just, in the heat of the moment said " god,your so damn sexy,I bet loads of men would love to fuck you".......the rest is history 🤣
Dah,lol
You need to ask her when you are having her sex with her just as she is building up to her orgasm ask her then whisper it to her like it's just part of the sex and her reaction may be totally different,
You know how you get so excited just before you orgasm and then afterwards you calm down and your dick gets soft and you start to think with your Brain instead of your dick again it's the same for a woman what she thinks about while having sex can be different than what she thinks about before or after sex,
I believe sex talk during sex can reveal a lot of what a woman is really thinking about or indeed who she is thinking about during sex,👍
I was similar in wanting to plant the seed in wife.
I like to make up little quizzes for her.
Started vanilla and as wife was ok with it, pushed the boundaries.
Eg give list options.
pick best sex position from the list
Pick top 3 hottest men, celebs
Pick hottest couples on nude beach
Pick hottest Speedo options on men
Pick one dildo you had to have from list
Pick hottest 3sum position
Probably loads more,and but better than these, but you get the point..these are sex talk starters in the sheets
I like to make up little quizzes for her.
Started vanilla and as wife was ok with it, pushed the boundaries.
Eg give list options.
pick best sex position from the list
Pick top 3 hottest men, celebs
Pick hottest couples on nude beach
Pick hottest Speedo options on men
Pick one dildo you had to have from list
Pick hottest 3sum position
Probably loads more,and but better than these, but you get the point..these are sex talk starters in the sheets
Yeah I’m going to try this tonight. I’m going to suggest she wear the blindfold and I’ll take things slowly and ask these and maybe similar questions. Thanks for the reply, will keep all updated.
you are correct ..i have few experiences about my wife too....dm me for further details
So we had sex last night, I asked her to close her eyes and lay down. I began stroking her body, licking and sucking her nipples and teasing her pussy before I went down on her.
I asked her some questions,
1. Where would she like to have sex in any location in the world. Her answer was a holiday resort exclusively for adults.
2. What’s the most times she’s had sex in the one day, her reply was 3 last week with me, which I’m a little dubious about but still a turn on.
I then knelt to the side of her whilst still stroking, teasing and finger fucking her wet pussy by now whilst she sucked my dick. Her pussy was really wet the sound was amazing. We began fucking in various positions and when she was on top of me riding away I asked her what her favourite position would be if we were having a threesome, she replied “ Anyway you’d like it to be”.
She was very horny, I then spun her round and pumped my load deep inside her. It felt really good as we both orgasmed.
Afterwards as she has a works night out this weekend I asked her to think about something exciting she could do before the end of the week. She asked “like what”.
I then told her anything exciting that makes you happy and maybe me happy.
I asked her some questions,
1. Where would she like to have sex in any location in the world. Her answer was a holiday resort exclusively for adults.
2. What’s the most times she’s had sex in the one day, her reply was 3 last week with me, which I’m a little dubious about but still a turn on.
I then knelt to the side of her whilst still stroking, teasing and finger fucking her wet pussy by now whilst she sucked my dick. Her pussy was really wet the sound was amazing. We began fucking in various positions and when she was on top of me riding away I asked her what her favourite position would be if we were having a threesome, she replied “ Anyway you’d like it to be”.
She was very horny, I then spun her round and pumped my load deep inside her. It felt really good as we both orgasmed.
Afterwards as she has a works night out this weekend I asked her to think about something exciting she could do before the end of the week. She asked “like what”.
I then told her anything exciting that makes you happy and maybe me happy.
It sounds like you are giving her a green light to have a great weekend, do you think she will go for it,?👍
Knowing what I know about her past and if she liked a certain person I think she would. We do both love each other and she is aware of my fantasy although I think she thinks that I want for us to have a threesome. I wouldn’t mind a threesome but my next step which I’m finding difficult to express to her is that I would like to just watch as well.
Any tips or suggestions to subtly explain this to her would be appreciated.
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