Hello,
Early 40 year old female, curvy with very high sex drive here. Hubs brought up sharing about a year ago and steadily has made me want to participate. Then suddenly he has shut it down. My drive is far higher than his as I want sex 4-5 times a week and he would be good 2X a month. Plus he has health issues that cause him to not be able to perform. When we do have sex it’s good, but I’m often wanting more. He is uncomfortable with some of my kinkier requests as I have a praise kink AND like to be spanked/submissive. Feels unfair that he has offered this, got me on onboard and now says “I could never go through with it.” Suggestions for moving forward.