How turned on do you get watching your wife have sex ?

How can you possibly sit there and just watch your wife having sex with another man? Do you not get jealous and want to stop them or do you not care?
Legitimate response...mixed feelings for sure.
It's VERY exciting for all three of us. I watch and my dick is so hard it feels its ready to explode.
I get weird feelings for sure. Sometimes it's like she's into sex with him more than I like. They look so damn sexy together. Hard to explain.
Yes I get jealous, sometimes I want them to stop, yes I care. She gets REALLY turned on and enjoys sex with him like crazy but she is so turned on when i take a turn im good with everything.
 
I'll be honest, @ first it was a huge turn on and a roll a coaster of emotion, after this many years I can't seem to recapture those feelings anymore. Watching her is not as hot as it used to be and many times I care less if am with her
 
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It definitely was not the way I planned because I most certainly would’ve been open to it had I been involved but it did create trust issues. We’ve since patched things up which is good plus I have lots of great video to get off on now. And fuck that dude was huge lol my wife was just one of many of his affairs.
Unfortunate to find out that way. Glad you patched things up
 
It definitely was not the way I planned because I most certainly would’ve been open to it had I been involved but it did create trust issues. We’ve since patched things up which is good plus I have lots of great video to get off on now. And fuck that dude was huge lol my wife was just one of many of his affairs.
I completely understand on causing trust issues. I have done the same and I hope it is not to late to get rewarded with watching her well at least listening to her being satisfied by another guy.
 
It definitely was not the way I planned because I most certainly would’ve been open to it had I been involved but it did create trust issues. We’ve since patched things up which is good plus I have lots of great video to get off on now. And fuck that dude was huge lol my wife was just one of many of his affairs.
Do you get a chance to listen up close or just the footage?
 
No infidelity? I don't know if you noticed but the man behind your wife has his cock in her unless this is just some deep tissue massage where they are both naked.
I would not say I am a "jealous type" but I think there is a fair amount of ground between being jealous and this. Your wife is having an affair and you are filiming it for some reason.
Perhaps you should stick with the ol Playboy magazines.
 
No infidelity? I don't know if you noticed but the man behind your wife has his cock in her unless this is just some deep tissue massage where they are both naked.
I would not say I am a "jealous type" but I think there is a fair amount of ground between being jealous and this. Your wife is having an affair and you are filiming it for some reason.
Are you serious? You think he was in her?
LOL of course he was and not long after this so was I. This is something we do as a couple and she has my full support. Its not like she snuck out and get caught. I literally hounded her into this, well not this exactly, but similar. I was wanting to watch her with two men and me just watching vs one man and I watch/ join but this works for both of us at the moment. I do record some footage for my own "enjoyment" and once in awhile even share a little clip here.
If you are even remotely considering this lifestyle you should sit down and consume 20 hours of porn and imagine your wife as the star and decide if you could live with the outcome. You need to be good with seeing some really intense stuff up close and personal or at minimum know it is happening and your imagination gets the best of you.
If she is with you and stays with you it is for a reason. Likely the reasons you guys got married for. If one factor of your life has changed where sex is not a viable option, at least not an option that can satisfy both of your needs, then you need to decide if you can in fact keep it together if she gets a lover or if that is going to consume your and the relationship. It might, or it may be something you can get through. You might need to talk to a relationship counsellor or therapist.
Our situations are different. Yours is more physical and mine is more mental. Either way it is a huge step and I do not recommend taking that step unless you are both fully ready.
 
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I do not consider myself as bi. Why the labels and passing judgment. So sorry we are not all perfect like you (not). Our lifestyle was her choice. She love to fuck, I love to see her happy so I join her on occassion. As stated earlier you are on the wrong site.
I did not mean to use a label, but I am curious if you also have sex with men? I see a lot of people refer to that here and it confuses me. I am straight and intend to stay that way. In a perfect world I would be the one providing sex to my wife but I am unable for now and likely that will not change so I am doing homework on securing a "surogate" to do that for her. I do not really care to watch, I guess some do and some even join in or have sex with the other man. To each his own I guess.
 
I have never had sex with another man. I have cleaned cum and my wifes sexual juices off a couple other bulls spent cocks I love to watch my wife fuck. I am always amazed to see her sexual freak come out.
 
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Are you serious? You think he was in her?
LOL of course he was and not long after this so was I. This is something we do as a couple and she has my full support. Its not like she snuck out and get caught. I literally hounded her into this, well not this exactly, but similar. I was wanting to watch her with two men and me just watching vs one man and I watch/ join but this works for both of us at the moment. I do record some footage for my own "enjoyment" and once in awhile even share a little clip here.
If you are even remotely considering this lifestyle you should sit down and consume 20 hours of porn and imagine your wife as the star and decide if you could live with the outcome. You need to be good with seeing some really intense stuff up close and personal or at minimum know it is happening and your imagination gets the best of you.
If she is with you and stays with you it is for a reason. Likely the reasons you guys got married for. If one factor of your life has changed where sex is not a viable option, at least not an option that can satisfy both of your needs, then you need to decide if you can in fact keep it together if she gets a lover or if that is going to consume your and the relationship. It might, or it may be something you can get through. You might need to talk to a relationship counsellor or therapist.
Our situations are different. Yours is more physical and mine is more mental. Either way it is a huge step and I do not recommend taking that step unless you are both fully ready.
I appreciate that and I agree it is a huge step. I feel I am at a place I am ready but it has not been discussed with my wife yet so we as a couple are not ready but how do you get there?
 
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As a single male joining couples my experiences are similar to what you described. I can go more and have more stamina than husbands but we take turns or do split roasting.
My wife never allows me to fuck her while she's fucking other men. I eat her pussy and asshole after they cum in her.. Occasionally she will fuck me in the ass with a dildo in front of her lovers.. If she gives me permission to cum I masturbate in front of them and eat my own cum...
 
My wife never allows me to fuck her while she's fucking other men. I eat her pussy and asshole after they cum in her.. Occasionally she will fuck me in the ass with a dildo in front of her lovers.. If she gives me permission to cum I masturbate in front of them and eat my own cum...


So I am not really certain of the terminolgy but this above is not what I am trying to do, to each his own.
I am straight and unable to perform sexually. My wife is also straight. I am trying to have another man step in to have sex with her without me being a part of that experience. I am looking to continue our relationship as it has been with the one change noted above. I see a lot of terms thrown around,cuckold,stag/vixen and many others. Without judgement of situations described above, it is not what I am looking for, what would be the correct term? Surrogate?
 
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I always got turned on before, during and after my OLD LADY, WIFEY, HOT WIFE got fucked! I many times set her up and planned her seduction into fucking! Usually especially in our early years of partying and playing with our friends, after asking our friend Sergio if he'd be interested in swapping girlfriends for the first time? Hell ya he said, but let's ask the women? They both shyishly said yes, and that night was the ignitor for years of sharing, threesomes and sudden seductions into fucking dozens and dozens of times through the years! it was so erotically sexual and addicting that the very next two weekends we stayed at a hotel in separate rooms as we fucked each others girlfriend! These new sexual experiences, weren't only orgasmic for my wife as I could hear her moaning and loudly climaxing many times during the night as Sergio pounded away in my wife's tight as pussy with his 9'' cock, These 3 nights of really hard fuckings from Sergio, turned my quiet, sweet wife into a wife who was still pretty quiet and unassuming, but in actuality she was now addicted to Sergio's dick as he too was addicted to fucking my wife's pussy! So many more porn quality sexual events continued for years with the three of us, or the two of them enjoying extremely satisfying sex! Funny thing is that after a 10 year not interested or wanting much of anything even from me, I got her to agree to go visit our old friend Sergio after almost ten years away! Like I always say or believe, never give up, and never quit trying if you want something bad enough! And all it took was numerous shots of Crown Royal and Sergio bluntly asking the question, Monica, do you want to fuck? And what do you think my wife said? YES! So off they ran upstairs to his bedroom as I followed to use the bathroom while also having Sergio run in to grab a tube of lube for his dick and her pussy as he said I can't believe Monica's pussy is so fucking tight! Then as I watched him go in the room my wife asked me if I wanted to join in, to which I said no as I was definitely too wasted and told her that's ok, enjoy! She definitely did as she came and came over the next couple hours until she climaxed do to exhaustion and Sergio's great big dick! Can't believe I spit out so much on the question of being aroused as your wife is being fucked? HELL YES, EVERY SINGLE TIME AS I 'VE ALWAYS TOLD HER I WANT HER TO GET TURNED ON IF SHE WANTS, AND ENJOY AS MANY BIG COCKS AS SHE DESIRES, AS I'M NOT A 9 OR TEN INCHER, BUT IT WORKS AND BEST YET AND AS I'VE ALWAYS DONE THROUGH THE YEARS IS EAT THAT PUSSY, AS I SHARE NEW SEXUAL FANTASIES OF HER AND? OR WITH?
 

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