How to treat a hotwife

We have a guy that comes over every now and then and has quite the tool. He knows how to use it with each different woman he is with. I know he has mentioned that you can hurt a woman with one that big. So he takes his time and makes sure the female is always in control He just happens to be a gentleman with the ladies and even brings gifts etc. to the ladies. As you can imagine he is in great demand with all the local ladies he services. He also has hyperspermia . I have seen him leave several loads in my wife i could only dream of.
 
We have a guy that comes over every now and then and has quite the tool. He knows how to use it with each different woman he is with. I know he has mentioned that you can hurt a woman with one that big. So he takes his time and makes sure the female is always in control He just happens to be a gentleman with the ladies and even brings gifts etc. to the ladies. As you can imagine he is in great demand with all the local ladies he services. He also has hyperspermia . I have seen him leave several loads in my wife i could only dream of.
Yes, exactly! That's why I meant 🙂

I'm happy you both found a nice guy for your wife.

As most of the times I say to the hubbies. "Forget about my size, this will not make your wife cum harder or faster. It will be the good preparation for the sex we do with her" of course, once done this. Big size makes a difference 😁😁😁 I won't lye you. Once they are ready, they really enjoy the size thing...

But you are fully right. A boyfriend's relationship is the best choice for a long term cuckold couple.

I always speak about my own experiences. But for example, If I meet a woman for the first time, I can do it well, I take my time and she probably enjoy much more than with her husband. But If I have the chance to meet her for some consecutive days... I can blow her mind with the most incredible orgasms you can imagine.

Because as much time I spend with her in bed, I know better her "points"

I pay A LOT OF attention on every signal I receive from her during sex. And after some sessions I start to put all of them together.

My kink is to make wife cum as hard as I can. And as many times I can as well.
 
After reading so many posts, I can only agree with most of the comments.
My wife would find the term "bull" rather absurd. She sees the other man in her life according to her feelings that my wife has for him.
If it is deep sympathy, it is her lover.
Is she really in love with him, my wife likes to see him as a second husband.

But were there also phases where my wife wanted the really animalistic sex.
Yes, every now and then after the frivolous night out in an upscale night bar and she took home a hormone-controlled muscle pack from there.

I remember this one. When my wife asked me to bring her dressing gown into the guest room the next morning and she came out the door naked, I saw 6 condoms lying on the floor. My wife followed my gaze with a "It's not what you think" dressed and we went upstairs to enlighten myself and let her "bull" ...... on
 
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After reading so many posts, I can only agree with most of the comments.
My wife would find the term "bull" rather absurd. She sees the other man in her life according to her feelings that my wife has for him.
If it is deep sympathy, it is her lover.
Is she really in love with him, my wife likes to see him as a second husband.

But were there also phases where my wife wanted the really animalistic sex.
Yes, every now and then after the frivolous night out in an upscale night bar and she took home a hormone-controlled muscle pack from there.

I remember this one. When my wife asked me to bring her dressing gown into the guest room the next morning and she came out the door naked, I saw 6 condoms lying on the floor. My wife followed my gaze with a "It's not what you think" dressed and we went upstairs to enlighten myself and let her "bull" ...... on
Hi there, thanks for your detailed answer to my post.

It was very interesting to read you, and your experiences.

Where are you from? I'm Spanish.
 
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After reading so many posts, I can only agree with most of the comments.
My wife would find the term "bull" rather absurd. She sees the other man in her life according to her feelings that my wife has for him.
If it is deep sympathy, it is her lover.
Is she really in love with him, my wife likes to see him as a second husband.

But were there also phases where my wife wanted the really animalistic sex.
Yes, every now and then after the frivolous night out in an upscale night bar and she took home a hormone-controlled muscle pack from there.

I remember this one. When my wife asked me to bring her dressing gown into the guest room the next morning and she came out the door naked, I saw 6 condoms lying on the floor. My wife followed my gaze with a "It's not what you think" dressed and we went upstairs to enlighten myself and let her "bull" ...... on
Well in my case is just the opposite.
My GF is kinda in love with an stupid guy that is not respectful with me at all.

Since the beginning I've been very comprehensive and she didn't want to let be present during the dates and neither filming them. And every day it pass, I'm more convinced this is also because of that guy. I think he is very dominant and he doesn't want me around.
In the other hand I must to admit that he seems to be a sex machine and my GF is crazy with the sex they have. So for the moment I accept this. But I'm looking for a bull replacement in parallel.

I think I have full right to be there and enjoy, and I need a bull that helps me with that, not the opposite.
 
Well in my case is just the opposite.
My GF is kinda in love with an stupid guy that is not respectful with me at all.

Since the beginning I've been very comprehensive and she didn't want to let be present during the dates and neither filming them. And every day it pass, I'm more convinced this is also because of that guy. I think he is very dominant and he doesn't want me around.
In the other hand I must to admit that he seems to be a sex machine and my GF is crazy with the sex they have. So for the moment I accept this. But I'm looking for a bull replacement in parallel.

I think I have full right to be there and enjoy, and I need a bull that helps me with that, not the opposite.
Oh man. I think that is not healthy at all for you and your relationship.

You must talk to her and see the way you can participate somehow.

If her bull is not respecting you, you must tell her you're not comfortable with the deal.
 
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In the other hand I must to admit that he seems to be a sex machine and my GF is crazy with the sex they have. So for the moment I accept this. But I'm looking for a bull replacement in parallel.

I think I have full right to be there and enjoy, and I need a bull that helps me with that, not the opposite.
My wife also had been in Love with two of her Lovers and it was just normal that she was looking very much forward to be with him and to have Sex with him. I gave my wife the freedom to do so. If I would have objected she would have done it anyway and properly behind my back. I've never fucked my wife in a pool or nailed her against the railing of a riverboat from behind at night. In other words its not only the feeling she has for him, its about exploring crazy things when in she is in this state of mind.

It’s a bit of a mind game, be observing and be patient,

Your time will come: Its Mothers day he forgot to send flowers “ Darling, don’t you think he should have thought about it”?
There are countless opportunities where you can slowly plant ideas into her mind. Be sure the time will come, she will start looking at him differently.

To search for someone else, when she is in that state of mind will most likely not work out.
 
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Hi all,

I never wrote a thread before (I'm not very good at that, and my English sucks sometimes... 😂)

I'll do my best.

I start this thread because lot of hubbies and couples DM me after some posts.

This is not a manual for a bull, but just a bunch of recommendations from my personal experience.

Some wife's freak out after having sex with me because they say it's like we know each other since ages... but it's just a matter of listening them.

I mean, having a huge dick is the same as spiderman says, "With great power comes great responsibility" then "With having a huge cock comes a great resposability as well 😂"

If you don't know how to use it, you can hurt her 🤕... and cervix pain is not good for keeping her aroused...

Some wives tell me other bulls just pound them as a potato sack. And this is not the right way!!! Being bigger doesn't mean the better if you are not sufficiently empathic. You need to listen her, see how she moves, how she reacts to your huge dick inside her. Some wives like a lot cervix orgasms, but this doesn't mean you can just start fucking as a wild animal and push her cervix to her lounges!!!

It's just common sense mates. If you pay the right attention to her signals, you can make her the most happy wife of the world.

This is a message for you hubbies as well. Do not ask your bull to pound her hard! Do not ask her to ride him hard. Let's just let it flow!!!! Sex is like a dance, you must them practice and know each other. Believe me, after two or three sex dates, your wife will become a pornstar.

To take a huge dick is not as easy as you must of the hubbies think!! 😂 but from my experience most of the women can do it with time and the right training... vaginas are very flexible!! But some women takes more than two hour to reach that excitation level. Some times when I start fucking then I still see two or three inches of my dick out of her and already reaching her cervix. And after some time, magically, you can see how she can take your whole dick 😏

After taking it, you can pay more attention on how to move it, how to penetrate her in order to give her the most powerful orgasms she ever had. How yo push and where to push... they become wild when they see all the monster is inside 🔥

And I think this is the best advice I can give anyone that want to start the process. Or even to some people that is not doing in the right way...

Best,

Mike

Mike, you did a great job talking about precisely what my wife looks for when she is choosing a man to have sex with. She much prefers the "boyfriend" type over the rough and touch, wham, bam, out-the-door type. We have met our share of both over the years.

There are times she wants a deep, hard fuck, but most times she wants tenderness, and a man who can read her body language is obviously a man she will see many times.

Finding a man like yourself is always good; keep it up, and you will make many couples very happy.
 
Mike, you did a great job talking about precisely what my wife looks for when she is choosing a man to have sex with. She much prefers the "boyfriend" type over the rough and touch, wham, bam, out-the-door type. We have met our share of both over the years.

There are times she wants a deep, hard fuck, but most times she wants tenderness, and a man who can read her body language is obviously a man she will see many times.

Finding a man like yourself is always good; keep it up, and you will make many couples very happy.
Thank you for your kind words 😊

And yes, I already set up a very special relationship with some couples. Is not just only based on sex, we have dinners and we do some plans together.
 
Thank you for your kind words 😊

And yes, I already set up a very special relationship with some couples. Is not just only based on sex, we have dinners and we do some plans together.
That is the best way to do this. My wife has several "boyfriends" who, while the sex is hot and good for them both, also genuinely care about her and soon become best friends. One guy loves to take my wife shopping and to take her on picnics in one of our city parks. He and I have become best friends and we also share great times together. I love that my wife has this man in her life who cares for her so much, it makes her feel special, and he is a good friend in addition to being a friend with benefits.

Enjoy the lifestyle my friend.
 
That is the best way to do this. My wife has several "boyfriends" who, while the sex is hot and good for them both, also genuinely care about her and soon become best friends. One guy loves to take my wife shopping and to take her on picnics in one of our city parks. He and I have become best friends and we also share great times together. I love that my wife has this man in her life who cares for her so much, it makes her feel special, and he is a good friend in addition to being a friend with benefits.

Enjoy the lifestyle my friend.
Thanks mate!
 
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We do this with a guy we know semi regularly. 99% of our fun has been with him. He's younger, 34, divorced and a really cool guy. He's polite, responsible, respectful and just right aggressive. We do this at our home, we're comfy together, we relax in the livingroom, kitchen and our bedroom. We don't have any rules, they do anything they want in bed, I'm always watching or taking a turn with her while he watches. Nothing weird happens, no pain, no humiliation at all. It's very very obvious she likes sex with him but she's never said any thing about how he's better, bigger (he has a bigger tool than I do) or longer lasting (he is). He does get more sex time with her but I get all I want too. He's a guy we enjoy sex fun with, he's not her bull or boyfriend.
 
Boyfriends are the best way to go...gives some attachment to each other , makes the love making more meaningful and open
Agree, when I stablish a long relationship with a wife, the sex becomes double passionate. They become much more confident, open to try things they never did before... And bare sex + creampies, that's extraordinary when it's on the menu 😜
 
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We do this with a guy we know semi regularly. 99% of our fun has been with him. He's younger, 34, divorced and a really cool guy. He's polite, responsible, respectful and just right aggressive. We do this at our home, we're comfy together, we relax in the livingroom, kitchen and our bedroom. We don't have any rules, they do anything they want in bed, I'm always watching or taking a turn with her while he watches. Nothing weird happens, no pain, no humiliation at all. It's very very obvious she likes sex with him but she's never said any thing about how he's better, bigger (he has a bigger tool than I do) or longer lasting (he is). He does get more sex time with her but I get all I want too. He's a guy we enjoy sex fun with, he's not her bull or boyfriend.
As every relationship with a bull should be. Congratulations!
You are sharing your treasure, your wife... So select carefully the people you want to invite to share time with you both.
 
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That is the best way to do this. My wife has several "boyfriends" who, while the sex is hot and good for them both, also genuinely care about her and soon become best friends. One guy loves to take my wife shopping and to take her on picnics in one of our city parks. He and I have become best friends and we also share great times together. I love that my wife has this man in her life who cares for her so much, it makes her feel special, and he is a good friend in addition to being a friend with benefits.

Enjoy the lifestyle my friend.
My wife id the same she hss 3 regular guys that she sees oneof them.once a month She enjoy tbe bed time but they go.out as a couple..She dresses to impress him at all.times especially when.they go clubbing She dresses for pleasure sex and to get noticed
 
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My wife id the same she hss 3 regular guys that she sees oneof them.once a month She enjoy tbe bed time but they go.out as a couple..She dresses to impress him at all.times especially when.they go clubbing She dresses for pleasure sex and to get noticed
That's how it ought to be. When I take a guy's wife out I want her to look hot, so other guys see that I got somebody else's woman for the night. And dress easy to fuck and finger. no panties, no bra.
 
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