She certainly was back then. Got lots of old pics of her. Loved her cock. Now she’s married to a short guy that looks like a gerbil but has money. Seems as she got old money won out over looks lol.
He may be a nice guy, I don’t know. I feel sorry for him. Bet she’s soon looking around for something extra lol
I use the term cuckold to describe my lifestyle but truthfully it's generally the same way you described it.
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notoriousbbc describes it very well for my wife and I.
My wife and I have survived this lifestyle for many years. A big part of the success is that we both get something out of it.
For her, she loves sex. She is a nympho, she thinks about sex almost constantly and even has erotic dreams that will wake her with an orgasm. When she sees an attractive man, and starts talking to him, she gets incredibly wet and horny.
For me, nothing turns me on more than watching my wife take another man's cock and knowing she is carrying his seed inside of her. We do have sex, occasionally, but I get much more arousal watching her have sex with another man and doing clean-up, instead of having sex with her myself.
My kink and her craving for sex with other men, make us a really good match. We've been married for over 30 years. Since we've been together, she has had way more sex with other men, than she has had with me.
Although she and I don't have a lot of sex, she and I share a deep intimacy that we don't share with anyone else. I am her best friend and she is mine. The way she describes me is: I am the shoulder she cries on, her security blanket and the steady forse in her life.
I've been asked, many times if I was afraid of losing my wife to another man. My typical response is: "you don't have to have an open marriage to lose your wife to another man."
My wife knows she is free to have sex with any man, whenever she wants and as much as she wants. She just happens to be the type of woman that can do that, yet keep her heart committed to me.
Some of her bf's, over the years, have tried to pull her away from me. She quickly ended it with them.
Not surprised. I used to cum over her ass all the time. Even let me fuck it a few times
We certainly did. Had friend staying overnight with us. All in same bed fucking her all night.
We did it once. It was at the beach. My wife was nude, walking with me along the see shore. We met a Italian guy, started talking about lot of things but the situation was weird because my wife was the only one naked. It was a sexual tension there all of us could feel. The guy was handsome and attractive and I realized Sandra was getting horny. I asked to take a picture of them. It was so hot. My wife nude and a stranger holding her with his hand in her hip. He said I was very lucky with such a beautiful girl... and everything went hotter. Five minutes later the guy was having sex with her while I was looking. Ten minutes later I joined and it was the best sex in our lives. It was natural, spontaneous, we didn't look for it. But it happened. We talked about do it again but it is not so nice if you have to schedule it.
my story as well - though for 40+ years. It works if you work it.
I have been in a few partnerships where the female was having sex with other men, some in my presence some not, and none have left my for one of their toys. My first wife left me for her cousin but that was not one of her toys. My exgf left me for one of her rich online scrabble gamers, but again she never met him physically until after we split. The rest I have broke up with myself until my present wife who also plays. I have since met some of my ex's playmates and they have told me that they are still playing and are still with their partners. Hope you can follow that lol
It does take work, patience, communication, give and take, etc. But, if you think about it, all relationships require work, lol.
i'm still vanilla but i'm looking for a lot about it and talking to my wife who already knows about my costume but is still gaining confidence.
And everywhere I read about the cuckold, love is what matters, he is the basis of the relationship, he is the basis for any relationship but in the cuckold he has to be pure and strong.
It is he who will show your wife that you love her and will also make her come back to you later, you have to be her safe haven and you need a lot of love and trust for that!
But this is my opinion based on what I read!
Cathy kinda hits the nail on the head with this. At least for me and my wife. My wife has said some of these same, exact words.
Once we started, she told me we probably opened a door we cannot close. She has had many bf's, over the years, that were way better in bed than me, but she has never left me for any of them. She has also told me she would never leave me for a guy, simply because he was an amazing fuck.
Some women enjoy sex differently than others. My wife has told me she probably would have enjoyed being a porn star. She is one of those women that loves sex, and knows how to separate the emotions. I chuckled and told her I'm the type of guy that could be married to a porn star.
However, we have known other couples where it failed. It's possible opening the marriage could have killed the relationship, but it's hard to tell if it wouldn't have failed regardless.
I think this "line" in which the wife crosses is extremely exciting, because for me, it is losing control of the situation, going from a relationship that you have with your wife to just a passenger on the trip while she is driving!
Sorry for the comparison but for me it makes sense, lolol, and fear is also a point to consider, I imagine the fear that I will have when my wife does this and the happiness and love that I will give her when she comes back to me!
And finally, I think that this type of relationship can revive or destroy the relationship, each relationship is very particular, we have no way of knowing what will happen, until it happens, and that is the adrenaline rush!
In other words, the couple must be prepared for this, ready for the experience, mentally and emotionally, not only the husband, but also the woman, after all, the cuckold is a slap in the monogamous patriarchal society in which we live.
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