How many times has lover been with her?

Loridan

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I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
 
Wife's 1st bull met with us about 3-4 times a month, he had my wife every month for the better part of the year before he had to move out of state for work.

It gave us both great joy to have him bed my wife and that he would take the time to spend nights with her. I got to watch and my wife had me take pics and video of their love making.

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Wife's 1st bull met with us about 3-4 times a month, he had my wife every month for the better part of the year before he had to move out of state for work.

It gave us both great joy to have him bed my wife and that he would take the time to spend nights with her. I got to watch and my wife had me take pics and video of their love making.


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GOD you guys ate HOT!! I ahte condoms too, would rather risk a pregnancy than use them. And I LOVE feeling my Lovers cum DEEP inside of me!! J (the wife)
 
As I mentioned before my wife started fucking when she was 17 and in the army, we didn't meet til she was 30 and got married 6 months later, my wife told me that most of the guys she's been with before and after we got married were one time each and very few that she fucked more than once, after we retired from the army I started sharing her with my best friend and that's been going now for years now.
 
As I mentioned before my wife started fucking when she was 17 and in the army, we didn't meet til she was 30 and got married 6 months later, my wife told me that most of the guys she's been with before and after we got married were one time each and very few that she fucked more than once, after we retired from the army I started sharing her with my best friend and that's been going now for years now.
Dm me would love to chat with you about her
 
I've been in, what I would consider, 3 long term relationships with cuck couples. One particular couple for about 5 years. We were exclusive to each other. I was in my mid 20's, they were mid 50's. She was that dynamic, gym going, business owning, fun loving woman we've all admired at some point. He was a tall, slim, brilliantly funny, intelligent and totally devoted to her.

I'd see them every month to begin with, which ended up sometimes being twice a week. Mr counted up once that we'd met over 200 times

The 3 of us grew really close and I was lucky enough to take the lovely wife on holiday with me a few times, short 3-4 days away just the 2 of us with lots of updates going back home vis phone and laptop ... during the evenings.

They both retired in their early 60's and moved to their dream home in Scotland so things had to end.
 
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I've had a several of long term bulls (6 months+).I was having far more sex with them than hubby. Used to do ...... overs and even took a holiday with one of them. Other guy I've met maybe six or seven times over a couple of months and a few it might be long term but only meet once or twice a year when they are in town.
 
I read posts asking how many men a wife has been with. Answers are all over the place.
For us it's 3.
How many times ? One guy once, different guy 3 times.
The guy we see now is the guy we did it our first time. 6 times in 3 years then we got into it pretty good. For about 2 years it's been one, two and sometimes three times a month.
Twice a month times 24 months, that's 48 visits with him. Probably a little more.
When I think about it that's a bunch.
the problem with that question is for most how long you been in the lifestyle, how often you play with others, and how old you are. So it is easy to see how the number could go from 2-3 to 100 really easily.
Having been in the swinging lifestyle for many years and in a variety of experiences, I would have trouble putting a number on how many, men I've been with. I've had a few long-term guys I must of had sex with 100 times, but would he only count as one? and if you swing at clubs or parties often say once a month, then 12-20 could be an easy number within a year. 20 x 10 years, well I think you get the point. Not a really good question in my opinion.
 
My ex-boyfriend comes over at least once a week, usually just for one on one sex with me, but other times my husband invites him over for a threesome as he loves watching my ex make me orgasm harder that he ever has. This is not something new, my ex was and still is the best fuck of my life and I told my now husband that when I first got with him. My husband works away a lot told me I should keep on fucking my ex whenever I want to, so I have, and I still love fucking him. I'm now 40 and I've been with my husband for over 10 years and my ex on and off for well over 20 years now. Of late my husband hac decided to open our marriage to some of his and my friends, he's never had a problem with me having female lovers as I often like to share them with him anyway.
 
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