I stopped wearing men’s underwear 3-4 years ago. My wife has generally denied me sex since the first time she cucked me 20+ years ago, and completely since June 2022. (I am 100% impotent with her, because I know she doesn’t want it from me.) I decided to go hairless too. She said she was fine with me being bisexual when we met, but I don’t think that’s true. I used to have a decent dick, but as I found out I was too feminine and submissive, and bisexual for her, with a 24-48 hour refractory period. Our sex life died off literally right after we got married, and it was pretty obvious two years in that she was going to cheat, if she hadn't already. I encouraged her to fuck other men if she wanted, she asked what would happen if she liked it so much she got addicted. (She’d actually already cucked me.) That's the point, I told her. She has pegged me and caged me in the past, but it doesn’t really do anything for her. I think all of it turned her off sex with me.
In June 2019, we had some pretty hot sex (for me). She talked about needing a bigger dick and how two other guys fucked her better. She later admitted she didn’t feel me inside her at the end, and I didn’t cum much at all. (Sure felt like it!)
In October 2019 I texted her I was sad she didn’t love my shaved boy clit. She said, “Sorry, I am being honest. Sorry, if it's mean.”
She's also been hit on in front of me too, more than once. Actually, one night, a young military guy hit on ME right in front of her. Not sure what any of this says about me, but I have some theories.