The words "treating her with Respect" can be interpreted --My wife Enjoyed men who would walk in & sit & talk with her a few min. at the kitchen table then stand up in front of her & just undo their pants (or Tell her to undo them) & shove it in her face, whereas--a lot of women would call that Disrespect-- everyone has a slightly different meaning for the word Respect- She didn't consider that behavior disrespecyful