How do I make it happen tonight? Wife has text me.

Hi everyone. Very new here. Had to find somewhere to share this because at the moment I'm just home alone and none of my friends know about this fantasy - although my wife's friends might be about to find out.

My wife - Becky - and her friends are on a night out for some pre-Christmas drinks. We've talked about the cuckold/hotwife stuff for quite a long time and while my wife was having a couple of drinks and getting ready before she left our house she was teasing me about it, asking if I thought other men would be looking at her, if she looked hot enough, what would I think if other men hit on her etc.

Anyway, I've LITERALLY just received this text, copied and pasted: Hey babe, I think you might have been right about the dress, very booby, lots of looks! We seem to have joined a few guys for the night. Bet that gets your heart racing 😉 xx

How can I encourage her to go through with it?
 
Hi everyone. Very new here. Had to find somewhere to share this because at the moment I'm just home alone and none of my friends know about this fantasy - although my wife's friends might be about to find out.

My wife - Becky - and her friends are on a night out for some pre-Christmas drinks. We've talked about the cuckold/hotwife stuff for quite a long time and while my wife was having a couple of drinks and getting ready before she left our house she was teasing me about it, asking if I thought other men would be looking at her, if she looked hot enough, what would I think if other men hit on her etc.

Anyway, I've LITERALLY just received this text, copied and pasted: Hey babe, I think you might have been right about the dress, very booby, lots of looks! We seem to have joined a few guys for the night. Bet that gets your heart racing 😉 xx

How can I encourage her to go through with it?
Any updates?
 
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Sadly she didn't go through with it last night and I think it was my fault because I didn't really know what to say to encourage her. Luckily, she's out again tonight - this time with her work colleagues so you never know - all hope is not yet lost!
Next time she teases you like that you might respond with something like, “hope you hook up with someone so I can finally get sloppy seconds.”
 
Hi everyone. Very new here. Had to find somewhere to share this because at the moment I'm just home alone and none of my friends know about this fantasy - although my wife's friends might be about to find out.

My wife - Becky - and her friends are on a night out for some pre-Christmas drinks. We've talked about the cuckold/hotwife stuff for quite a long time and while my wife was having a couple of drinks and getting ready before she left our house she was teasing me about it, asking if I thought other men would be looking at her, if she looked hot enough, what would I think if other men hit on her etc.

Anyway, I've LITERALLY just received this text, copied and pasted: Hey babe, I think you might have been right about the dress, very booby, lots of looks! We seem to have joined a few guys for the night. Bet that gets your heart racing 😉 xx

How can I encourage her to go through with it?
You say you've talked about cuckold/hotwife stuff but have you actually told her you want her to fuck someone? have you asked her if she wants to fuck someone? if so and its what you both want then I don't see a problem. There are swinger sites and dating sites if you want to take that route but my wife got plenty dates just going out drinking with her friends. A group of women in a pub or nightclub are a magnet for sex hungry males. Disco venues are even better, my wife loves dancing so when she went to disco nightclubs she was getting hit on all night by the men she danced with.
 
Close is good! Consider it one step closer. Those barriers in her mind are slowly fading.

My wife isn't a hot wife but she knows I get excited about the idea of it. We both know that she won't do anything she doesn't want to with me or anyone. She finally consented to (at my request) introduce some dirty talk while having sex. I told her that I never expected her to do anything, I just like the teasing talk and it helps me stay aroused. That has been the most successful thing so far for me/us. She was very timid and awkward at it at first. Now she comes up with stuff that surprises me. It's been a lot of fun and for me, just knowing those thoughts are tumbling around in that head of hers is comforting!

I've had more success "nudging" things than I've had pushing things.
 
Hi everyone. Very new here. Had to find somewhere to share this because at the moment I'm just home alone and none of my friends know about this fantasy - although my wife's friends might be about to find out.

My wife - Becky - and her friends are on a night out for some pre-Christmas drinks. We've talked about the cuckold/hotwife stuff for quite a long time and while my wife was having a couple of drinks and getting ready before she left our house she was teasing me about it, asking if I thought other men would be looking at her, if she looked hot enough, what would I think if other men hit on her etc.

Anyway, I've LITERALLY just received this text, copied and pasted: Hey babe, I think you might have been right about the dress, very booby, lots of looks! We seem to have joined a few guys for the night. Bet that gets your heart racing 😉 xx

How can I encourage her to go through with it?
How do you know she didn't hook up with some guy and she just hasn't told you ?
 
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