How do I find a swinger's party or a club to bring my vanilla wife to?

[jockyrider69]

First, my wife is not totally vanilla, but also not totally on board with becoming a real hot wife yet, EXCEPT she (we) love to role-play her fucking a new lover, or 2, while I mostly watch. She says she isnt ready to actually fuck a stranger, but may go to a "party" if she is allowed to just watch. This is a BIG step for her, so I want to do it right.
But I dont have any idea how to proceed with finding a "party" to attend as a couple.
We live in Arizona during the winter.
Anybody have some advice?

 

[Happy Mom]

First, my wife is not totally vanilla, but also not totally on board with becoming a real hot wife yet, EXCEPT she (we) love to role-play her fucking a new lover, or 2, while I mostly watch. She says she isnt ready to actually fuck a stranger, but may go to a "party" if she is allowed to just watch. This is a BIG step for her, so I want to do it right.
But I dont have any idea how to proceed with finding a "party" to attend as a couple.
We live in Arizona during the winter.
Anybody have some advice?

Theres a couple of swingers clubs in the Phoenix area that I’m aware of. Her role playing is a good start. My advice from here would be to go to a regular nudist club first. Get her used to being naked around others, especially in larger groups. Continue with the role playing and then slowly progress to actually fucking others. Be very supportive.

 

[barb17]

First, my wife is not totally vanilla, but also not totally on board with becoming a real hot wife yet, EXCEPT she (we) love to role-play her fucking a new lover, or 2, while I mostly watch. She says she isnt ready to actually fuck a stranger, but may go to a "party" if she is allowed to just watch. This is a BIG step for her, so I want to do it right.
But I dont have any idea how to proceed with finding a "party" to attend as a couple.
We live in Arizona during the winter.
Anybody have some advice?

Mimes real vanilla

Theres a couple of swingers clubs in the Phoenix area that I’m aware of. Her role playing is a good start. My advice from here would be to go to a regular nudist club first. Get her used to being naked around others, especially in larger groups. Continue with the role playing and then slowly progress to actually fucking others. Be very supportive.

mine is real vanilla -she needs fucking

 

[Happy Mom]

Mimes real vanilla

mine is real vanilla -she needs fucking

Is she at least open to the idea?

 

[barb17]

Mimes real vanilla

mine is real vanilla -she needs fucking

!

 

[barb17]

Is she at least open to the idea?

She gets wet if I say men are watching her fuck while we are playing

 

[Em3840]

SLS is a good place on finding parties

 

[jockyrider69]

Theres a couple of swingers clubs in the Phoenix area that I’m aware of. Her role playing is a good start. My advice from here would be to go to a regular nudist club first. Get her used to being naked around others, especially in larger groups. Continue with the role playing and then slowly progress to actually fucking others. Be very supportive.

We've been to a nudist resort in Florida and I had a great time, and she eventually warmed up to it. There was no sex going on in any of the common areas, but I guess I didnt know enough to know what was going on in other areas. I know there are other nudist resorts that are more Lifestyle tolerant.

 

[barb17]

She gets wet if I say men are watching her fuck while we are playing

Do the nudist clubs in the UK allow shared sex?

 

[barb17]

Someone other than me must want to fuck her

 

[CHIBLKSTUD]

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[jusme]

Here in the UK, and I think in other countries too, there is a website for swingers to advertise and chat to Newby swingers and also hardened swingers. Also on the site are advertised swing clubs websites. Me and my ex were always pursuing the pages, we even fucked a few times live on ... in the chat rooms. There are also individual ads for single or groups of swingers looking for a er...participating victim shall we say lol. We went to a few of them too, she even went to a few on her own (very horny).
The site is called;
swingingheaven.com
I just wish my new wife would try them, not to get fucked by everyone there, but just to see how relaxed the atmosphere is around swingers. It's not just sex, but people that are at ease with their bodies so they have no defences up just friendly