This is a all time #1 question for many husbands. Not any people around that are willing to work at this due to lots easier to just go out and get laid than this. This has been my experience. Dont get me wrong, I understand this in my pursuit of the almighty seduction of my wife. Most I think are like me, they want this to happen but all of the people I have discussed this with want a quick BJ or lay and think/know that we are mostly fakes. What they do not understand in my situation is that the wife loves this in the bedroom and private talk but reluctant in real life as mine always says right place, person, and time she would do it. You have the men I have come in contact usually want just pics or vids where they can trade. Then you have the men that want it right away or swing by on their vacation and get some lol. Sorry not happening. What I want is to find one that is at least decent looking, discreet, and willing to work at the process of getting her. Most do not know the reward that is awaiting if they succeed. So all in all its usually a waste of time for them or me to have this happen and I read somewhere the chances of this happening is about 3% for avg people or woman and 5% if they are drop dead gorgeous. Hope you have some good luck because after 10 years of pursuing this it hasnt happened yet. I have many failed stories from actually meeting the guys, guys showing up at the same place as directed and really making an ass of themselves and not just going by the rules, so do not tell me its my fault all the way, yes some is, but most men that are worth having to do this are already taken and can get it without working and the rest are just fakes or whacked out LOL. And yes, my wife is pretty good looking. Sorry for being so long and negative.