How do I convince my wife..?

[layla]

Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. She also said that she doesn't mind being topless at the beach. Kinda confused 😅
Please write me advise.. much appreciated

 

[slyone80]

I have been going on over a year since I first planted the seed in my wife’s head. We have gotten more into the role playing of having another cock(dildo) in our sex life. She agrees it does feel really good but just cannot ...... with another man. Trying to get over that hurdle. She works with nothing but man and have seen how some of them look at her and flirt with her at company events. I keep telling her it should not be hard to find one of them to bend her over. She just laughs. Hopefully one day.

 

[thebeginner]

From experience my answer is. You can't. Yes you could drop it in to her in the moment of sexual high that would she like a 3some. So maybe watch some 3some porn. See how she reacts to it. Mention to her that it would be good try something like that. See what she says. If she says no then don't push it. If she says yeah or maybe ask her if it's something she would like to do. Then go from there.

I have been trying for a number of years to share my wife and she still says no. But the seed is planted and she knows.

I have got to the point of her chatting to men but that's it. Even though I want to know and see the chats. Last year she 2as chatting to a guy and I didn't know about it. I was quute angry over it. But after me finding out she now says she will try harder. So we shall see.

It took my wife several years to come around to the idea. I too planted the seed and gradually, so very very gradually she became more interested and comfortable with the idea of ...... with other men. Despite her reluctance early on she now admits it was the best thing we've done together as a couple and wishes we had started much earlier. While at times it was very frustrating I can say it was also exciting and rewarding getting to her first time. It has only gotten better from there.

Good luck on your hotwife journey.