How to convince my wife.?

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Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅
She also dosent mind of being topless at the beach.
Please write me advise.. much appreciated
 
Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅
She also dosent mind of being topless at the beach.
Please write me advise.. much appreciated
Perhaps try suggesting a 3 some with another lady, if she goes for it maybe it will lead to another couple which could lead to another guy. We started with another lady, and then a 3 some with a guy, and then a couple and then we were in, men women couples, and small groups! Go slow and easy and find what she is comfortable with not what you want.
 
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Perhaps try suggesting a 3 some with another lady, if she goes for it maybe it will lead to another couple which could lead to another guy. We started with another lady, and then a 3 some with a guy, and then a couple and then we were in, men women couples, and small groups! Go slow and easy and find what she is comfortable with not what you want.
so is it mostly a hotwife adventure for u2 now ?? Is ur biggest pleasure with her after her studly bf has finished of hours with her??
 
so is it mostly a hotwife adventure for u2 now ?? Is ur biggest pleasure with her after her studly bf has finished of hours with her??
No we are a couple who swing with others, there are times where I share her with other men, and if she enjoys one of them I will stand back and let her go one on one with him, we share many different sexual adventures. My comment was about how you might get your wife willing to take the next step but yes I truly enjoy watching her give her self to well hung black men.
 
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Hello, first time posting here. Me (M25) and my wife (F32) are together for a year now and I really would love to share her with a another Male, but I’m afraid of telling her, even though I tried the questionnaire and she is no way wants to try threesomes etc.. I don’t want to ruin the relationship but I really can’t get over this. I’m trying to come up with similar subject and she dosent like it. I propose to her to start an only fans for fun and she was positive with it. Kinda confused 😅
She also dosent mind of being topless at the beach.
Please write me advise.. much appreciated
Exhibitionism and sharing/Cuckolding are two different things. Just because she is willing to go topless on a beach, doesn't mean she wnats to fuck other men. Our advice is to get over it or table it for awhile.