How did your wife react when she first found out you wanted someone else to fuck her in front of you? What did she do?

So initially you thought it would be better if the two of you weren't swinging? Seems like you caved pretty easy. 😉

110 seems like a lot, especially if she's doing many repeats. Does she?

Altogether it seems to say something about the force of her desire. Which is sooo sexy.
In fact, it was a bit more complicated. I and my ex-wife had a very good relationship, but she wasn't fond of the lifestyle. She liked it occasionally, but overall it wasn't her thing. I'm ashamed to say it, but I fell in love with a fellow-swinger. The woman decided to stay with her husband, and it all became pretty complicated. Anyway, Sophy was my salvation from this life, and very naturally, I wanted neither to risk our relationship nor be denied or despised. In addition, I didn't want my new girl to feel any pressure. Now I know that swinging was not my thing either; even though I fuck other women when Sophy allows me and when I'm sure she likes it, my greatest thrill is her fucking other guys and me joining whenever I like.
 
In fact, it was a bit more complicated. I and my ex-wife had a very good relationship, but she wasn't fond of the lifestyle. She liked it occasionally, but overall it wasn't her thing. I'm ashamed to say it, but I fell in love with a fellow-swinger. The woman decided to stay with her husband, and it all became pretty complicated. Anyway, Sophy was my salvation from this life, and very naturally, I wanted neither to risk our relationship nor be denied or despised. In addition, I didn't want my new girl to feel any pressure. Now I know that swinging was not my thing either; even though I fuck other women when Sophy allows me and when I'm sure she likes it, my greatest thrill is her fucking other guys and me joining whenever I like.
No kidding? Man, that's epic irony -- and an amazing story. Salute to you for being open enough to share it. It also sounds like you're in touch with what make sense for you and beyond feeling pressure from society or anyone else, at least about this. I admire that.
 
Well, you got half of what you wanted sort of, she's "seeing" another guy. What did you do or say to get her over being pissed at you?

I can't tell the number of times I've read that 99.9% of the time it is never a well received discussion. I don't think wives truly understand the courage it takes to tell someone you love your deepest thoughts and desires. Not many acknowledge the vulnerable place a husband risks being in because being macho and Alpha are the models for real men.
yes exactly
 
My wife got pissed and thought I didn't love her enough. She retaliated by starting to see another guy (married) behind my back without telling me.
Not well, actually I mean I was a little bit too pussy to come right out and say it so I use the old hay. I’ve got a friend who wants his wife to do this and I’ll never forget. She looked at me and told me that that was disgusting so I like a lot of guys just kind of kept it inside and sort of Did nothing but jerk off to cuckold and porn. But then I got sloppy and I was a Sexting another guy about the Fantasy on my phone and my wife saw the text messages and the second time around. She seemed to be much more open to it and all it took was one black guy with a really big dick not open her pussy but her mind and it’s been off to the races ever since but it wasn’t always that way.
 
Not well, actually I mean I was a little bit too pussy to come right out and say it so I use the old hay. I’ve got a friend who wants his wife to do this and I’ll never forget. She looked at me and told me that that was disgusting so I like a lot of guys just kind of kept it inside and sort of Did nothing but jerk off to cuckold and porn. But then I got sloppy and I was a Sexting another guy about the Fantasy on my phone and my wife saw the text messages and the second time around. She seemed to be much more open to it and all it took was one black guy with a really big dick not open her pussy but her mind and it’s been off to the races ever since but it wasn’t always that way.
Hope it's working out for you both! 😉
 
told my then gf that i expected it as routine in our life. told her second date i think
I told my wife 3-4 months into our relationship. It was probably after a fuck session during pillow talk "What if i told you....."
I told her about my past of enjoying watching my parter with another guy. Her initial response was "Guess thats better then wanting me to sleep with another girl" where i politely responded: Already did that too
I introduced her to Craiglist personals and started by having her rate guys who i thought were her type most got a 4-5. Until halloween weekend she gave a guy an 8 and said "now that guy is cute, whats his deal...."
That guy was our first 3 way and everything took off from there
If you care to hear more details dm and I will tell you all about it
 
Hey Sean here. I guess I'm an outlier and extremely lucky. I first shared Jennifer after dating for about 5-6 months. I had taken Jennifer's virginity so her sexual experience was limited to me. I was lucky that we were at a party and she had taken a liking to another guy there and I told her she could if she wanted. No strings attached but I may watch a bit. It turned into more than just me watching that night and I could tell she orgasm'd hard on his cock several times. Had she not been attracted to him and had she not had orgasms, things might be different for us.
 
I posted on pageone her first reaction was asking me "Are you crazy?" This is what happened later when she finally had her first threesome.

Keeping in mind she was 29 or 30 and we all had a lot of sexual energy we kept busy sucking and fucking until all were satiated. He thanked us profusely and left. We collapsed in bed asleep. In the morning I was afraid she would feel guilty and say never again. I asked her what she thought about everything that happened. She asked me if I had a good time. I assured her I had and she said great. I asked would she do it again and she said probably but it would have to our special secret and we must be discreet
I did not take any photos, but later got her to wear the same garters and dress. We got to talking about how much fun we had. She started playing with herself for me and we ended up screwing on the floor. Hope you enjoy our little adventures.
 
My wife instigated it! She told me at the age of 52 she had put a profile on a swingers site as she "wanted excitement before she got old ,"We met couples and both played but she was the one who wanted sex while I soon realised I liked watching .She knew this would be the case as I had told her for years that I fantasised about watching her with other men ..never thought it would happen though !We now meet men for her pleasure and I watch .She is a fully active slutty hotwife who just can't get enough cock which is I guess what she planned ..I had no say
 

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