How did you convince your wife to meet her first lover?

[davelb76]

We started with roleplay during foreplay and fantasizing while dating in college. Neither of us expected it to become reality, especially within a very few months of graduating and getting married. Good looking, athletic high school senior hung around our apartment pool and immediately latched on to Stacey. He flirted, rubbed suntan lotion on her, playfully teased her, hung out just about every day that summer before his senior year. At some point he was emboldened and continued all the above in my presence - which I covertly encouraged. His suntan massages became very sexual - touching all the right places. It was a good thing the apartment complex was brand new and the pool rarely busy. I'm sure other couples wondered what was going on considering their play in my presence. One thing led to another and, by the time school started, he was hanging out in our apartment.

 

[LAbsTaCirauR]

I didn't. After months of various talks, fantasising about it with her during sex, she always told me it would never happen. She just downloaded Tinder of her own accord on at least 3 (that I know of!) occasions. She's now been fucked once, masturbated to a lads big cock on video chat and has very recently found herself a lover who she wants to 'date' and properly cuck me with.

 

[LBow7007]

Mine got her ex husbands best friend. We ran into him at one of the casinos. I could just tell from the way she was acting, she was about to get dicked down. We got a room in that casino, and sure enough... I'm pretty sure that meant more to them than a quick fuck, but whatever. It was pretty hot, dude was definitely packing some heat. This was right after we told him what we were wanting to do. Couldn't believe it.View attachment 2016-04-29_222437000_E4D75_iOS.jpg

 

[skoocum]

Mine got her ex husbands best friend. We ran into him at one of the casinos. I could just tell from the way she was acting, she was about to get dicked down. We got a room in that casino, and sure enough... I'm pretty sure that meant more to them than a quick fuck, but whatever. It was pretty hot, dude was definitely packing some heat. This was right after we told him what we were wanting to do. Couldn't believe it.View attachment 460367

your wife is beautiful. was that her first time fucking him or did she fuck him when she was married to her ex?

 

[NXcuck]

I’m still trying to convince I was doing a sort of role play a few weeks ago really got into it

For me , it was all bedroom stuff at first, coaxed out of her some premarital experience, even got her to talk about ex boyfriend’s cock size . Role playing , asking if I was hitting it like Jimmy used to , you know . Eat pussy , talk. Then I graduated to showing porn, asking if she liked the bbc in the videos etc. finally getting her to admit she might like to try it . Then answer ads while in bed, took the lead ,then handed her the phone . A few days later , she’s squirting on bbc .

 

[Rimking679]

For me , it was all bedroom stuff at first, coaxed out of her some premarital experience, even got her to talk about ex boyfriend’s cock size . Role playing , asking if I was hitting it like Jimmy used to , you know . Eat pussy , talk. Then I graduated to showing porn, asking if she liked the bbc in the videos etc. finally getting her to admit she might like to try it . Then answer ads while in bed, took the lead ,then handed her the phone . A few days later , she’s squirting on bbc .

Wow man thanks for that..that sounds great I have started in the initially talking to her dirty during sex to see how she gets on with that

 

[NXcuck]

As in at some point stop beating around the Bush and just be direct. 😉😉😉

Agree

 

[NXcuck]

I agree with everything said above. Although my husband and I are just starting to explore the open marriage lifestyle, his biggest concern is I'll be doing this for him and not for myself.

We've been talking about this for a long time, years and years, while we had sex! Then that talk eventually made its way outside the bedroom. The more we talked, the more it turned me on!

If we choose to go forward, the truth is... there will always be a part of me that will fuck other men just to please my husband no matter how much I love it and want it!

So , no harm in having a hot screaming orgasm on a large hot cock and wrapping your arms and legs around another man and screaming fuck me and then thanking your husband and asking him if he wants to taste your creampie

 

[mike4fun84]

I’m still trying to convince I was doing a sort of role play a few weeks ago really got into it

Rim, tell me about your role play and what you said to her before to get her interested. What dirty talk did you use during the role play? Did you use toys? And when you say “really got into it” you mean you or her?

 

[Paul2188]

Repost of a reply I have previously posted to a similar question. We had been married about 10 years when I first mentioned to her I wanted her to have sex with other guys.
she initially said no chance. I would mention it from time to time over the next couple of yrs and her reply gradually changes from no, to why do you want me to and then to maybe.
We then started posting pics of her on an amateur wives site where she received great feedback.
She then started using the chat room on that site chatting to guys and one suggested meeting for some fun with me watching and taking pics.
She agreed and had a great time. That was over 12 yrs ago and she has had some great times and I have an extensive gallery of pics and movie clips of her having fun with other guys

 

[Cathy]

all you can do is to introduce the idea to her, it is up to her to embrace or reject the concept. the biggest mistake that can be made is to forse her into doing something that she doesn't want to do. talk to her about it and see what the reaction is then proceed accordingly

Most women wont turn down the chance to have a lover at her bec-n-call

 

[Paul2188]

I think it takes a bit of time for wives G/F to be confident and reassured that their partner is truly into it and it will not ruin their relationship. Once they are confident of that then I think it’s just a matter of timing and opportunity

 

[Cathy]

I think it takes a bit of time for wives G/F to be confident and reassured that their partner is truly into it and it will not ruin their relationship. Once they are confident of that then I think it’s just a matter of timing and opportunity

so true

 

[davelb76]

I think it takes a bit of time for wives G/F to be confident and reassured that their partner is truly into it and it will not ruin their relationship. Once they are confident of that then I think it’s just a matter of timing and opportunity

Same with the guy - takes a lot of reassurance and confidence in our relationship to be comfortable with her giving herself to another man. In my case, it's particularly sensitive sense Stacey's #1 go to lover has been in our lives for well over 15 years (off and on).

 

[Bullishious]

Hello, how exactly did you encourage your wife to meet her lover for the first time?

As a bull I want everyone to be confident and prepared. But in the long run it needs to be her choice in most cases That said, I also understand some couples have a dynamic of sub and no choices but the ones made by the dominant one in the relationship. That's not my dynamic, but there are so many..Nothing cut and dry in cucklife.

 

[Rimking679]

Rim, tell me about your role play and what you said to her before to get her interested. What dirty talk did you use during the role play? Did you use toys? And when you say “really got into it” you mean you or her?

Just a lot of dirty talking whilst doing foreplay on her

 

[Rimking679]

Exactly how it happened with us. Only it was her who mentioned it when she was sucking my cock one evening and she mentioned how hot it would be if another man was fucking her from behind while she was sucking me. It spiraled in a good way after that!

Damn right I grab her head and push it down on me further..she really gets into it

 

[somos2conmuchos]

mi experiencia personal siendo un hombre bisexual y swinger estoy totalmente de acuerdo con eso de la sinceridad y la verdad primero aunque en mi caso además siempre he tenido una táctica que no me ha fallado y es también empezar a tener un juego de roles donde incluya un consolador que debe ser de menor a mayor para que también ella pueda tener la idea de como sería tener dos hombres juntos para darle placer