First time tips?

[Yawnbiter]

Hello! My wife and I(both 31) are in the middle of talking with some lovely local men on discord and everyone seems eager to meet up, respectively. We're new to this LS and through posting photos of my wife, with consent, her confidence has sky rocketed because of you lovely people ❤️

She's more than willing to go through with this LS and with more than 1 man/woman if she's happy with it, but she's a little nervous about when her and her new potential lover have their time, ya know?

We've never done anything like this, so I'm wondering how was y'all's first time? Any tips or comments that could help her out? Or even for me I guess lol

Much love, thanks lots ❤️

 

[strongbbcxxx]

Make your boundaries, likes and dislikes clear from the start. Sit back, relax and enjoy the show 📸

 

[Yawnbiter]

Make your boundaries, likes and dislikes clear from the start. Sit back, relax and enjoy the show 📸

I'm most excited about the show 😎 thanks 🙏

 

[strongbbcxxx]

I'm most excited about the show 😎 thanks 🙏

mmmm you are going to be in heaven

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

My wife’s first time was while I was at work. It was my birthday and she told me that evening. It was my birthday present. I wanted to ask her a bunch of questions but all I asked was if she enjoyed herself. She reluctantly told me yes. I told her I was happy and thanked her for the gift. I dropped it. A couple days later as we were talking, I told her it was ok with me if she was with him again, all I asked was she let me know afterwards. She said she would consider it, however the next day when I came home from work she told me she had been with him again.

Much later as we talked, she admitted she was ashamed after the first time because he had made her cum and she had enjoyed it. She had felt like she was betraying me. But because I didn’t hound her with questions and I was supportive of her, she continued and now she has 3 boyfriends and we are enjoying ourselves.

 

[BeautNBeast]

My wife’s first time was while I was at work. It was my birthday and she told me that evening. It was my birthday present. I wanted to ask her a bunch of questions but all I asked was if she enjoyed herself. She reluctantly told me yes. I told her I was happy and thanked her for the gift. I dropped it. A couple days later as we were talking, I told her it was ok with me if she was with him again, all I asked was she let me know afterwards. She said she would consider it, however the next day when I came home from work she told me she had been with him again.

Much later as we talked, she admitted she was ashamed after the first time because he had made her cum and she had enjoyed it. She had felt like she was betraying me. But because I didn’t hound her with questions and I was supportive of her, she continued and now she has 3 boyfriends and we are enjoying ourselves.

Do you have great sex with her after?

 

[SmallHubbyTexas]

Do you have great sex with her after?

Well, I always think the sex is great. The first time she went back to him, we had had sex the night before. A couple of months later it was Valentine’s Day, I was about to dress her for her date when she asked if I wanted to watch that evening. I of course said yes. She pulled out a cock cage and said I could but I had to be wearing the cage. As she was looking at me with the cage on, she told me that I looked better with the cage on. After their activities were over for the evening, she said she wasn’t taking the cage off yet.

We continued to have sex for a couple months, but I am caged all the time now. My cock hasn’t been in her pussy for years now. She fondle/teases me almost everyday and pegs me a couple times a week. We do talk about it frequently and she makes sure I am still ok with everything going on.

After watching her, I did see a difference in her. With me she just kinda lays there with her eyes closed as I am sliding in and out of her. With her boyfriends, she squirms, moans, groans and screams with them. She almost always has eye eyes open and is looking at them, sometimes at me.

 

[TheRedWolf]

Make them provide clean test results regardless of condom use or not. Stay safe.

Talk about boundaries before meeting.

 

[Yawnbiter]

My wife’s first time was while I was at work. It was my birthday and she told me that evening. It was my birthday present. I wanted to ask her a bunch of questions but all I asked was if she enjoyed herself. She reluctantly told me yes. I told her I was happy and thanked her for the gift. I dropped it. A couple days later as we were talking, I told her it was ok with me if she was with him again, all I asked was she let me know afterwards. She said she would consider it, however the next day when I came home from work she told me she had been with him again.

Much later as we talked, she admitted she was ashamed after the first time because he had made her cum and she had enjoyed it. She had felt like she was betraying me. But because I didn’t hound her with questions and I was supportive of her, she continued and now she has 3 boyfriends and we are enjoying ourselves.

That's actually a very wholesome and honest response from her. She kept it open and felt responsible for actions.

That's awesome you guys can keep y'all's happy marriage and enjoy yourselves 🥰

 

[Yawnbiter]

Make them provide clean test results regardless of condom use or not. Stay safe.

Talk about boundaries before meeting.

Good point! We need to do that too

Appreciate it! ☺️