Hotwife Question

[samsar]

So the wifes and I sex life has been rather boring after being together for sixteen years.. Intrest in sex has dropped so we started to incorporate the hotwife fantasy in to our sexual activities a few years ago. However, on the occasion we discuss making the fantasy a reality, she seems to have concerns. Like many here have mentioned, I want her to come to the decision to enter into this lifestyle, not be pressured by me. That is why trying this lifestyle has been a long process. For the most part Ive been able to counter her questions with reasonable answers. However, her latest question left me pondering a good answer. The question was "what happens if I dont want sex with you anymore after being with someone else". It seemed like a reasonable question. My answer, while a poor one, was that I still want to have sex with her but we arent having much currently anyways. I looked at this experience as a way of renewing interest in our sex life not killing it completely.
Is it common to have the wife lose complete intrest in sex with her husband while experiencing the hotwife lifestyle? For you that did experience this situation, how did you handle it with your wifes? Is there something else I need to consider? Any thoughts on this subject would be helpful and appreciated.

Hi, well speaking just for us my wife wants more sex between us when she has been with another man for days sometimes weeks we fuck like teenagers in our case we entered this lifestyle together as a way of keeping our sex life alive and it has certainly done that over the last ten years, 👍

 

[coastalkid]

This is a great thread and a great topic. From what I've read so far there is a wide variety of responses. At least Panda 75 admitted to not wanting sex as much with her cuckolded husband. It seemed a few others claimed that their sex lives improved through their wife's greater interest in sex altogether.

My wife knows I fantasize about her being with another man and she teases me about it in bed but otherwise she's in the "never gonna happen" camp. Personally, I've always wanted more sex. If I thought the results would end up with me getting less then I'm not interested. We're both older now and I don't want to miss anything. In my thoughts, if we both can't come out winners then one of us just lost valuable time.

I think the worst thing to face would be that I always wanted my wife to be more sexual and to not be part of it in a satisfying way would be ignoring my greatest fantasy. Add to that being seen as less sexually desirable. That would be hard to take.

 

[naturalcucky]

We also had this question. I replied that I would accept whatever she decided. After a while, she said that she loves me a lot, but what would I say if she fucks with her lover and I just clean her pussy and she help me masturbate.
Since then I just clean her pussy, but I'm very happy because it's the most exciting sex I've ever had. 😍

 

[keylife022]

I looked at my wife’s situation as a “rising tide lifts all ships” type thing. Hope it’s the same for you.

Well aren’t you nautical.👍

 

[Carrienlarry]

We fantasized during sex about me fucking someone else. And I’d fantasize about him watching and making me do things and him with another girl. Usually we are a one and done. No number's exchanged etc. and usually when we are out of town.

 

[owlmale]

Well aren’t you nautical.👍

sex on the water always hot

 

[keylife022]

sex on the water always hot

Absolutely

 

[toolman2c]

Why do you think "Finding another sexual partner to fix a marriage has disaster written all over it."
She needs and craves to be fucked by a man better that he can. If he couldn't fix the plumbing in the house because he wasn't good at it, wouldn't he be a good husband to support and help find someone who can?

Good point youve made, tho it would be a hard step to make for some ppl, yes for me as well.

 

[toolman2c]

This is a great thread and a great topic. From what I've read so far there is a wide variety of responses. At least Panda 75 admitted to not wanting sex as much with her cuckolded husband. It seemed a few others claimed that their sex lives improved through their wife's greater interest in sex altogether.

My wife knows I fantasize about her being with another man and she teases me about it in bed but otherwise she's in the "never gonna happen" camp. Personally, I've always wanted more sex. If I thought the results would end up with me getting less then I'm not interested. We're both older now and I don't want to miss anything. In my thoughts, if we both can't come out winners then one of us just lost valuable time.

I think the worst thing to face would be that I always wanted my wife to be more sexual and to not be part of it in a satisfying way would be ignoring my greatest fantasy. Add to that being seen as less sexually desirable. That would be hard to take.

What are your ages? We are a age gap couple.

 

[coastalkid]

What are your ages? We are a age gap couple.

We're six months different of being the same age. We're both retired public school teachers so we're definitely older.

 

[Goodhusband]

Seams like she has no interest for you now anyway, make the hot wife thing to happen and join the party in the middle of the hit. Maybe you can try some cock too, its a big turn on for women

 

[coastalkid]

Hi,
I cuckolded my husband for the first time about 8months ago, still seeing Matt now, while me and Paul (husband) still have sex it’s much much less and to be honest, I want it less from him, I try to give him a handjob to make him cum so it doesn’t lead to sex, so yes it may well go that way, it’s not something I expected but it has.

Ouch! How's your husband handling that? Are you hoping he'll come to accept it and give up on having sex with you ever again?

 

[pande75]

Ouch! How's your husband handling that? Are you hoping he'll come to accept it and give up on having sex with you ever again?

He is much more accepting of things now, not had sex with him in months, it’s just how it is now.

 

[robbiewillsucku]

tease him - now that you are a cuckold you get hand jobs - then watch him and tell him to jack off for you. Then lick his cum off his cock cause the next step is to become a sissy cuckold.

 

[kolakola6969]

He is much more accepting of things now, not had sex with him in months, it’s just how it is now.

That sucks !!!